Anna Mathur

[Thecatthatgotthesourcream]

She claims to be doing everything she does for others , maybe at the start - but she is a victim of her own success , it’s all about her own self satisfaction and gratification now, you honestly think she would have more sensitivity as a therapist and not share expensive fitt memberships or jumpers when due to a global pandemic people have significant financial struggles and have anxiety related to this! I wonder what Her regulation body BACP think - I’m sure BACP register is for counsellors yet she claims to be a psychotherapist which is considerably more experience and training to use that title , also to stay registered you must have to actually see clients rather than write books on your own experience and what has been helpful , anyone could do this!

I don’t mean to invalidate her experiences , a baby with reflux And sleep deprivation is hard , but it’s temporary , so please shut about it now as some people had lifelong battles which cripple their everyday function
She is a very privalidged person and as we know she will be unable to recognise this point of view and keep denying it to herself ! Wake up Anna

meh! Offload over !

 

[Basicbasic]

Master of contrived and completed self created scenarios. Gotta appear relatable/ anxious/shy/depressed/worried/ stressed right Anna? That 100k Insta salary is growing with every(10 x) daily swipe up.

 

[Basicbasic]

that's what makes it worse. Her selling is by stealth and as a health care professional, selling health care, her duty of care is higher than that ood someone like Mrs hinch. She plays on, and creates/ contrives insecurities, then comes the hard sell sell sell. It's way worse than the bog standard Insta mums selling us cleaning products and housewares. The most cringe aspect is the very fake conversations/double entendres she stories about where she makes herself look like an accidental Bridget Jones/Benny hill.

 

[Flyingbaby]

She paints this picture that she’s a struggling mum of 3 struggling with day to day house running, struggling with mental health, every outing has some sort of car drama but in reality she’s a well off (not that it matters hugely) highly educated, very shrew business woman and the fact she’s preying on vulnerability makes my blood boil! I used to really like her and now I’ve had my eyes opened - she has a lot of help but she doesn’t show it she wants to show the struggle and it’s making me raw!

 

[Nellyboy]

Yes still don't get the high functioning bit , when she has a live in nanny, cleaner and pa, and frequent melt downs - not high functioning at all

I can’t stand her another fake Surrey privileged instahun.

 

[Pomegranate]

I followed her when she was mama scrapbook and before she even had 10 k and she used to be one of my favourite accounts. I think anyone that knows Anna from the start will not be following her now. Well I certainly wouldn’t. Huge change and I don’t know if she has really changed that much or if she was really was just good at hiding who she really was. Either way very very different!

 

[Clare]

Awwww poor Anna, her wallet’s too small for her £50 notes, her diamond shoes are too tight and her nanny only works half the week

 

[NoodlesToodles]

How does she pretend to live a charmed life? I am genuinely curious, as she is quite open talking about how hard things are sometimes. Her husband works long hours and goes without seeing the kids through the week at times. Shes said before she is lucky he has such a well paid job that allows her to work from home and not as many hours. She gives discount codes away no questions asked for her courses when in reality she could charge what she wants. She sold blom cards way back in the beginning and I dont remember people getting annoyed by that then.

 

[Basicbasic]

She wants EVERY mother to have a copy of her book, every maternity ward to distribute it, every heath visitor to pass it on to families, every new dad to have a read...... fuck off Anna. Talk about finding a large demographic to exploit. Has not occurred to her that most mums do NOT want it.

 

[Thecatthatgotthesourcream]

They get caught out eventually when they are crossing professional ethical boundaries - like mother of daughters

 

[NellieMo]

I can’t stand mothers who clearly are wealthy enough not to have to work lecturing us in being better parents.

I’m pretty such she has a cleaner etc. It’s very easy for her to spend hours coming up with airy fairy posts about mental health

She does have a cleaner, she’s mentioned it before. Also she has a house that cost nearly 900k!!

 

[Wolf359]

Its 'less bad' as others are doing it more, on a literal level. But my thinking was more, ive seen other IGers do it and theres no call out for it and theyre shameless with it. I didnt say Anna was right or guilt free.



Didnt want the extra pressure of everyone knowing she was writing it, i guess. I remember she would get so many comments telling her she should write a book but she always kind of shushed them. So itd make sense if she was more guarded about it? Clarity would have been good, as shes generally portrayed herself as honest, but I can understand why she didnt say.

She didn't need to say she was writing a book. She could have just said she was working on her online courses or something. She deliberately makes it look like she just fits in her psychotherapy practice and writing after the kids have gone to bed, and that's simply not the case. She's a working mother with proper childcare to facilitate - and it's very disingenuous to pretend otherwise for 'likes' and content. Especially when your audience is, by design, anxious mums.

 

[Clare]

She’s given me the rage on her latest “repost”. I agree completely with her words; motherhood, especially at the moment, is bloody hard work and I’m sure lots of us feel overwhelmed and trapped and want to scream. The difference is though ANNA, you can hand yours over to your LIVE-IN NANNY Get the fuck over yourself - I don’t know how she has the bare face to cry that motherhood is hard when she is paying another woman full time to share the load. Comments are limited too so must be more dissent on there. So many women “agreeing” and blowing smoke up her ass, makes me sick

 

[Italy2]

A bit passive aggressive?

 

[Lilinpops83]

She has had Botox. And she uses a lot of expensive products and make up. It’s not that I have an issue with her wanting to look nice - don’t we all - but the vanity is painful. Anna LOVES showing off her wardrobe, her house and her made-up face. I love a confident woman but no-one loves a proper show off. Can’t help but wonder if there is a bit of a mean girl under all that make up.

 

[Italy2]

I am sorry if I'm missing the point but what's the point of today's stories?? Anna is stupid enough to be looking for a hair clip when it's in her mouth??? Her hair is in a pony tail so why does she need a clip? She is very actively thinking and making stories like a clown when she is so tired. Why would anyone want this stupid mess to be their therapist??

Also funnily Anna doesn't like celebrating her birthday so that's why she asked Tarun to take the morning off and go for breakfast with her. Then she spent all day yesterday and the day before mentioning it's her birthday and then did a grid post about it. Alot of birthday talk for someone who doesn't like birthdays.

 

[Pomegranate]

She is so fucking plummy ( and fake )

I think she puts the accent on.
She’d love to be posh, she really is far from. Seen her stories in the past of her parents home in Wales and you know it is an average house and pretty modest - don’t mean this in a looking down on way but what I’m saying it sounds like she comes from a pretty normal family. She went to uni and got married to a guy whit a good job. And then discovered Instagram!

She hang around Binky for like five minutes so she thinks she is part of the posh scene.
Same way like she puts on Welsh accent she has an ability to put the posh accent.
I used to follow her when she was mamascrapbook or whatever the name was and she is definitely upgraded her accent since then
Super fake!
I happen to know a lot of posh people through my husbands family and trust me Anna is not posh!

 

[Thecatthatgotthesourcream]

I like others on here feel totally deceived by Anna , she has frequently in the past described herself as a high functioning personality - when followers ask ‘ how do you do it all Anna ‘ , actually I think we all might be able to do as much as her if we had a cleaner and nanny , it’s not about her high functioning ability at all, she is basically great With words and at public relation with some anxiety knowledge , basing most of it on her own chaotic life - A lot of which is fantasised to relate . I Imagine a pricey coaching session would be ‘ well when I felt this I did this’ I would not trust her for in depth psychotherapy one bit ! She posses none of the skills of a sound ethical therapist - where’s the listening skills, empathy , Boundaries?

 

[BingoWings]

She totally loves herself and is very together but obviously has staged stories with messy windswept hair etc (all for the gram of course)

It's just v clearly fake

 

[Flyingbaby]

I’ve not watched her for weeks and so you know what I’ve not at all missed her

She’s so desperate for validation in her life she needs it from the internet and then to fleece her sheep for a a downloaded “course”