I do feel sorry for her. And I think she’s a nice enough girl but she just makes me cringe. Everything is so dated and just to fit in.
I don’t think she’s very happy in life in general and I don’t know what her relationship is like with the partner because she doesn’t mention him that much. Now I’m not going to discuss salaries or anything but to say it made sense for her to be the one working when she’s on a nhs band 2 wage is a bit strange. I’m probably reading between the lines but I just get the impression she doesn’t do much for herself and I feel a bit sorry for her- however she can be a bit like...irritating.
Sorry I don’t really have a life right now but to follow on from my last post- I think she maybe has to “look after” the partner John as well. She made reference to all his medication
(2 items) and her sons medication being separated so she can easily just grab them and lay them out. Lay them out! Wtf who would let their partner run about after them when she has three kids, a full time job, clearly is running the home still as she’s using this opportunity to tidy and clean the place since she’s off work.
just reading between lines and going from my own past experiences but I think maybe the partner drags her down a bit and could be doing more to help her.
I’m on 7 types of medication three times a day and I manage to take my pills myself, do the chores and work a full time job as a nurse.