Hello everyone! I've been following this thread for a while, I wanted to make my first post around 2 threads ago but I never got to it. I'm currently procrastinating on my uni work so I figured it's a good time to introduce myself here
(excuse my English, it's a little rusty these days)
I wanted to share my story on how I got to know Anna Scamma and how I ended up here, it might be long! I feel like it's similar to a lot of stories shared here recently but I think it's a good thing as it only shows that Anna's scam empire is failing.
So her videos were recommended to me on youtube around 1,5 years ago. I started watching them out of curiosity and my first impression of her was rather bad. I warmed up to her a little after a while, but I always had some suspicions about her (I'll tell more about it later).
Also - I immediately knew she was Russian. I'm Eastern European myself and believe me, we recognize each other.
I think I could relate a little to her since I (accidentally) experienced "social climbing" myself when I moved from my small hometown to the capital city of my country in order pursue studies. I started hanging out in all the hot party spots and meeting people who definitely had more money than me, as my background is rather modest (although unlike Anna, I'm not bitter about it and I'm extremely thankful for my family who always made sure I don't have to worry about money during my studies. I have an expensive taste and high expectations of life lol and managed to have a satisfying life during that time even though I don't own a Chanel flap bag
). I guess she made me believe that my goals are achievable and that my life can "upgrade" even more. I have to note that I made some great
affluent friends but I had a really bad taste in men and somehow managed to date dusty crusty men exclusively for a few years (thankfully this phase is over). So of course Anna's message of bagging a man who would take care of me just because I'm pretty and elegant seemed appealing to me. And I have to admit, I never was and I'm still not a fan of the 50/50 model of relationship. I NEVER EVER considered buying her course - I always thought it's a waste of money - but I watched her videos regularly and followed her on instagram.
I listened to a few episodes of her miserable podcast at the beginning (I need to listen to something when I clean the house or do my nails and I figured it can do). And that's how I ended up on tattle! Because I listened to it, one day Spotify recommended me a podcast called Anna Bey is a scam/School of Affluence is a scam (I don't remember exactly and can't find it anymore - it might've been deleted since then) with just one short episode and a link to a tattle thread in the description. Btw, if the person who posted that podcast is here - THANK YOU!
So here are my suspicions and things that never felt right to me while I was following her:
- simply the existence of her youtube channel lol. I wondered since the beginning, what does her rich
partner think of her teachings? And if she really is affluent and up in the high society, how does she justify her "job" when she meets other people? Now it's clear - she doesn't meet anyone lol. Also I feel like she once said that you are not supposed to ask people about their profession as it's not elegant, well it's obvious why she says that.
- if her man spoils her so much, why doesn't she show it? Why doesn't she show him? I never bought the "privacy" bullshit, she could've posted him without showing his face. She's obviously the type that WOULD and DOES show off whenever she can.
- the fact that she often mentioned cheap, DIY treatments such as doing her own nails, shaving her legs with a disposable razor (!) etc. I didn't understand why she doesn't go to a professional.
- her botched face (I actually think she looked quite nice at the beginning of her youtube career, but she looks worse every month!)
- the frequent rebranding - I feel like at the beginning she went straight for the controversial gold digger teacher persona to attract views, then she became a "matchmaker",
elegancy guru, nature lover and whatever else she claimed to be.
- her contradicting her teachings all the time. Honestly her silver dress was the last straw for me lol. I unfollowed her on insta right after she posted it, she looked ridiculous.
- her (lack of) work ethics, for example never uploading her podcast on time etc.
- her podcast/recent videos having no substance whatsoever (I do think her videos back in the day were at least a little informative but now she literally talks about nothing)
- her "detox retreat", GIRL, WHY?
- travelling during the pandemic because "she already had covid"
And that's just a few things I thought of on the spot, I'm sure there's more.
I know it's old news already but since it's my first time posting I must use the opportunity to comment on her wedding dress
What was her thought process behind choosing that thing? That's literally an outfit for a widow who found love again at the age of 80 and decided to get married to her new boo. It only shows that her man doesn't care for her and she has no friends to give her a piece of good advice.