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Long time lurker, first time poster. Just posting to say I really hope that lovely boy is ok, and that those of you not engaging with Kaytee slating right now are doing the classy thing. There will be a time to unpick all this, but it isn’t right now.

You know what, I really don’t understand this shop. Well I do, it’s for her to gain money on the back of her sons death. But if she really wanted to keep Jaxons memory alive why not set up a charity? Give back to people in a similar situation to her, especially with all the help she received from various charities. She often talked about how there was little information out there or people to go to when she received Js diagnosis and blah blah blah so why wouldn’t you put your all into helping other people? Ahhh I know because she can’t gain financially off that. She rather set up a silly shop selling dirt cheap tote bags and crap for a ridiculous price. And that just shows you what sort of person she is. When you think she can’t stoop any lower she just does.

I hate to be that person, but unless she’s moved house... she doesn’t live 10 miles from the cemetery

She seriously thinks people will believe he had 6 separate blood tests in one day!? It’s one blood test put into 6 vials...

blueberries & cheese said:

Whatever

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Perhaps you should stick to following neurotypical children and their parents, Its hard for some people to look beyond the disability and notice when someone is being mistreated. It's easier to focus on the mother and feel sorry for her isn't it. Enjoy your other threads doing the stuff that gives tattle a bad name.

Just so you all know she made over 3K on her last hospital visit. Obviously I can't divulge how I know but believe me I know. If I see our Kathleen this time around I will let you know.

Houseplantkiller said:

@Sendparent here you go, you must have missed It: “agree with this unfortunately, I have watched over the last few years and I truly believe that munchausen by proxy was what was happening”

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I said I hadn't missed anything, I saw that. They say "I truly believe'', not that its fact, people are allowed to have an opinion. It also doesn't say they believe that's caused J to pass away. Nobody on here wants to risk this thread being shut down again, it took ages to be allowed a thread on her in the first place, it was then closed and has now been reopened, it should stay open, she is going back to earning a living off her child & followers and if other parents who have lost children have threads then she should be no different.

For the new comers, our Kaths target audience isn't the SEN world. Isn't parents who have children with severe needs, who are eligible for care, where their parents fight for them every day. Fight through the exhaustion and try and fight the barriers that are in place. Her target audience is the parents of neuro typical children, the parents who couldn't and don't want to imagine feeding their child through a tube. The parents who don't have to battle with consultants daily, they are her easy target because they think they get a sneak peak of what life would be like if their child had additional needs, and they feed their hard earned money to her purely out of guilt thag they are "lucky".

Fixed it.

I just wanna know how Js dad is doing. I know it’s absolutely no one business but she used to slate him to high heaven and we all know he was more involved than she made out. He’s lost his baby. His boy.

Had such a traumatic, triggering, fearful time in the hospital but was able to create a montage full of videos she’s made. Crying in costa but still the right level of upset enough to be able to whip out your phone for a quick vid? Wiped out after getting home but had time to put together said montage, edit, add music, write long ass caption, post to strangers. If any of my children were in hospital for any reason the single LAST thing I’d be doing is recording that time. If they’re poorly, they would be my entire focus.

I’m just not buying it

The issue that Kaytee will really hate, and she will be looking to solve, is that with her current method of monetising/exploiting J she isn’t able to brag about where she’s staying, drinking and eating. She really really wants people to know that she is living the instagram influencer lifestyle. She wants to tag the hotels and restaurants to get freebies. That is so clearly her end goal. But when you’ve scammed the money for that lifestyle by exploiting your own child on instagram, particularly by pretending to be a broke single parent with no help, you can’t then immediately turn around and brag about your child-free extravagant lifestyle.

It’s 100% the Mercedes. Same leather and red stitched seats.
Well done Kathy and Your bestie on using the death of a three year old to drum up enough collateral for you to buy a car that most law abiding citizens still could never afford. And no one will even question it because your ‘grieving’.

‘I don’t have to food shop’

Tesco might have something to say about that contradiction Kathleen.

Kayteeee, you really are a massive selfish bell end.

You didn’t have to eat out though did you? I work for the NHS as many thousands and others that don’t, used our common sense and still didn’t mix publicly.

You have a vulnerable son, yet blame the government for why you went out gallivanting there really isn’t enough laughing emojis for your pathetic excuse for having a hotel stay in London and constant attempts to get laid.

You work worked for the NHS you of all people should see even though lockdown measures were eased everyone, the vulnerable more so, were still at risk. Yet you didn’t give a shit about exposing your beautiful son to a killer virus because YOU wanted to meet men, eat out, stay in expensive (paid for by a gofundme for your son) so you could continue a fake lavish life style.

Oh... you don’t work in healthcare though do you, there are many clues to this, including your chavvy nails. Not going to be able to have those done for a while are you. You are part of the problem.



I’m also pretty sure if she could, she would be on a plane to Dubai at the drop of a hat right now. Her hypocrisy today if on another level.

I am extra sensitive today yes. I have bitten my tongue for so long watching people constantly break the rules putting the vulnerable at risk. Well, everyone at risk.

I’ve just finished 5 night shifts, Kaytee will never experience shifts like that, she’s far too lazy.

Nearly all patients I saw were Covid positive. Some of which won’t make it. My heart has broken over and over the past 5 days. And I see people like HER constantly risking everyone.

When this all started in March I cried out of fear before every shift and now I’m back to feeling terrified.

I get changed and showered at work before getting in the car as I share it with my other half and didn’t want him to get anything. I’ve not seen my parents since March, postponed my wedding and not going to my grandads funeral as not to put my vulnerable family members at risk. Add on an extra I don’t know how many hours of work each month because colleagues are off as they have Covid too. We have lost a few colleagues to this too.

Why can’t people see that just because it’s not new it doesn’t mean it’s not as serious. It’s more serious now than what is was earlier in 2020.

I am broken. I’m emotionally and physically drained. People like Kayteeee can fuck right off. Still using her nurse status to try and claim a hero status and keep up the Instagram persona. She’s just proving she is more of a fraud each day.

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Hi Kathleen.

This thread keeps us going because we know that people are behind us and know what she is really like . I can only hope that soon enough more see through her and stop enabling it . She only posted that because she knows that without jaxon her Instagram is dead and nobody is intrested in her . If she shares a picture if her nobody cares . realky her insta name should just be remembering jaxon because 1 she ain’t a nurse and 2 it’s all about jaxon anyway .

_kate_ said:

Definitely been reading here again!

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is she joking?? so focused on caring for him?! she really does try and portray herself as some
kind of martyr never got a break full time nurse mum carer doesn’t she, forgetting what we’ve all actually seen?
what grieving parent has EVER thought gosh i wish i’d dressed them in xyz instead?! she’s not on this planet

I believe it’s all a lot more simple. Prior to being refused carers the account was fairly niche, very much a SEN account, and had ~10k followers. When the carers were refused she got a lot of media attention, celebrity attention, her followers shot up to ~50k, and she got her blue tick. That in turn resulted in all the ads and thousands more for her fundraisers. Her insta career is almost entirely based on the injustice of being refused carers, even though they are yet to be taken away.

The narrative is and was that the decision was unjustifiable because J’s needs are so severe and Kaytee is a single mum trying to work as a nurse (but being unable to due to lack of carers). She plays down help from family, friends, and J’s dad to enhance the narrative. All the stories about referrals, GOSH, and private doctors add to this narrative. As do battles with doctors who have only offered her two potential solutions to the vomiting.

Kaytee almost certainly gets better engagement for her posts and stories about her battles with the health and social care system than for her ads or personal stories. So for her insta lifestyle to continue there has to be drama with J’s care, there have to be doctors who are wrong and won’t listen to her, there have to be trips to GOSH, and there has to be a sense of injustice over the carers and J’s treatment. That is what her following are there for.