Thanks hun and I totally agree! I’m not on any social media now I shut it all down which is a shame because I have a lot of friends abroad and would love to see what my brother is up to. I admit that a couple or years ago I got abut obsessed with seeing what she was posting but now I don’t really bother. I only ask a friend when usually we have had a drink and have one of those stalks that everyone does but I totally agree and I know it serves no purpose at all. I only went on my boyfriends because of this dog group we are part of.Asking your friends to look up what she’s doing online is only going to make you feel worse. She has dogged your relationship from the beginning, you both need to block her, shut down your settings so new accounts can’t add or message you, and move on. I promise you, you’ll forget all about it in no time if you’re not seeing it. The same happened with my fiancé’s ex. I blocked her and her friends and got on with my life!
I bet nanan will come around once a baby is involved, and if she doesn’t, well she can’t have a relationship with her great grandchild. She may not like you but she needs to respect your relationship. Your other half should pull her up if she ever says anything discouraging to or about you. If it’s just Facebook comments I’d be minded to ignore it.
I never want to stop anyone seeing baby if I’m lucky and blessed enough to get pregnant but I know what you are saying, I won’t be rushing down to see them that’s for sure. I really would love nan to like me, I just don’t understand why she can’t be friends with me and Sophia- and I don’t get why Sophia doesn’t just move on!?
Thanks so much, it’s always nice to hear when people have had similar experiences xz