Anna Bey #22 Removed video, backlash, apology, TheAList, SOTEW 3.0.

[whitexsaucer]

Adding to that thought: she lacks the empathy needed to be classy. Class and manners are meant to put people at ease. You forgive people who don't know the rules. She doesn't deserve to be forgiven for breaking these "rules" because she enforces them! Do you see the paradox here?

I also think she doesn't have any female friends because what does she offer other women? Certainly not companionship and understanding. She is a huge pickme (to use her own lingo) and only cares of men's opinions and what women can offer her.

 

[Vanilla&cyanide]

I know that we already shared the hostess-escort pic here, but I have to ask: is that the toilet seat on the right at the back?

 

[Toedeloe]

But what about transactional sex, Anna?
... right

 

[whitexsaucer]

That dress makes her boobs look like they've fed 5 children.

 

[laurensanchez]

But what about transactional sex, Anna?
... right
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She insists on wearing that dress despite her not having a chest. Not elegant. And @J.Tarac have you not constantly chastised her about these dinner plates, I mean costume earrings? Why is she wearing these ugly saucers on her ears?

Anyway.

So I looked in the comments of her newest video so I don't have to actually watch or listen to her. Someone wrote the points from the video. What's hilarious is how she contradicts herself at every point. What do you ladies think? Here they are:

-Don't be stiff to be elegant especially when it comes to dating
-Don't be boring.Go outside your box
-Don't be Miss lil perfect like Stepford wife.Let your hair down .
-Don't dress too conservatively with your s/o.
-Don't be quiet to the point you do no talking .
Have a conversation -Don't use difficult vocabulary to seem more sophisticated. Would look like you're trying too hard.
Pretentiousness is a buzz killer -Don't try too hard

 

[Toedeloe]

She insists on wearing that dress despite her not having a chest. Not elegant. And @J.Tarac have you not constantly chastised her about these dinner plates, I mean costume earrings? Why is she wearing these ugly saucers on her ears?

Anyway.

So I looked in the comments of her newest video so I don't have to actually watch or listen to her. Someone wrote the points from the video. What's hilarious is how she contradicts herself at every point. What do you ladies think? Here they are:

-Don't be stiff to be elegant especially when it comes to dating
-Don't be boring.Go outside your box
-Don't be Miss lil perfect like Stepford wife.Let your hair down .
-Don't dress too conservatively with your s/o.
-Don't be quiet to the point you do no talking .
Have a conversation -Don't use difficult vocabulary to seem more sophisticated. Would look like you're trying too hard.
Pretentiousness is a buzz killer -Don't try too hard

Especially the 'let your hair down' one is a very striking contradiction
Completely agree with you by the way! I wonder... does she know?

 

[Stella_Luna]

But what about transactional sex, Anna?
... right
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Could someone more elegant please explain this to me?!

Also... New email is out with summer dresses and travel etiquette...

 

[laurensanchez]

Could someone more elegant please explain this to me?!

Also... New email is out with summer dresses and travel etiquette...

Linen dresses, or how to passive aggressively insult your "bestie" the LA Way by calling her dress wrinkled and terrible.

Also, she used the same Hotel du Cap photo that the IG page insulted her with ! No shame whatsoever.

 

[Lexi_]

Honey, where will she find friends? Unless she pays them, we will never see her highlight another woman on her channel.


Etiquette and manners does not equal elegance. The problem is she has English at the level of a 8 year old, so the words affluence and elegance have been butchered beyond recognition in her content. The "rules" you learn a lot of times are specific to your own country and culture, so she also has a very Europe-centered worldview.

Which is insane in a world where China is the next world power. Why not learn Mandarin, or something that takes brains? The European and British aristocracy she idolizes live in crumbling chateaus and castles (trust me I've seen a lot of them!). They have nothing beyond their titles most of the time, and the ones who are doing well are rich because they worked for a living and had connections. This fantasy world she promotes is hilariously out of date, like she gets ideas from Hollywood movies.

Oh I really hope she does not take up your suggestion on learning Mandarin. I never want to hear Anna try to pronounce Chinese words! It’s already badly butchered enough as is by people in films or on television. I’ve already suffered enough!

 

[Renata]

It was said before, many of the “wealthy” are close to bankcrupcy or a few bad decisions away from losing it all. Some are in a state of bitterness after the ex wife cleaned them out.

unless you illegally stalk their bank accounts/assets you don’t know who is actually wealthy.

I have known men & women to fake a luxe life when they have zero assets.
Her teachings don’t include a fallback plan & everything is aimed towards the wealthy - there is no one definition of wealthy.

 

[lalalander]

Etiquette and manners does not equal elegance. The problem is she has English at the level of a 8 year old, so the words affluence and elegance have been butchered beyond recognition in her content. The "rules" you learn a lot of times are specific to your own country and culture, so she also has a very Europe-centered worldview.
Which is insane in a world where China is the next world power. Why not learn Mandarin, or something that takes brains?

I wasn't speaking about English aristocracy! I mention etiquette because it encompasses manners and elegance. I won't mention what I learned from different cultures while working, living and observing the affluent people from around the world, don't want to give the Scum tips on that, but the affluent people from all around the world have A LOT in common. Culture-specific manners are basic knowledge to those even remotely familiar with international work.
Chinese? Are you kidding? She cannot say one sentence in either German or French (or Italian) after living for 2 years in Geneva, you expect her to learn a completely different alphabet, cultural nuances of the language and, well, actual language? This planet doesn't have enough popcorn for that!
Edit: By the way, the similarities of the elite were mentioned by someone already but I will make the Scum dance for the money - and find the clue for herself. A hint - she is already familiar with that person .

 

[RatRaty]

Adding to that thought: she lacks the empathy needed to be classy. Class and manners are meant to put people at ease. You forgive people who don't know the rules. She doesn't deserve to be forgiven for breaking these "rules" because she enforces them! Do you see the paradox here?

I also think she doesn't have any female friends because what does she offer other women? Certainly not companionship and understanding. She is a huge pickme (to use her own lingo) and only cares of men's opinions and what women can offer her.

She is a crazy women.As she has no friends, she will make a video on friendship of fictional characters of tv shows. And her followers will be like "Yes, Madam Anna is the epitome of feminine elegant female friendship. We need to follow her (fictional) rules to become elegant friends" What nonsense !

 

[lalalander]

So I looked in the comments of her newest video so I don't have to actually watch or listen to her. Someone wrote the points from the video. What's hilarious is how she contradicts herself at every point. What do you ladies think? Here they are:
-Don't be stiff to be elegant especially when it comes to dating
-Don't be boring.Go outside your box
-Don't be Miss lil perfect like Stepford wife.Let your hair down .
-Don't dress too conservatively with your s/o.
-Don't be quiet to the point you do no talking .
Have a conversation -Don't use difficult vocabulary to seem more sophisticated. Would look like you're trying too hard.
Pretentiousness is a buzz killer -Don't try too hard

Thanks for the summary (or reposting it here)! Everything she says she doesn't do herself. Does it mean she admits she's just a plain Jane - the inelegant, broke scammer ?

 

[RatRaty]

She insists on wearing that dress despite her not having a chest. Not elegant. And @J.Tarac have you not constantly chastised her about these dinner plates, I mean costume earrings? Why is she wearing these ugly saucers on her ears?

Anyway.

So I looked in the comments of her newest video so I don't have to actually watch or listen to her. Someone wrote the points from the video. What's hilarious is how she contradicts herself at every point. What do you ladies think? Here they are:

-Don't be stiff to be elegant especially when it comes to dating
-Don't be boring.Go outside your box
-Don't be Miss lil perfect like Stepford wife.Let your hair down .
-Don't dress too conservatively with your s/o.
-Don't be quiet to the point you do no talking .
Have a conversation -Don't use difficult vocabulary to seem more sophisticated. Would look like you're trying too hard.
Pretentiousness is a buzz killer -Don't try too hard

Woman has only one pair of earrings. What else can she wear !

 

[Esprit_de_Corps]

She insists on wearing that dress despite her not having a chest. Not elegant. And @J.Tarac have you not constantly chastised her about these dinner plates, I mean costume earrings? Why is she wearing these ugly saucers on her ears?

Anyway.

So I looked in the comments of her newest video so I don't have to actually watch or listen to her. Someone wrote the points from the video. What's hilarious is how she contradicts herself at every point. What do you ladies think? Here they are:

-Don't be stiff to be elegant especially when it comes to dating
-Don't be boring.Go outside your box
-Don't be Miss lil perfect like Stepford wife.Let your hair down .
-Don't dress too conservatively with your s/o.
-Don't be quiet to the point you do no talking .
Have a conversation -Don't use difficult vocabulary to seem more sophisticated. Would look like you're trying too hard.
Pretentiousness is a buzz killer -Don't try too hard

I don’t know why she insists on uploading weekly when she is so clearly out of content. These “tips” are amateur, pointless, and boring.

 

[whitexsaucer]

I don’t know why she insists on uploading weekly when she is so clearly out of content. These “tips” are amateur, pointless, and boring.

It keeps the algorithm going and bringing in views and ad revenue because, let's face it, she needs the cash!

 

[Flowerbomb87]

I mean costume earrings? Why is she wearing these ugly saucers on her ears?

I agree! Pearl earring can be very elegant but only with REAL pearls. Fake ones are so inelegant and cheap, you can spot them miles away. I wouldn’t recommend to wear small fake one so can you imagine bigger ones like hers Not only hers are fake but they are massive with fake gold around it…it reminds me of clip-on earrings little girl get in toys kit to dress up like grown up I honestly don’t expect better from her. She doesn’t have tasteful jewellery, 90% of what she wear is fake, tasteless and cheap. Her life is holding on 2 ridiculous bracelet offered by men ages ago.
Imagine being a woman preaching self love and investing in yourself but you don’t love yourself enough do it yourself. 🥱
It’s an epidemic on social media and this is how I spot cheap people acting like they are rich but they aren’t : in the details. They will have an hermes bag but will wear cheap looking H&M clip-on earring.
It’s not about the price (because some people can afford but can’t be bothered spending more than what they should), it’s about the quality.
Affluent people care about quality more than the price and will never wear something that looks cheap. There are so many tasteful jewellery at an affordable price that don’t look “cheap”. It just require taste to spot them and wear what’s best. Definitely not the rat area of expertise.

 

[Sadies]

Oki, i finally have a legit reason to say: "RIP Jet set" (mimes Babe)

Jokes aside, Chinese might actually not be too hard for her, but she should really put more focus on learning english properly before she branch out. I can kinda get away with being crappy at a bunch of languages since I was forced to learn so many at school But my main focus rn, is English, French, German, Russian and Mandarin Chinese.

 

[Crazy_chick]

I agree! Pearl earring can be very elegant but only with REAL pearls. Fake ones are so inelegant and cheap, you can spot them miles away. I wouldn’t recommend to wear small fake one so can you imagine bigger ones like hers Not only hers are fake but they are massive with fake gold around it…it reminds me of clip-on earrings little girl get in toys kit to dress up like grown up I honestly don’t expect better from her. She doesn’t have tasteful jewellery, 90% of what she wear is fake, tasteless and cheap. Her life is holding on 2 ridiculous bracelet offered by men ages ago.
Imagine being a woman preaching self love and investing in yourself but you don’t love yourself enough do it yourself. 🥱
It’s an epidemic on social media and this is how I spot cheap people acting like they are rich but they aren’t : in the details. They will have an hermes bag but will wear cheap looking H&M clip-on earring.
It’s not about the price (because some people can afford but can’t be bothered spending more than what they should), it’s about the quality.
Affluent people care about quality more than the price and will never wear something that looks cheap. There are so many tasteful jewellery at an affordable price that don’t look “cheap”. It just require taste to spot them and wear what’s best. Definitely not the rat area of expertise.

She could go for silver (cheap option) or gold. Simple studs are always chic. I don’t understand her obsession for wearing half of a dining set on her ears (those plates). Or those terrible huge “gold” loops that she loves to wear They look super cheap and she looks like a 50 yo granny. I think it’s something in her aura, her fake cheap persona that just makes everything look super cheap. When she wears a silk dress, it always looks like a nightgown. When she wears her Hermes sandals or purse (doesn’t matter) it looks like fakes bought from China bazaar. She can wear whatever expensive outfit she desires but to me, she will always look like wearing cheap dupes from bazaar. You either have class and elegance and grace within you or not. I have a friend and she wears super cheap clothes. But she always looks like a million bucks. It’s the way, how she styles her outfits, how she holds herself, how confident and happy she is in her body. Anna can have as many cheat sheets as she wants, she will NEVER look expensive.

 

[AnnaBeg]

The European and British aristocracy she idolizes live in crumbling chateaus and castles (trust me I've seen a lot of them!). They have nothing beyond their titles most of the time, and the ones who are doing well are rich because they worked for a living and had connections. This fantasy world she promotes is hilariously out of date, like she gets ideas from Hollywood movies.

During the 1800is and early 1900is American nouveau riches used to marry their daughters with aristocratic European men(who were mostly broke)in order to get accepted by American old money.Churchill's mother is example. Metropolitan opera in NY was built by J.P.Morgan,Roosevelt and Vanderbilt familes.Old money didn't let them into their opera so guys built their own.

How American 'Dollar Princesses' Invaded British High Society | HISTORY

During the Gilded Age, marrying British aristocrats was seen as a way for American heiresses to raise their social status.

www.history.com