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This mama life #27

As a mark of respect for Roberts mum... even if sarah has no manners ... leave it blank

So much to unpack….

Firstly she is SOME cunt for ONE cunt.
The most sadistic, selfish fucker I’ve ever had the displeasure of watching. Those poor children.
Robs family must fucking despise her. It says a lot that NOBODY not one family or friend has visited their new house. They hate her. Her own family can’t even be fucked with it.

She’s nasty.
I hate how she uses and abuses those kids for her own financial gain. But yet they don’t see the benefit of it. The money isn’t used on nice clothes, they always look scruffy, clothes always always too small. The money isn’t used for family holidays or weekends away. Influencer photo shoots don’t count Sarah. No Days out to child friendly things. No, no, the best these kids get is half hour at the park or the beach and a Costa. It’s not normal. There weekends aren’t revolved around the kids. It’s always jobs that Sarah and rob wanna do or where they want to eat or where Sarah wants to go.

Driving through the night kids sleeping bolt upright. Who would actually do that. Then literally drops them off and off she trots doing things for HER again. Sarah this is your kids ‘holiday’ aswell why not actually take them out. They just have to be at grannie and grandads all day. Literally gone all that way to do the same things they do at home. Garden and tv. They are just inconvenient to her. She spends zero time with them during the ‘working’ week even though she’s part time, takes them away and still she’s doing eveything she can not to see them. RED FLAGS everywhere.

Taken bare minimum annual leave as usual.
Saves it all for her Sarah days. Not for the kids. I don’t know any parent like this , I really don’t.


I can honestly say there isn’t another influencer as bad. Even meldrum actually looks after her own kids sometimes and does things with them constantly. Isla and Lachlan are passed from pillar to post of childcare options.

The asos bag at the hotel. Oh dear. Why do you care. It’s not for that floppy fishes benefit is it. It’s literally for a photo for the gram. Could ye be arsed.
They’ve got about as much chemistry as a pair of toothpicks. Wooden fucking cunts.

Her Volvic ad candlesticks why? Not even lit? The point of them then? The limes? Why? Empty bagels…why? She just needs to tattoo a question mark on her 5 head to be honest she’s a walking talking ???? I just can’t.

Over and fucking out.

Popper said:

Nice to see the high chair for the 4 year made it to the new house

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Maybe Sarah gets in it herself seeing as she’s a massive fucking baby

Is there anything more boring than watching other people’s untalented children performing? Granny might think it’s cute, the rest of the world! No 🥱

“I’m child free, which never happens.” Is she having a laugh? Iv never known a mother who has her kids as little as she does .

Omg and now in central London. Selfridges and the tube completely unnecessarily. She’s just left a place that went into local lockdown, and she’s dragged her potentially-carrying-Covid ass all the way down the country, stopping at services to spread it a little bit, then a train, tube, department store...is she really this thick or just completely selfish?

I'm ashamed to admit that I had problems bonding with one of my kids, he was more challenging in his behaviour than the others and would deliberately wind me up. I loved him dearly but didn't 'like' him much. ( I feel dreadful admitting this) As he got older I saw there was a real danger of a rift developing between us so what did I do? I made time to have him on a one to one basis. I took him out on his own, spent real quality time with him. It wasn't easy, it took lots of planning and we still argued and fell out, but slowly we grew to like one another. He is a grown man now and living happily with his g/f in their own home but rings me several times a week for a chat or to suggest getting together. We are incredibly close and I couldn't be prouder of the lovely person he is. Sarah, your relationship with Isla looks solid, she is older and has had you all to herself before Lachlan came along and you are still prioritising her needs. She looks the kind of child to boast to her brother about the fun she has had while he has been at nursery. Make time for him, pick him up first sometimes, take him for little treats by himself. Yes you will have to listen to boring boys talk about power rangers and such like, but pretend to be interested, find stuff to talk about that is special to you and Lachlan, let Isla take a back seat sometimes and let Lachlan see that he is special too.

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#31 - trips to NY, Cyprus and Scotland for vanity, is it only us who questions her sanity?

We are forces, it was originally why I started following the shit show that is This Mama Life however I absolutely cannot fathom the way she goes about these deployments…

Firstly if you need to go and see your loved one off cool, many, including kids do need that closure however I honestly just can’t understand how unauthentic the whole thing must feel, setting up cameras, directing childrens actions and positions, thinking of the interaction as a scene and what it will look like to edit, It just all feels so grimy and insincere not to mention really terrible parenting…

I would love someone who has witnessed Sarah’s circus act to come and spill the T on what it actually looks like and what all the ship families/partners really think.

Secondly and this is just my MO I cannot stand all the shit you can buy to make every day feel as miserable as possible, sweet counting jars, personalised pillows, wipe boards where can kids can move a magnet along each day and fill in a happy/sad face to supposedly help with their emotions, not to mention the virtual signalling woe is me reels and daily updates on how hard it is for them all, it’s just so counterproductive, “Look kids it’s time to eat your 18th Bon Bon of 246 and collage some tears to show how you feel about your Daddy missing your birthday”

Fuck that for a laugh.

Im a parent to 3 girls and I was so hard on them when my husband was away, of course they had times when they were sad and needed a hug or a bit of extra support but they categorically weren’t allowed to dwell, we have a moan, pick ourselves up, dust off and get on with it. The Calendar was full, I kept the treat and wine cupboard stocked and we looked forward and to fun times ahead and as their mum it was my job to keep that positive mindset.

Sarah almost seems to like indulging in the misery and in turn makes her little people miserable too.

Such a dysfunctional family!

Her back probably hurts from carrying that massive chip on her shoulder..

That post made me very very cross.

She constantly shows her complete lack of discipline and very low behavioural standards. She encourages poor behaviour and being ‘wild’ by laughing and filming. She designs their lives to be chaotic and frantic with no down time, and shows no insight into her children’s need for regular quality time to decompress and connect. That’s all for her own validation, not what is best for her children.

She is charmed by his wild behaviour, even when it impacts the (paid for) experiences of other small children, expects those children to ENJOY his disruptive behaviour and their parents to accept it. Has she considered there maybe other children there with needs not being met because of her son?

If things are improving at school because of ‘a lot of extra support,’ does she really expect private activity clubs to also bear the cost of resourcing all that additional support he needs?

All kids can have poor behaviour sometimes, and that’s ok. But if a child is frequently disrupting the class and affecting other kids on a regular basis, it’s really unfair of her to expect those families to continue to take their kids to a club that is spoiled by her son’s behaviour. Club leaders will not be able to afford children leaving or having a poor experience, and probably can’t afford to pay for an extra helper if he needs more support than the other kids.

This isn’t about other people not having tolerance for L, it’s about HER not having consideration for a room full of kids trying their best. Kids regularly seem accepting of poor behaviour because they are following social norms - but later say actually they didn’t like it because somebody sucks up energy and time, or distracts or is unkind or too loud or drags the group in the wrong direction.

Being inclusive is massively important, I volunteer with an organisation where we will pay for additional support for children with diagnosis so they can have a good experience without impacting the class leader or other kids. Costs a lot and is absolutely worth it (we are a charity). But as a parent, if my child was causing these problems in a setting where that support was infeasible, I would take my child to something more appropriate, with trained staff ready to deal with it, or volunteer to help myself.

I cannot abide her attitude to the navy. To say there are very little positives of this life just isn’t bloody true for the vast majority of military families. My husband gets paid an excellent wage, including a number of retention bonuses which has allowed us to buy the lovely home we have, allowed us to go on our holidays and just generally live an amazing life.

He also has a career that he’s genuinely fulfilled and passionate about and I get to still have my own life and career. He has a group of friends with a stronger bond than any I’ve ever seen; and I get to bond with the other wives and girlfriends as well as have my own social circle.
The homecoming is one of the best bits but by that I mean the moment I get to see him, get a cuddle and be around him again. I have never filmed that, never taken a picture. It’s never even occurred to me.
There are a million silver linings to this life, she needs serious help to her see hers.

I was straight over here after that last lot of stories...

My husband is Forces, he was in Bahrain for 6 months, we didn’t visit and with young girls at the time glad we didn’t.

It’s the most unappealing place to bring up children, conflict wise it’s on the cusp hence the military presence It’s a mass of concrete malls, buildings with little green space or nature.

It’s culture is still very regimented for girls and women with them expected to wear modest shapes /lengths etc and you can very easily run into trouble if you’re a single lady on your own who is considered to look inappropriate.

It’s still has a terror level of extreme with an attack likely at any point.

Alcohol is forbidden to be drunk in public and many restaurants don’t serve with hotel’s being one of the few places you can buy a glass of wine...

The prostitution level is very high, and your approached constantly in restaurants, streets, hotels etc, Husband said it was really sleazy and some of the girls were clearly early teens.

Im presuming families like Sarah’s (either in a forces, Engineering or oil) would live in a compound, like a gated/secure community, more concrete, probably a pool, maybe a spar etc, the kids would get picked up by bus to go to school and then back at the end of the day...

Taking this all into account why is this a life you would pick for your young children, how can this be the aspiration she has for them...

She is absolutely fucking insane!!

Pretending she's just left the office, when she's sat in the Gosport Leisure Centre car park next to Starbucks. Go pick your kids up.

(That's premier inn behind)

..... “high pressure job”........



Oh Sarah. You really are a fucking hoot. Settle down James Bond, I’m sure the MOD isn’t going to implode if old Sarah Knott doesn’t put in an order for some staples & toner....

She seriously thinks she’s something special doesn’t she?!!!!!!

She seriously needs a wake up call.
But I don’t think she can see beyond her chin. Superficial selfish dickhead.

rob and Sarah are horrific to lachlan. How they have treated him since he arrived is Truley shocking. I don’t throw the word abuse around lightly. But I genuinely think Lachlan is being emotionally abused.

- he is constantly berated and put down on social media - Sarah portrays him to have bad behaviour and rolls her eyes, always has negative things to say about him but thinks Cos she says ‘bless him’ at the end of her negativity it’s okay.This is only snippets of what we see and I think it’s bad enough. That little boy knows he is thought of as an inconvenience. We all get annoyed with our kids after a hard day but she barely sees him. I don’t understand what she finds so difficult.

- her baby gave her PTSD - constantly blaming a baby/child for a medical condition he couldn’t help is absolutely horrific. I would be more pragmatic to the situation if she admitted she suffered post natal depression and found it tough herself and took it out on Lachlan but to blame him constantly is abhorrent. I know MANY people that have had children with heart problems, reflux, allergies, chronic excema I’ve never known any mother to be so disconnected and horrible to a baby because of something medically wrong with them, most mums I know have been overcompensating with love and care because they have empathy towards their poor baby going through this. I’m not downplaying how difficult it was but she had the help and support of her parents seeing as she lived therewhich is more than most and to take your frustration and anger out on a baby and blame them for ptsd is deplorable.

- she is a part time working parent. Why is Lachlan at nursery 12 hours a day 5 days a week. This is not normal. At all. But what is even more telling of her seriously shocking relationship with her son ... she picks her daughter up from school/ has her home during school holidays etc and he is still stuck there whilst mummy and meelie have fun time. No
parent would ever do this. EVER.

- mocking his hair cut to 40k people every time she does it. No one asked to be in a pandemic l. Don’t laugh at his hair whichhe has no control over.Have some boundaries FFS - we don’tfind it remotely funny.

- the amount of times she’s shown him asleep from nursery and just plonk him in his bed. No teeth brushed. No washing. No clean clothes. No toilet. No supper. No interaction. RED FLAG.
this is disgusting. Highly highly disturbing.
what is wrong with these people. Poor poor boy.

- I think dropping 2 children off at granny and grandads for TWO WEEKS when they barely see them in the midst of a pandemic so you can flout your fanny round london is fucking sick too but hey maybe I’m too loving towards my kids. Too much empathy and consciousness maybe I’m doing it wrong

- no extra curricular activities even though Isla in the football kit does many is another sign of the clear favouritism.


I think she needs help. Serious serious help.
Lachlan isn’t getting the emotional nurture from his parents. I hope she reads this and has a think but I know she is so far gone she believes her own narrative. It’s sickening
I hope their bubbles keep breaking down and everybody self isolates many more times. It’s about time she actually looked after her children. It’s the least she deserves and also I think he needs a fucking break from nursery

- his clothes , always too small. No care for his appearance or a pride for how he looks, how is dressed, how he feels

- speech delay. He’s the oldest kid in the year. My 3 year old is way way way ahead of LachlanI can guarantee it’s cos he’s never actually spent time with his parents or they actually talk to him he doesn’t have one on one time. He just has nursery time.

These two fucking cunts are actually horrific.

imagine picking Isla up and not getting Lachlan after, just coming home cos you can’t be arsed with him until past 6pm and going out AGAIN to pick him up.

imagine rob off work for a few weeks and Sarah having her Thursdays off and half day Friday and he’s still their past 6pm.
Rob hasn’t seen him for 6 months and hasn’t took Lachlan for a day out or had him at home, the lazy wang eyed bastard has just being having naps

such a bunch of egotistical selfish cunts.
Poor Lachlan.
And ffs when are they going to get Islas ENT problems sorted god she talks like she’s under water it’s awful.
Also sick of her seeing her boring shit we don’t care to watch Isla doing her ballet or most of the shit you show ya daft cunt.

I basically watch her to laugh at her ridiculousness and also watch on in disbelief at how they treat Lachlan.

Guys a photo from the newborn shoot has leaked!

(Seriously though, very happy the baby arrived safely, hopefully his or her mother will have an epiphany about not living her whole life through Instagram)

as fucking if she has EVER asked for their consent! What a lie!!!!! And as pointed out, they are too young to even comprehend what it means to have them plastered all over social media.

I can't believe Rob was saying goodbye to his mum and she took pictures for Instagram in burger king with a big grin on her face. That is divorce material.