Yes, you’re right. Whatever happens... the kids should have the stability of staying in their own home.Id it wer me I would not be leaving that house if it is over , I don’t care if it’s “his” house it’s his children’s home. I’d be suggesting a nice local 1 bed apartment for him while they sort things out. If Aoibhe and the children move out and he stays in that house alone I’ll be horrified
I feel v sorry for her and the kids. As others said, perhaps reading the comments here in the summer made her realise she was never going to be able to trust him. Obviously I don’t know them or their situation but I hope if they have split up that it’s amicable. Best for all concerned.