Hi all! So I’ve been with my partner for around 6 months. We are really close, and actually we’re planning to go away somewhere in the UK for a getaway once lockdown eases! Now, he has a close friend who I’ve met once so far, he’s an alright guy. Found him a bit quiet and a tad bit weird but apart from that he’s an alright guy. He asked my partner if he could come with us. I found it really weird as he hasn’t got a girlfriend, so it would just be him with us two? Also considering it would be our first “holiday” together I didn’t want him coming. My partner luckily told him hed ask me first, I said I don’t want his friend to come. Afterwards I felt bad like maybe I should’ve just let him come? But then at the same time I’m glad I said what I felt! Ah! Let me know, do you think I was rude for saying I didn’t want him coming? My partner agreed and said it was weird for his friend to come with us...
Edit: I’d be totally fine if it wasn’t the first time! But it’ll be the first time me and my partner go away so I felt like it would be quite strange... any other time I’d think yeah sure! maybe I’m just antisocial but I’d rather it be just my partner and I tbh
Edit: I’d be totally fine if it wasn’t the first time! But it’ll be the first time me and my partner go away so I felt like it would be quite strange... any other time I’d think yeah sure! maybe I’m just antisocial but I’d rather it be just my partner and I tbh
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