Question 4 (I think?? I've lost track)
“What is your minimum limit sexually with your partner?”
When Ryan is home, they have sex 2 - 4 times per day
“And also I've talked to Ryan because we are very active and sexually. And I have said, like, obviously when we have a baby, like we're already having these important conversations now. And I've said, you know, how are we gonna survive?
No, I've just said, you know, when the time comes that I, you know, we have the newborn and it's going to change the dynamic sexually in the beginning. Like, let's be real, it does not absolutely ever have to change it once you are well again and feeling nourished and healed and all the things. But I've said, rest assured, I will absolutely be asking and open to receiving like touch and massage and being held and being loved and being looked after by the masculine, including, like I've said, like bodywork and a back rub or my legs rubbed or whatever else, so he can feel.”
“Yeah, so much of the foreplay for a woman is what happens over the whole course of the day before it actually becomes the moment of being intimate. And when all of those needs aren't being met, like.
And that's like, this is a whole other episode because it's talking about that, like that's when we talk about the masculine and the feminine and how the feminine is so in her masculine and she is frustrated and exhausted and over it and turned off because she's in the masculine. She's having to protect to lead, to provide. So she's walking in the door and hubbies or boyfriends coming over to rub her back, looking for some doing the good, what is it, bad thing on the good foot, whatever.
And she's like, get the fuck off me, which I totally understand. But then that's where we can have this whole conversation around what healing that looks like and the power of intimacy and the importance of intimacy and then getting polarity back into the relationship and allowing the king to become the king and leave the home so he can give more and you can receive more. So yes, there “there is absolutely no minimum”