Hi, everyone! Just popping by from other threads. It's not going to be a popular opinion, but I don't really mind Ms Bey. She is snake oil salesman, which is nothing new. As long as there are customers, that will be lucrative business. I think she finally figured how to achieve her affluent lifestyle and her primary income is YT. I personally know a guy who is doing true crime on YT, has a channel with around 75k subs and who donated to good causes 78k so far. She is well over million subs and has at least 200k views on every video. She can afford designer rags. Does she buy original designer goods? I doubt. She is too wise for that. If she does, it's an investment. She is buying items that have permanent value on the market/collectibles.
I feel she is not a bad person at core. I feel she is badly damaged though, being through a lot before getting where she is now. I don't sense malice in her. She has strong male, active energy. That's why she failed in her attempts to achieve her goals through men. Men with money are usually alphas with same energy that she has - they are not attracted to the same energy women intuitively. They need female energy, passive and nourishing that she doesn't naturally has and can't fake. Her attempts to give feminine and seductive impression are forced and cheap, since they are not natural. She is also confused between desire to look like a lady/old money and imperative to be attractive to wealthy men. Rich men used to marry from their social circle for obvious convenience, but that is pretty much matter of the past. Even back in a day it wasn't always a case. Let's take Rothschilds who everyone knows, I presume - Jacob did precisely that, marrying aristocrat - his son Nat, however, married twice - both ladies are...well, interesting choice. Complete opposite to 'old money' type, let's put it this way.
She is very ambitious and hard working, don't be fooled - the thing is, you can achieve many things by trying hard, however, in this particular situation, the harder you try, more desperate you appear and that is never a winning combination. Anna is trying too hard. She would have better chances if she lets the pretending go and just be fun, relaxed and natural, which is what most men appreciate in women, them being affluent or 'Joes'. But she doesn't like herself very much, so she wears mask all the time, trying to fit the part she thinks affluent men like when it comes to women. That's the sad part. Aija is not good enough, she needs to change everything and to pretend all the time if she wants to be deserving, in her mind. Sadly, not all the changes she made were good. Just her lips are enough for her to not be taken seriously in circles she's desperately thriving to enter. She doesn't have naturally old money or classy aesthetic or vibe. You are part of those circles or you are not. Faking doesn't help there. You are an outsider and they know it. And you'd be better of with genuine personality that may be likable. She is visually too obvious - unlike Meghan, for example. And there is wrong energy issue. She is not a 'killer' by nature, she lacks that unscrupulous, vile streak in her. No win situation for her there. That's why she is making money off women very successfully. Gullible sods are here to stay from the beginning of times. Anna is their snake oil seller. Consenting trade, nothing illegal. Well done her, tough brake for those girls, but you do pay for the experience in life, one way or another. Anna payed for it in much worse way, than financial. The best thing she shares with those girls is to invest in themselves.
She was an escort and she went long way from that in a very short time by herself - once she figured that she is the one that has the power of changing her life. If those girls learn just that from her, it's fine. Yes, we can find million reasons why is her thing wrong or bad, but let's be real here - she is not forcing anyone to pay her anything, or to watch her content. She is no different from any influencer who is payed to flog rubbish. They are all after your money. She is not making false promises - that she will provide rich husbands for those girls once they pay for her course. She is clear about what she is selling, it's up to every individual to decide if that is worth of their money. She is using instant culture where everything is simplified, sized down to digested form, ready made and requires no brains and no effort. People love to think that they can pay for the shortcut to class, glamour, manners, style, wealth, lucrative marriage or whatever. As long as they are unintelligent enough to really believe that most of it is possible without putting time and effort into it. And even than. Internet is full of relationship gurus who teach women how to, basically, manipulate men, wealthy or poor, no difference, into commitment. Not to mention proper books about self help. psychology, business, style, anything on the face of earth that you may need in order to inform yourself and 'level up' in life. Achiee something if you were not fortunate enough that education possibilities and certain social background were not something you were born into. Those girls are choosing shortcut named Anna Bey. And that doesn't make her any less opportunist. But she is not doing anything wrong if you think about it. Not being entirely sincere about your past is not a crime. Most people are not. She isn't part of high society? She was close enough. And she saw the worst side of it, rest assured. A maid or a battler of the wealthy will give you better insight into that circles than anyone who was part of it. She sells what she learned hard way during years of very challenging lifestyle. She is pretty much open about it, or she used to be, according to what I've read here.
Again - if those girls can take the important part from her story, it's not a waste. It would be for someone else most certainly, but if they are not comprehending basics, all that she is selling will be beneficial for them.
OK. Too long for the first time. I realize it won't be popular, but that's just my two cents. Use your reading discretion, please.
Just like you (should) do when going online and giving your money or time to various contents. Stay safe everyone!
oooo, the favorite destination of Eastern Europeans who can’t afford more (‘cause Croatia is costing double )……sorry, Raty’s idea of ”high society holiday”
……how do you know it’s Greece, did she announce she found an “all inclusive” offer in some Paralia Katerini or similar ?
Actually, both Greece and Croatia have different price range offers, just like majority of destinations around the globe. You can travel both countries backpack style or stay in exclusive resorts/hotels which are, if labeled as such, little more exclusive in Greece, after all. The rest is a matter of preference. For example, I don't find Corfu to be the most striking among Greek islands, yet (again) Jacob Rothschild has based his favorite holiday home precisely there, enjoying the view on Albania every year for the last 40+ years, welcoming world elite as his guests very frequently.
There is one more thing I'd like to ask all of Tattle peops and especially mods - there has been, as far as I have been reading on here, many inappropriate, or lets say blatant racists and xenophobic comments regarding Russians, Eastern Europeans, now we have Greeks, etc. I see it as unpardonable, not necessary and intolerable. It shouldn't be going on here, and it shouldn't be tolerate. Thanks.