Anna Bey #9 School of Affluence (Escorting)

[thirdworldgal]

My dear elegant ladies, sorry for grammar and spelling mistakes - English isn't my first language and unlikely Aija, I won't pretend I am good at it.

I'm exactly the type of woman Aija is targeting: from a third world country, poor background, parentless and/or rough upbringing and experiencing a little of success in life (e.g able to pay for her course) and let me tell you: she isn't fooling us either.

I came across her videos on Youtube years ago. At first glance I found her content interesting, she seemed authentic, and I really needed advice navigating the "wealthy" new world I was getting into. Very soon her content stopped resonating with me as it clearly lacked substance and real life experience.

By the same time I found her YT videos, I joined her free FB group, and unlikely many ladies here, I did find it useful. Way more useful than all the content she ever did. Mind you: being from a very poor family in South America, I didn't learn etiquette or matters from the people that brought me up. All those silly "is it elegant?" questions were truly helpful to me bc I was honestly clueless, and this I give to Aija. She brought up a community that taught me all the very basic I wasn't able to learn at home. I am just stating this because I've seen many of you mocking it. I get it, it might seem absurd to someone that grew up living that life to see such ridiculous questions, but let me tell ya, the struggle is real lol

Despite that, we are not stupid. I am not from the ocean-front beach house type of family, and even I never fell for her marketing campaign, and I am sure the typical South American girl wouldn't either. We might be poor and clueless about manners and etiquette, but it is very hard to fool and get money out of us, specially bc money is so scarce here that we all learn to think a thousand times before giving it so some clown that promises too much and show no proof of what she is selling.

Since that fake as hell backdrop after the moving to Geneva I was sure she was full of sh*t. Who the f**k flaunts about a rich boyfriend, then moves in with him (after telling all her students to secure that ring and to never give in to a man before securing the fuck*ng ring) and can't even afford to have a room nice enough to film in it without having to use a fake backdrop?

After that came the hotel furniture background, that although I had no clue it was 4s, I could swear it wasn't her place. All this time, no IG stories besides a few restaurants and hotels + trekking in neon outfits and huggin trees. That privacy BS is the worst lie an influencer can tell. If you want privacy, you wouldn't be a (bad) influencer in the first place, and would live a reserved life.

That all being said, in the very beginning she made me question my relationship in a disgusting way, and I am ashamed of it. My fiancée is a hardworking, loving and hot "average Joe". He came from a sh*t hole as bad as I did, and through a lot of hustle we are middle/upper middle class ATM. We socially climbed through our company, and I am happy I didn't listen to Aija and broke up with him - which was one of her main advices in the beginning. He is able to provide me and our family with way more than her "fiancé" ever will - comfortable life and real love, for what that matters.

I am also glad I found this forum. I read many unnecessary and hurtful words about us, the "third country gals" and people that have no family to relate to on Christmas, but also a lot of hard truth that opened my eyes about reality outside my bubble. Keep spilling the tea ladies

 

[itsverynice]

For any new readers - this is just to show that her luxurious curated interior background is actually 4seasons in Geneva. She was pretty much just moving lamps and vases around while filming. To a lot of buyers of her course, it was quietly & falsely implied that it's her home - and that was the selling trick.

 

[Alexis19]

I keep seeing the age topic, which intrigues me. I'm myself 33 years old (so one year younger than Anna) - which also could mean that I'm 40 according to some. and the comparison with 20 year-old "fresh" girls.
I am a strong believer that age is just a number, though. I wouldn't trade being in my thirties with twenties for nothing in the world. I feel at my best now, I feel so much more confident and I do think that I look much better. I would go back in time but only to fix things I would have liked to do differently or not to miss opportunities like I did because I was not mature enough. At 20 I was naturally skinny, but now I am fit and strong and more active than I've ever been. It is not mandatory to get saggy or wrinkly if one takes good care of themselves. I always said that and will keep saying it.
People actually think that I am around 25, and this is not to brag, as it is not always great in the corporate world, which means that I had to work harder to prove my value and that I am not only a pretty/ young face with no brains.
Maybe there are here older women, so I'd really like to convey this message - that you can look amazing at any age and it is not a cliche! I am an advocate of hard work in everything that I did, professionally and aesthetically. For me that's "levelling up".
The photos of those Instagram babes - we all know they don't look like in their pictures. I've seen enough in real life, so I don't find it healthy to compare with them. Many of them are so lazy they can't even walk, so they do have cellulite at 20, which I don't at 33. Yes, I saw that at the beach in many fancy destinations where all of them come to take photos they facetune then for hours.
Again, this post is not about me, I just want to support and empower women they can look amazing at any age and there is no "expiry" date.

 

[J.Tarac]

Don't dare saying she NEVER wanted you to believe it's her home.

Aija, you're sick!

Oh, and what to say about this?

If anyone can actually recognize her in that frame, please let me know, but so far I guess she was just too lazy that day.

Another thing that caught my attention.

The first one is supposed to be in a hotel, right? The second and the third are from recent videos. How come the painting, the lamp and even the drawer are the same? Someone please help me out. I just can't believe she took all these things to the hotel.
It's a whole other level of insanity!

 

[JessicaBoop]

Hi Girls,

I just created an account to say THANK YOU !!!

I spent the day reading all the threads and you opened my eyes so much ! I Was one of the dumbs who got Anna's oh wait Aija's video recommended and I just believed it !!! I thought it was her real name and that was her appartement and I thought she was married to some Swiss guy from an Aristocratic family... I spent hours watching her videos on etiquette even fell asleep next to some of them.. and I am on the waiting list for the course and today morning or yesterday I got an SMS saying it's gonna be launched soon sooo I was putting money aside for it! Thanks to you I will not spend so much for her to buy some used fancy bags and fool more people. It's really unbelievable what she does and the amount of research you guys did, wow !!! I have to admit that since I followed her insta I felt something was off but I thought she just didn't like the bragging due to the "elegant" thing plus I had the idea her "husband" was some Aristocratic guy and I thought that's probably why (I don't know where I got that idea from --'). But her last youtube videos I admit I couldn't go half way through them they seemed so rubbish. But omg I feel so dumb now jeeez !!! Having those videos in a hotel room and showing the pillows and telling us how important it is to have silk pillowcases while it's not even her actual bed !!! Ewwwwww !!! I really used to see her as elegant and even beautiful but after all I saw I can't see her the same way again and yes those fillers are too much !!
I really think this thread should go more public because unfortunately and I admit to it there are people like me who will just fall for it... People who have no previous knowledge or friends to double check with and they will see her as the only way to start this awesome journey she promotes.

 

[Katya_S]

By the way I don’t want to sound mean but who the hell consults an astrologist for financial issues when they have a banker boyfriend in Geneva? They even talked about stock markets on the session

 

[laurensanchez]

Talking about what's she's doing at the moment, what book is she reading? Any book recommendations from her (Not the ones from the course though)? Maybe reading during those summer/digital detox holidays when she had more time?

An end of year review of her fav books?

Anna? Read? You must be new.

This comment literally made me snort like a pig!

Back to elegance now, my dear mango.

By the way the charity responded to me and said they have no record of Anna Bey ever donating or reaching out to them.

 

[Mpp]

Laurensanchez you are such a badass. Wow. Just had to say it, since i've been reading through everything from thread #1 (home office pleasures).

I just can't believe someone in their healthy mindset would think that a rich man will solve all your problems - it won't and never will. When i got engaged i quit my draining day job in customer service (my husband said he would look after me and he has done so) but not for one second i considered that he should be my only provider forever. After we got married i started my own business (i am very grateful because he has financed most of it) and i love to work. I love to be able to make gifts and surprises for him, without having to think about whether i have the money for it or not. Anna's video saying that you shouldn't make any gifts for your man was just... so entitled it made me sick.

By the way - when i didn't work i was doing everything around the house, this was my way to contribute since i had the time and the will for it. I had no problem (still don't tbh) with cooking, cleaning etc. I couldn't even imagine just sitting at home like a Barbie doll waiting for presents and cash.

I come from a poor backround so i am not afraid of working hard. When i first met my husband he's business wasn't doing so well so he was embarrased to drive me home with his car (it was a pretty old car tbh ) and i didn't even notice.
I wasn't attracted to his wallet i was attracted to his soul. Now i am doing the job that i love AND my husband is also providing for me. But it is no longer a need, it is a privilege and we love and support each other.

So for all the girls out there sitting in hotel lobbys with "elegant" fucking dresses on - Surprise surprise - rich men don't like gold-digger thirsty women. You are a one night fun, not a wife material. Nobody cares how you hold your wine glass and if you tell him bro. Stop the act and be your beautiful, authentic and sparkling self. This might take you somewhere. You may not find a rich husband, but you probably will find friendships and relationships that are sincere and you'll live a happier life than a "stiff elegant disappointed old lady".

Huh, sorry for the long comment, just had to get it out of my system. And - english is not my first language, so please be gentle.

Have a beautiful day ladies.

 

[severedmind]

Someone will always be the bottom 20%. So a man without money is worthless, but all women deserve everything simply because they are women? Now who is the sexist one?

Speaking of this...I know I'm ranting a lot here so I apologize!! But here are some screenshots from her stories. Her message keeps flipping from "how to bag a billionaire and be provided lavishly for" to "I'm so humble and spiritual, all I need is true love from a good man".

Then why are you charging women $1000 for a course in how to get a rich man, be provided for and imitate "the elite"? Why do you have hours of content telling women (escort) tactics on:
- Where to meet rich men
- How to ask him for gifts
- How to spend inordinate amounts of time on your looks in order to attract a rich man
- Why you should give up dating "average joes" and only go for millionaires
- Which cities, hotels, stores and brands should be your only choices if you want to rub shoulders with "the elite/affluent" -- and yes, all of her recommendations had nothing to do with "the power of nature" and they were all extremely lavish, expensive and "extraordinary", not simple.

If all that truly matters is "the power of nature", and the grandiosity and price of gifts and experiences don't matter, then what, truly, is the purpose of your course? Why teach gullible women to model their lives copying "jetsetbabes" who by now everyone knows are escorts?

Does she think she sounds virtuous when she makes these kinds of posts? Because it actually makes her look worse. She's taking $1000 from women to teach them to completely conform their looks and behaviour to the Eastern European Escort Standard™ so they can chase a completely unsustainable, materialistic lifestyle from a specific group of men who make up 1% of the population. Then she turns around and says all of those expensive things don't matter in the end anyway. (Side note: of course Anna doesn't really think it matters, since she's never lived that lifestyle nor "bagged" a man that provided it for her, hence why she's scamming to try and provide it for herself now ).

Her attempt at re-branding is obvious and so badly timed. They've gone from how to bag a billionaire/live the escort lifestyle to how to be an elegant lady in high society and attract high-value men. But the proof of what she originally stood for is up on the internet forever and and we all know what she really means by these new terms anyway:

1. 'Elegant Lady' = Essentially an escort/sugar baby but look classy enough that that people don't immediately think so.
2. 'High Society' = Apparently anyone who is at least a millionaire or the wife/girlfriend of, especially the men and women on the jet set circuit.
3. 'High-Value Men' = Rich men who will buy you a Birkin and take you to the Ritz and expect nothing from you except your "feminine energy".
4. 'Feminine Energy' = Do I even have to say or can it be inferred easily?

Meanwhile, her students/fans:

 

[laurensanchez]

Ironic that Biolog Re are thinking she's an influencer.

None of her followers can afford the treatments.

Definitely none of them live in Geneva.

So what is the point of giving her free stuff?

I'm in two minds about writing to them and saying that the person promoting their product has a very shady background and it affects how I see their brand.

 

[annika]

She can't hide her true colors forever, it just shows through. No one can fake it 24/7, sooner or later you slip. Micro facial expressions, body language etc. Or also in her case her true fashion sense. We all have our bad styling moments (at least I do for sure), and I think there's nothing wrong with dressing the way you like and feel comfortable but she's contradicting herself on a regular basis. Just dress the way you like, be upfront of it and own it.
I used to like her and to listen to her tips, now I can't even look at her without seeing her false façade. I don't know, maybe it's because I've read all these threads, she just also seems different than before, all her demeanor is just... so smug. Also, she has become lazy, there's no new interesting content, it has become an utter nonsense. I also believe that her launching a podcast was a bad move, it's such a poor quality. The more she talks, the more she needs to defend herself.

 

[J.Tarac]

The same people that ask if carrying an umbrella when it's raining is elegant.

 

[Gingersnap 29]

The questions she is asking herself on instagram stories today are just straight off of tattle. I'm dead

 

[J.Tarac]

Well, there goes your flamboyant certified image consultant, the hourglass queen, and some of her outfit choices from this year (taken from threads #5, #6, #7, #8).

And remember, the year is even not over yet.

 

[laurensanchez]

My dear elegant mangoes.

Taking a break from Christmas prep to pop in and wish you all happy holidays. Of course you heard about the UK ban and new corona strain. I am counting my blessings. Home, family, health. I wish you all a wonderful season and please hug your loved ones tight!

Anyway back in fantasy land where Scamanna resides, wouldn't it be funny if Switzerland banned flights back? She could be left to rot on an isolated island where she belongs. Now all we need is to cut her wifi so she can't post her boring ridiculous pandemic hotel stories.

 

[witchofwestbyfleet]

She has blocked me on Instagram even though I've never interacted with her. So I can only conclude that she combs parody accounts looking to see who's liked or followed them so she can block - get a life, Anna

 

[Michelle05]

She’s wearing a pyjama for a flight, we’ve all seen those kinds of people in the airport boarding their charter plane going to sunny beach.

yes that garish chanel looks super fake, probably bought in turkey. Just compare how she brags and flaunts when finally being allowed in to Hermes with Lina to the lack of proofs of purchase for her own items. 100% fake.
Who brings a lamb skin flap bag to a beach vacation, it’s just common sense.
We can see loud and clear why she couldn’t make it in Stockholm lol

 

[Michelle05]

I don’t get her, she goes to beautiful places and doesn’t even leave the resort?
Seychelles has amazing nature, culture and interesting history and she just sits on a beach wearing 2014-jewelry taking awkward pictures of herself and goes to the same empty hotel restaurant every night.
She looks so desperate to resemble an Instagram hooker/jsb but she’s just not on that level.
It looks so sad!
She is the most basic bitch of all basic bitches I’ve ever seen.

She went to st tropez this summer and went to the same boring basic tourist beach club every day filming her food. Same in turkey and Greece. What’s the point?

She’s flat as a pancake intellectually.

 

[christyyy93]

Hi girls, so my fashion video is out. I will be happy if you watch it and that you like it. I think I said everything I wanted to say and that was on my heart. The first part of the video is introduction to the whole topic then I talk about Annas advice and what I think of it and in the third part I talk about what I think of her style


Here is the link. Feel free to share it anywhere

 

[TheMedicine]

Thot be gone.

I really wanna know WTF she carries in there...

Frames, pillows, lamp, armchair, tacky curtains double as beach cover up.