Anna Mathur

[Treesy19]

I don’t even want to think what she is shaving

Oh well, it won’t be her muff. She will have a Handmaids tale in for that job.

 

[NoodlesToodles]

This is the saddest insta downfall for me. I loved her in the beginning, she helped me and I found her inspiring. But she obviously got a whiff of fame and money and that was it. Actually genuinely gutted.

 

[Slip slip knit]

Awww poor Anna; what happened to the live in nanny??

I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s actually still there but Anna is trying to be relatable

 

[diygirl40]

Such a shame as she really did have potential to be 'something' on instagram. It was so refreshing seeing someone use the platform to promote mental health and get people talking. I honestly believe if she had remained authentic, she could have had an amazing career off the back of social media. Like being a guest speaker on this morning etc. It just went to her head unfortunately and she's morphed into yet another insta-hun-mum-bot. Now she will go no further than having other insta-hun-mum-bots (like Cara suthers, hunters and heels etc) telling her she's amazing while she tries to make money from swipe up ads.

She acts like she is the only woman to have ever given birth

 

[bringingdownthebs]

Nothing wrong with having a nanny, but Anna hid it for ages as she wanted to appear relatable. She's so disingenuous and actually if you peel away the layers of fake anxiety and clumsiness you'll find she's a very very privileged white woman making money off the back off vulnerable and less privileged mums. It's appalling that her regulatory body allow this level of manipulation.

to be fair, I feel like she’s continued to hide it really as I didn’t know until I came on here and read it! At least people like the drs wife are actually honest about having live in help!!

 

[Italy2]

Why is she so over-dramatic!

I don't think she realises that if you are so dramatic and emotional then no matter how hardworking you are, you become a liability. All these mood swings and meltdowns every 2 days and she thinks Tarun would stick around forever...

 

[Italy2]

Hahahaha hahahaha this had made me laugh!! Who does she think she is could her head get any bigger?? Why would the NHS waste expensive public funds and resources on some cheap Google copy paste mimick.. piss off Anna! Go cry a river of how terrible your husband is in the corner..

Yeah you can make it happen by giving them away for free. If you are genuinely interested to help people then give them away for free? Why do you need to be paid to help someone out?

 

[Stress Ball]

Jesus since you pointed out the passive aggression I notice it so much with her! Not an attractive quality.

 

[NellieMo]

It’s also wrong that she’s included the persons Instagram handle too.

Very true. Completely unprofessional and not what you would expect from a psychotherapist!

 

[Clare]

She is the Queen of humble martyrdom. I envisage her walking around with a group of tiny violins serenading her every selfless and worn down moment Woe.is.me.

 

[Candycrush]

It is very hard with young children sometimes and I think it’s true it can get on top of you occasionally but why is she always so stressed/ screaming/ having mini breakdowns.
I really don’t understand. She has a v supportive husband, regularly has breaks and has hired help at home. A lot of her followers will have no family support, maybe difficult home life’s, why can’t she recognise her own privilege when she’s having baths/ runs/ closing her eyes or whatever nonsense she’s on about

I don’t know if she does it to pretend to be relatable or she really is like that but it is incredibly odd to be always posting these stories when she’s a therapist

baffled

This. I don't know if she's actually like this or she's pretending and I don't know which one is worse. Author of two books and makes money from her career as a therapist but she acts like this. Can you imagine Tarun's colleagues.

"Oh poor woman, looking after three kids alone. Maybe she needs to see a therapist for help".

"She has a cleaner, a nanny and she's actually a therapist herself".

"Oh, erm, OK, poor Tarun then".

 

[Puglove3]

This women doesn’t know what it is to struggle & have normal issues like normal people. She’s so self obsessed, self entitled actually quite the little brat!

 

[Italy2]

I find it hard to believe that a girl who is constantly on high functioning and cannot stop constantly forgets to send her kids in proper attire to school. Bullshittttttt

Again bullshit!! As if you just forget.... Also do you have any friends or family to share things with????

 

[Italy2]

Absolutely this. It's all part of the charade, the poor me act, the stealthy subtle boast which is constant. Poor me with my lovely husband, working from home, earning loads, in my bed, annoying me, poor me..... the narrative is so transparent. He's the personification of the non- messy messy kitchen, the non- dirty clothes pile etc etc. Fake.

I agree but what a sad way to live your life! You can't be grateful for all the nice things you have and enjoy your full-time big money earning husband and lovely family and financial security... Because you are spending half of your day whinging to thousands of strangers just so you can relate to them and sell them stuff... She is probably causing more damage to her anxiety than good.. wonder what her therapist has to say about all of this fake charade.. life is so short and you never know what's around the corner..

What if one day Anna actually faces all these problems that she pretends to have? It would be like the boy who cried wolf

 

[Treesy19]

Hardly relatable when you’ve got a nanny and a cleaner. Most mums are hitting their work, the homeschooling, meals, the meal mess, cleaning, washing, caring for pre-schoolers. Before she claims I’m a troll or jealous, it’s the fact she’s clearly hidden that she’s got this massive amount of help.

 

[Pearlpow]

The texts on her posts and stories are SO LONG.. gives me an axiety attack just trying to read them (maybe thats her plan?)

 

[Candycrush]

I’ve followed her since the mama scrapbook days and would say that if she ever got to 10k followers she would do a live and surprise her husband with her account. In all that time she has never ever had a pile of washing laying around, this is why I find her content so contrived now, now she has an audience she’s trying to relate and sell to! Also, anyone else remember that live when she told T about her account and he seemed quite annoyed with her and she ended it really abruptly?

I've only followed for a couple of years so that was before my time but I've seen bits of two lives that she's done with Tarun since. I felt a bit awkward in both as he made her end them because he was clearly fed up of them. He's definitely not an IG person and probably wants left out of it. I used to watch her stories most days but I haven't in ages because I just went off them. There were too many and I felt a lot were a bit faked for the gram and I think I just got bored. Seeing the thread on here made me watch some over the last week and I wasn't keen on her saying buy my book quick because I'm not sure how many Amazon have left or something like that. It's a shame as I used to like her page. She's replies to people who message or comment (years back before the book was even in the picture) and when she does lives she makes an effort to read everyone's comments. Small thing but something that drives me mad is when people do lives and then ignore people commenting. I watched a mental health live that she did and it was good. She's admitted that anyone who pays full price for her courses allow her to pay for childcare so that she has time to produce more content and to be fair, she's probably right that she could charge way more for the courses if she wanted to (I've never done them so can't comment on that).

 

[SilverSpoonNotIncluded]

She is a very wealthy privileged and lucky girl who tries so hard to relate to the average mum struggling to make ends meet.

Here is an example of Anna just moaning about something in life and playing up the anxiety...
She has a £750 John Lewis lamp in her living room but Anna would never mention it. She would happily story all day about how Florence cried in the car though....

So if you have expensive lamps you can’t also find it stressful if your baby cries all day?

 

[Italy2]

Tarun, and intervention is needed.

Poor guy! He needs intervention to get out of this trapped marriage

 

[Italy2]

Also has anyone noticed that all the tops and clothes links she shares are £50 each at least in the sales so most pieces of clothes she buys are around £75-£100 per item. A bit tone deaf for majority of people during the pandemic. I highly doubt that her followers that she targets i.e. struggling and working mums are able to afford these clothes constantly.. or maybe it's just me who thinks £75 per jumper is not affordable for the vast majority