Anna Bey #7 School of Affluence Fraud - Aija Raty

[Lalaland22]

This girl from her live was one of the few, or maybe the only real example she ever presented, of someone who had
actually achieved something of what she was preaching.

and lets be downright honest, the thing that makes this school of thought so attractive to many is the material gain and the lifestyle.

That was promising, and that was what brought her the attention of hoards of women after media gave her so much attention.. also in the media she was still being open that sex and maybe some other rather shady things are a big part of this lifestyle. And most of the women came, knowing that.

At the beginning of her blog, she was honest about the way into that society might be a bit shady, and that especially freestyling was a big part of it.
But suddenly there is apparently a formula, when before, it was all much about little tips and tricks. All you needed was the looks, the personality and a bit of sassiness, what to do and where to go.

Now its only about basic manners everyone should already know and polished looks, honestly, that alone gets you absolutely nowhere.

 

[Shekshouka]

This girl from her live was one of the few, or maybe the only real example she ever presented, of someone who had
actually achieved something of what she was preaching.

and lets be downright honest, the thing that makes this school of thought so attractive to many is the material gain and the lifestyle.

That was promising, and that was what brought her the attention of hoards of women after media gave her so much attention.. also in the media she was still being open that sex and maybe some other rather shady things are a big part of this lifestyle. And most of the women came, knowing that.

At the beginning and on her blog, she was honest about the way into that society might be a bit shady, and that especially freestyling was a big part of it.
But suddenly there is apparently a formula, when before, it was all much about little tips and tricks. All you needed was the looks, the personality and a bit of sassiness, what to do and where to go.

Now its only about basic manners everyone should already know and polished looks, honestly, that alone gets you absolutely nowhere.

IMO she was already “levelled” up before starting Anna’s course and didn’t really need it

 

[Lalaland22]

ah yeah absolutely, there's no way this girl got to where she is with her course. She just used common sense. Just like all the other jetsetbabes.

Hence, the real formula to that lifestyle is literally: freestyling

 

[maria99]

Ok what is this freestyling exactly? Is it looking for money in exachange for sex, in hotel bars?

 

[Shekshouka]

Ok what is this freestyling exactly? Is it looking for money in exachange for sex, in hotel bars?

It’s looking polished and doing what you can to look your best, going to literally anywhere rich people are and either networking and putting yourself out there or sitting, smiling and looking pretty until you get approached.
Mixture of confidence, ?luck, being a good flirt, looking hot, being a good conversationalist (man depending, some would rather have someone that’s just hot) and building up contacts

outcome is whatever you want it to be.

 

[maria99]

Ah I see. So nothing to do with prostitution. It was mentioned earlier in the threads that Aija did freestyling which was a proof she was an escort which Is why I am confused

 

[SummerRayne]

It’s looking polished and doing what you can to look your best, going to literally anywhere rich people are and either networking and putting yourself out there or sitting, smiling and looking pretty until you get approached.
Mixture of confidence, ?luck, being a good flirt, looking hot, being a good conversationalist (man depending, some would rather have someone that’s just hot) and building up contacts

outcome is whatever you want it to be.

OMG, you crazy girl, just spilled the secret of the Elite Women FOR FREE!

 

[laurensanchez]

Quick delete before she tried to steal your advice and make an "eleghannnt wihvess" course for 2500

Like I said she doesn't have the answers. She hasn't even bagged a starter husband yet. She'd have to hire a man to pretend to be hers.

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Now compare to Anna's trips lol.

 

[SummerRayne]

Ah I see. So nothing to do with prostitution. It was mentioned earlier in the threads that Aija did freestyling which was a proof she was an escort which Is why I am confused

It depends on how you define prostitution. Actually there are no hard facts and no real proof that Anna was an escort - with an agency or as an independent. These are just rumors. The same rumors every pretty girl gets where it is absolutely unclear how she funds her lifestyle. For some prostitution starts when you get financial support from your boyfriend, for some even being a street "worker" can be romanticized. Not a surprise many students of Anna love the movie "Pretty Woman".
My opinion: I doubt that Anna was a real professional. I guess she was the one happy to be invited, get a handbag and the red roses, a wanna be. Perhaps she had some arrangements but nothing of substance.

There is no dark side of dating a wealthy men. That is nonsense. There is only a dark side when you are totally dependent on his money. Or when he thinks you are a professional and you think it is a romance.
So there are dark sides of escorting and prostitution. Very dark for naive girls. Some girls in Anna´s groups still believe that there are escorts who get money just for company, no sex involved. Sure. As common as unicorns. So for these girls the dark side comes quite quickly. I waited in some discussions for Anna or the Admins to get in and say some clear words about escorting and protect the naive girls which dream of white knight. The white knight you attract at hotel bars is the guy who has the number of three escort agencies on short dial in his mobile and expects a good return for his money.

Anna fuels the dreams of naive girls promising them diamonds and leaving them with coal. The drama is that Anna didn't get the diamonds with the way she teaches. The stuff she teaches belongs to fairy tale land. She would be more credible in coaching how to build and monetize a brand.

 

[Yellowguccibag]

Early on, Anna did state that she freestyles essentially to get money from men. In my mind payment for sex or accompanying men is escort/prostitute. She was an escort with an agency but didn’t last long, she was also a yacht girl (she admits this in the cosmo article).

In London she said a man paid for her flat (gave allowance of up to 5000 pounds/month) where she lived alone until brexit or something happened.
Anna also stated multiple times that sex is transactional, and at the heart of it, I think she wanted more. She wanted to fit in with the high end lifestyle without having to be an escort. While some women marry into an upscale lifestyle, Anna was not so lucky, wearing a fake engagement ring around the house while repeating the law of attraction books. Other women might make friends in the circle, or have a job that services that circle (owning a luxury furniture shop, for instance).

Nope, Anna and her fake ring were cut off and she was forced to live in Geneva and make her own money in exchange for a roommate who might or might not pay her living expenses.

I often wondered if brexit had anything to do with leaving London as well,perhaps her Visa didn’t allow her to? I’m not overly familiar with it though.

 

[SchoolOfAffluenceIsAScam]

Judging from her posts on her group. She was still freestyling in the start of the School establishment days

 

[vikka]

Brexit was the reason why many EU nationals left Britain, it was also the primary reason why spikes in citizenship applications happened (both EU nationals seeking UK citizenships and Brits seeking EU citizenships, I know for a fact that Ireland and Germany had more requests by British nationals than ever and more than a few years combined).

But no one was forced to leave Britain after Brexit (and Brexit still hasn't happened: it'll happen on the 1st Jan 2021 and it's possible that Britain will ask for an extension).

Those who lived in Britain and moved there before Brexit happened (happens) can stay. They'll have to apply for a visa, but they can stay.

It is the post-Brexit uncertainty that motivated many to leave and why movement from EU nationals to Britain in the past 4 years has decreased considerably.

Anna's move out of Britain may very well have been due to Brexit, but she wasn't forced to leave. She could've easily stayed.

There were no visa requirements at all before Brexit.

 

[schokolade]

Probably it was her (average) Joe who decided to move to Geneva and Anna followed.

 

[maria99]

Hmm years ago I was invited by one of my best female friends for a long weekend on one of the Mediterranean' islands, I knew we would stay on a yacht (owned by the bf of my best friend). Sure there were a couple of men there plus the crew but I had my own room and nothing happened between me and any men there, it was not like that at all. My friend was spending the time with me and her bf/owner of the yacht. We had civilised diners and just a regular holiday, some sightseeing and sunbathing, in fact I am still friends with a Swiss guy that was in the group. Does it mean I am a yacht girl and I guess you could you call that escorting?

 

[pipp3000]

In regards to Brexit, so many EU nationals are in London and any EU national with a job can apply for leave to remain which means they can stay, it takes 10 mins online and most people are approved immediately. London has people from all over the world so if she wanted to she could have stayed in London. In normal pre coivd times many wealthy Arabs spend their summers in London too and many wealthy Russians also live in London so if she really wanted to, she could have met a very wealthy man in London, more chance in London than Geneva.

 

[vikka]

I think everyone knows full well what a yacht girl is. Not when you have friends who own one and you're invited along.

Anna was a gogo dancer then (basically was a stripper) and was invited to a party/parties on a yacht. The expectation was to "provide good times for the men". Very different.
Models, actresses and dancers who are invited to yacht parties are yacht girls and sex and drugs are the order of the day. That is not exactly news.

 

[maria99]

The reason I ask is that someone above defined an escort as someone who is there to accompany a man/men. I had all expenses paid (flight, dinners and of course we stayed on the yacht for free) so it could be a bit of a grey area. Maybe the difference is that I was not explicitly told that I need to entertain a man/men in the group and nothing sexual was expected of me

 

[SchoolOfAffluenceIsAScam]

I've also stayed on a yacht in an extended period of time before, but that doesn't make me an yacht girl. Just like I've also lived from a suitcase for months at a time before, but nobody would accuse me of being a suitcase girl.

I think the distinction is, there wasn't expected anything of sexual nature from me.

 

[vikka]

Well no one's going to define an escort by going into every detail, as I think most know what the details are (sex in exchange and Anna herself has said that sex transactional).

Being invited by friends, all expenses paid and even if there were a party, is quite different.

If a woman is invited by friends to dinner and they invite a male friend hoping to set them up and pay for the whole thing and the man and woman end up together in bed and never see each other or get married and have 5 kids, no one is going to call that escorting.

Now if a woman is invited to dinner by friends and they say a male friend is coming along, tell her they pay for everything and the male friend wants a good time with the woman (i.e. expect the woman to have sex with the man that evening), well that's escorting for sure.

To give a simple example (an improbable one for the average person).

I think the distinction is rather clear.

I've also stayed on a yacht in an extended period of time before, but that doesn't make me an yacht girl. Just like I've also lived from a suitcase for months at a time before, but nobody would accuse me of being a suitcase girl.

I think the distinction is, there wasn't expected anything of sexual nature from me.

This.

 

[Renata]

In my experience there is a dark side when things are transactional. I know of a few girls who have been raped /assaulted by “provider types”.

maybe these men start of thinking they want an arrangement & then turn nasty? If you’re financially dependent on a man who has no obligation towards you, you're relying on his Goodwill to sustain your life. That’s a bad strategy!


it’s degrading.
If the man is married & you become demanding or annoy him in the arrangement he may dump you & move on. He has no obligation to carry on.

why would you chase a lifestyle you cannot afford yourself, to be given a taste & for it to be taken away?

that would be damaging.

how many of these escorts get a long time deal?