LaurieLaurie

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I like they way they had a simple announcement that included the gender. No dragging it out for weeks like others.
Remeber those vloggers that would drag the details out vlog after vlog 🤮.
 
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Lurker0999

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Guys the pregnancy chat is boring. She's not pregnant. And I'm going to drop some truth now. They aren't every going to be. Not with eachother. They've been together for 8 years and constantly talk about wanting children. But the promise of one day being serious in their aspirations together is what they hide behind to compensate for their lack of seriousness now. On their 8 year anniversary or for zoes 30th, when they had been together 8 years or so, alfie got zoe a replica of the promise ring that she had gotten him for THEIR SECOND ANNIVERSARY. He thought it was appropriate to give a ring to her that she had felt ready to give two years in, FOUR TIMES that length. And didnt seem to think that giving a ring was insensitive seeing as it would look like an engagement ring/ remind her of her lack of one. And it being for her 30th birthday, when she has said that she wanted to be engaged by then. AND a promise ring being something that uou give to someone primarily when you are younger and not in the place to commit, or in a newer relationship maybe and not in the place, NOT when you are fully in the place with resources and time. Its a joke and I don't know what alfies playing at but I think he regrets lost time of being in the wrong relationship for so many of his younger years and needs to cut his losses and grieve it now rather than drag it on with silly 'promises'for the sake of trying to make himself enthusiastic about him and zoe again. Thered more out there alfie. Comfortable isn't the only thing you can get now in life. This isn't it, but you need to let go.
This didn’t age well 🙈🙈
 
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Sharknado46

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Not to be mean but I can't imagine her being able to carry a baby to full term. She's so unhealthy and rotting on the inside from consistently poor nutrition and no exercise, and babies need to take so much from the mother's body to grow and survive
This is a hugely inappropriate comment. It places the blame on the person carrying a baby for any anomalies/miscarriage. Also massively triggering for anyone who unfortunately is in that situation. Think before you type next time.
 
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jackolantern

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This thread has turned to a right shitter since Pay was born.

Noone cares about yours/your auntie's sister/your cousin's neice/your dog's grandma's birth stories
Noone cares who visited said folk and when
WHICHEVER WAY A BABY IS BORN IS VALID, IT'S NOT A COMPETITION
It doesn't matter how the name is pronounced across our many different countries, only Hariboella and Aldi know how they are pronouncing it and regardless, it's going to get butchered

Also, it really doesn't matter how fucking much people bashing their parenting bothers you, you won't find any sympathy for your hurt feelings on a rant thread honestly.

Is it safe to come out yet?!
 
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Spencerskates

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Tory is also a nickname for Victoria. The perfect name. Also looking at the size of the scan photos, good to see Aldie nor supporting the NHS again and going private

To be fair, I don’t think it’s bad that they could potentially going private. They can clearly afford it and I don’t think using an NHS service you don’t actually need could count as ‘supporting’ the NHS.

My partner and I are considering going private if/when I fall pregnant, and we’re nowhere near in the financial position as they are!
 
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jalview19

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Tory is also a nickname for Victoria. The perfect name. Also looking at the size of the scan photos, good to see Aldie nor supporting the NHS again and going private
I wouldn’t shame anyone for going private for their baby scans if they can afford it especially for a first time mother during a pandemic 😴😴😴😴 doubt alfie would be able to go in if it was public and I guess they just wanted to experience it together
 
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Clojo92

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I am quite shocked that the Zoella website is talking to people who do sex work on OnlyFans...and almost encouraging it as a way to make money during the pandemic. On stories one of the women says "stick to it, be prepared to set boundaries."
Maybe I am a prude but I find that really inappropriate to share?? I am quite old fashioned thinking though when it comes to sex work and I'm only 29. Lol.
It's not inappropriate at all. Sex work is work.
 
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Scandalous_Purpose

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I don’t know if this has been mentioned but does anyone think the song she picked for her reel is a bit insensitive if she hasn’t had any fertility problems (obviously we don’t know because they’ve just announced) but rainbow babies are particularly special because of being after miscarriage etc so it have somewhere over the rainbow? Maybe I’m just on edge today because every man and his dog is sharing her reel

She may well have had infertility problems or she may have miscarried in the past so is honouring that pregnancy too, we just don’t know and it’s also an incredibly popular song so I think maybe it’s a bit of a reach
 
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getawaywithit

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Even if she wasn’t allowed and did mix she won’t be the only one and I wouldn’t blame her for it. A parent shouldn’t have to choose which child they’re to spend Christmas with! I really couldn’t care less what people decide to do on Christmas Day after a shit year we all deserve one good day with our families !!
Really, what don’t you people understand?! It‘s NOT a human right to have a Christmas party actually, we are so overindulged in the West it’s like people can’t comprehend that they have to sacrifice something over a longer period of time (which is really only one year) and experience something vaguely unpleasant. Look at the hospitalization rates and death tolls!
This isn’t a game where you get to press pause because Christmas is fun for you!

My parents aren’t seeing all their children for Christmas, my brother is a teacher and we won’t be gathering with him and others. Boo hoo, we just get on with it ffs. It’s one Christmas and it’s really not that big a deal in the grand scheme of things. The next day the world will go on turning and Christmas will be over, so what does it matter?

I swear the same people who are like “oh we deserve it after this dreadful year!” are the same ones who went on like 3 holidays this summer anyway.

EDIT: Oh and frankly the ~these rules are so confusing~ talk is so overdone at this point. ITS A CONTAGIOUS MUTATING AIRBORNE DISEASE THE RULE IS TO LIMIT YOUR SOCIAL CONTACT TO THE ABSOLUTE NECESSITIES! THE RULES ARE MADE UP TO ALLOW MORE LENIENCY ONLY BECAUSE THEN EVERYONE WOULD WHINE ENDLESSLY. Jfc! I’m sorry but the UK should be ashamed of themselves with this endless self indulgent complaining.
 
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