Anna Mathur

[Thecatthatgotthesourcream]

She doesn’t even look after them half the time , they are at school, with the nanny, Or being looked after by her husband at the weekend so she can get on with “work” aka advertising experiences , or podcasts to Talk about herself (validate herself and life) , then moans about how difficult it is when she Is with them, she should know as a therapist the fundamentals for building a secure base in childhood, I have never seen her actually play with her children. She is so high maintenance and needy, perhaps this is why she finds life so difficult due to her high expectations of how it should be for her ?! Not high functioning at all just high expectations. This never fits with having kids and the kids often end up damaged, and why some People find the adjustment to giving their all to their children so difficult - and then turn it into a ‘thing’ that they need their own needs recognised . it is so strange the dycotomy between how much she loves herself and how much she thinks she has issues with self worth , maybe she is quite black and white and with all the gram and book admiration she has swung from not feeling worthy to feeling completely worthy and more worthy than anyone else in her life ? She has regular therapy doesn’t she - another sign of high maintainence tripe Behaviour, weekly therapy to discuss her - she is not in the depth of a mental disorder which requires treatment , can’t her therapist see this and gently encourage her to notice her patterns , probably not she wants her money I assume

 

[Patata]

It’s so strange - all the reviews of her sofa sessions sound like they’ve been written by the same person

 

[Treesy19]

With a cleaner and a nanny no wonder she can have a bath in the middle of the day.

 

[Italy2]

She has already done 2 swipe up for her book and course today. She is sat plugging her book from the car journey to the hotel so you can't tell me she is in it for the better good of the community. She is just making money. She is on her way to an expensive and lovely hotel and she is busy selling her £45 course. What does it say about her whole Instagram persona?

 

[OneLineResponse]

She exhausts me. I confirm I would never ever go to her for help.

 

[Italy2]

I feel sorry for her children because they deserve better than to be used as content for mum's self loathing and frustrations. She may not show her children's faces but she is humiliating them on an everyday basis with the constant rage and guilt posts and need for self care. If she was my mum and I grew up to read those posts with my head in them then I'd never forget her for those and would be really hurt. Imagine Charlie being bullied in school fast forward few years later because kids have been reading his mum's posts about how he is such a handful and she can't cope... It's not good for children's mental health and upbringing.

 

[Ohflogoff]

For someone who bangs the “be present” drum, she’s, erm... well... not very present

 

[obviously....]

I wouldn't want her as my therapist

No boundaries at all

 

[Italy2]

Should she really be sharing this information with potential and real clients as a health care service provider? Are therapists not required to maintain professional relationship with clients?

Also the whole new montage of I used to be this and now I'm this... Honey you are only in your 30s and people don't develop their personalities until their 20s anyway so what's the whole deal about you being a completely different person some 5 years ago????? It's not like you are a 50 years old with years and years of bad habits that need serious work to change them..

 

[Londoner]

I honestly don’t know who I loathe more, Instagramers selling us perfect life through ‘products’ or likes of Anna selling us self help books for our mental health. Saving us all from ourselves. Wrong on so many levels.
I can’t believe how many people are so impressed with what she says as if she is saying something new or profound.

 

[OneLineResponse]

She does accept gifts and just hides them in stories. Any experience pr package and Anna will be the first to grab it...

Also I agree with the above poster. I think marriage for Anna was a checklist tick box where she can marry a guy with a stable and good income and then move on... Now she has achieved it she is already bored of him and can't be bothered with it...

I would support Neom if instead of sending freebie gifts to accounts that can pay for them, they decided made a donation which covered the cost of the freebies. £1 per £30(ish) influencer package does not encourage me.

 

[Basicbasic]

A lot of these scenarios are fake. I don't believe anything she posts about. It's all one big lie to hide her extreme priviledge.

 

[caitlinbullen]

Agreed. A lot of what she shares could just be with friends? “Shit I nearly forgot the PE kit thing!” or “Just found a bloody lush jumper and splurged” I mean it’s still not that interesting, but it’s certainly not interesting to strangers on the internet. Does she have any friends? The only social stuff she does seems to do with her therapist or hairdresser?

 

[Londoner]

Exactly!! Why have 3 kids if you don't want the work that comes with it? It was your choice to have all those children... Lovely for them to grow up and read up all about their mum's lovely moaning about them constantly on social media

Her response would be probably you can still find it hard and love your kids, which I get but it’s totally put on. And the ‘three’ kid family seem to be the norm if you are an Influencer. I literally know so so many accounts now that have gone to have their third But yes family planning should involve more thought especially like Anna who’s seem to have not coped well after having babies.
I was shocked to learn about her having the third after her struggles.
I know people will disagree perhaps I also absolutely hated her post about imagining throwing the baby off the bridge or something like that. I do get intrusive thoughts myself but more in terms of something bad happening to my family or myself. But harming your baby just made me feel sick. I know she got a lot of likes for it and people relate I personally found it too much!
Sorry to anyone who might of experienced this. X

 

[Italy2]

So Anna had another relaxed day going for a walk with her friend and recording herself with random filters on Instagram... Interesting how she is so exhausted and overworked constantly

 

[Ohflogoff]

The more I see, the more uncomfortable I feel. Surely this is against professional guidelines

 

[Ohflogoff]

And yet do you remember all she has a driving anxiety, or has she overcome that?
Or was that only for the content

She read her book and it changed her life. Swipe up and you’ll see how amazing it is

 

[NellieMo]

Your printer doesn’t work very well? Buy yourself a new one then - it’s not like you’re struggling for money is it. Honestly! What a pointless story.

 

[Wolf359]

If you don’t like the attention on your birthday it’s very easy to just simply not mention it’s your birthday. No one need be any the wiser.

 

[Treesy19]

Followed for over a year or more actually and first time I’ve seen a story or mention of “Ella” and the fact she lived there A live-in nanny so fail to understand how she struggles.