Smca53

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She posted on insta that she’s winding down. When exactly was she not wound down? How can she wind down any further?
 
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palmer

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This chick literally has 4 options of housing right now (all of which are almost equally extravagant):
- her mom's house in which she has an entire floor to herself
- her own house that's been sitting empty for years
- her mom's country estate in which she has an entire guest house to herself
- her rented flat which seems unnecessarily huge as well (even has a balcony?)

Imagine having this amount of privilege and still finding ways to complain that things are "difficult" and not getting anything done. Meanwhile there are people who don't have a roof at all, or have no choice but to share a studio/small room with several other family members, etc etc. In the era of Zoom work/school especially we've all been sensitized to just how difficult that can be. But not Jess I guess. Just utterly ridiculous.

I hope she doesn't raise her daughter to be as lazy and tone deaf as she is.
 
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palmer

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This is frustrating. I am 100% not choosing to miss the point. 100% not. Can you please explain the key point that you think I am missing in a few sentences?
I'm personally of the opinion that when one comes across a situation which, in their view, reflects a fundamental failure in the way our society works, they should raise it and talk about it rather than choose to "switch off" and ignore under the pretext that "we live in a capitalist society and that's not about to change so just accept it and don't complain." In my view, the situation that we are describing here does reflect a deep failure. The fact that people like Jess are able to sit in their multi-million pound home week after week, month after month, and put in zero work, while others --literally in the same city-- are killing themselves at work and still struggling to make ends meet...IS NOT okay and should not be accepted as a fatality. Economic inequality is a serious issue and it is rising, including in London where Jess lives. It's become increasingly obvious now given the pandemic/recession we're currently going through. The fact that people make money (a disgusting amount of it) off of plastering this obscene lifestyle online for people to watch is frankly not a trivial thing and I believe we should all ask ourselves what it means, what it reflects, the consequences it could have, etc. It is harmful whether you personally feel the effect of it or not. Just because a 'job' exists doesn't make it morally right and doesn't mean we shouldn't question or even criticize the value it adds to society. Just like many people criticize finance jobs for other reasons (for example).

You ask, "Why don’t people choose to compare themselves to those who are worse off?" -- to me the answer is simple. If we were to ignore people who are better off and instead systematically compare ourselves to people who are 'worse off,' that would lead us to accept less-than-ideal conditions and never strive for the improvement of our own conditions. I personally believe in leveling upwards rather than leveling downwards. Isn't the ultimate goal that we improve our societies overtime, that everyone's living conditions improve? If you just keep telling yourself "yeah my situation is shitty but people in other countries have it even worse, so I'm not going to complain about any of the things I'm going through" then how is that sort of mentality going to help improve the situation of generations after you who will be going through similar issues? That's a very narrow way to look at things and actually doesn't help anything or anyone long term. Saying "that's just life" doesn't help anybody. Well, yeah, it helps the people who are already in extremely privileged positions, people like Jess!
 
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ECH

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I unsubscribe to her when she said she agreed that JK Rowling was “problematic”. It would surprise me if she hadn’t read JK’s very measured essay, so it’s clearly a case of woke bandwagon-jumping.
This girl has a masters, I think she's capable of reading through an essay and forming her own conclusions on it. It's not woke bandwagoning if she thinks that trans people deserve equal rights.
 
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andreaoid

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On an unrelated note: I wonder how it feels to be nursing a newborn in your childhood/teenage bed in the family home at age 27? Regardless of money, sometimes it's natural to just want to start your own household
Another example of what's ok and excusable when you're rich and absolutely frown upon if you're lower class. Actually, this is a classic classist example, really.
 
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eilidhh

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"heyyyy guys I can't be bothered to ever make actual content for you guys but here is some expensive shit I got for free, k thanks see you later"
 
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letmesee11

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I'm sorry but the idea of Jess setting up a patreon is so ridiculous - she keeps saying she wants it to create a community but she doesn't even interact with her subscribers and hasn't done so in years. How greedy!!
 
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getawaywithit

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She and her boyfriend haven’t even moved out of her parents house lol. If this were a girl who was not very rich and white and pretty the comments everywhere would be far more judgmental and scathing.
 
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blondelolita

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I kind of like how she’s just casually transitioned into being a mum, not making a huge deal of it - like yes she’s wearing make up etc but she’s not made some long post saying things like oh look I’m so tired, motherhood is so hard blah blah but loooook I’ve managed to put make up on, feel more me... Like a lot of other influencers seem to do.
 
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Smca53

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not everyone wants to spend their 20s nursing hangovers and getting ghosted by losers on tinder (lol)
To be honest if that’s all you think a persons 20s are about then I feel really sad for you and I’m sorry you missed out on all that the 20s can offer in terms of growth and experience.
 
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newaccount2022

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You can’t leave any sort of comment that doesn’t lick her arse or people jump in with ‘cut her some slack she’s got a baby!!! She can’t be consistent’. I swear all of her ‘fans’ are 14.

I can’t show up to my job and say ‘sorry I’ve got a baby I cannot be consistent’. I work 37 hours a week and when I’m at work I have to work. She has a partner who works for her. A mum, sister and stepdad living with her. A nanny. A housekeeper. All the hours I spend doing housework per week, she doesn’t even have to do her child’s laundry. Her partner is the cook. All the hours I spend making lunches and dinners, she doesn’t even have to wash a dish or do a food shop. She doesn’t have to commute. She doesn’t have to wait for the next bus because one is full. She doesn’t have to stay logged on until 6.30 doing something for her boss. She could do 5 hours admin and 5 hours filming a week and she’d be set.

Its clear she just doesn’t WANT to. And nobody would care if she would just ADMIT THAT, and stop making false promises and money grabbing on Patreon. If I had her money I wouldn’t work, but I wouldn’t pretend to work either. She’s probably a bit embarrassed but the way she acts is 10x more embarrassing than being a rich nepo kid.
 
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formerly_sitkx

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Wow. Just wow. Imagine (up until recently) living in your mom’s multimillion £££ London home, having a giant £££ farmhouse, having nannies for you kid, never working a day in your life…all while having a “buy me a coffee” button. The amount of audacity and privilege is astronomical
 
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elsa_1993

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This may not be a super popular opinion here - but it makes me kinda sad to see so many women still seeing getting pregnant as the end of your life and career and goals and dreams. Did your mothers lives end when you were born? Was it all over for them?

While I never saw her as particularly maternal Jess is closer to 30 than she is 20.

Not everyone wants to have a baby in their late 30s. While it seemed a bit surprising at first the more I think about it the more it makes sense for her. She’s in a much better position than most to have a child, and she has always been family Oriented. She’s traveled extensively and she has a very impressive education. She is clearly well off and no fool. I think she’s in a pretty good place to have a baby.

not everyone wants to spend their 20s nursing hangovers and getting ghosted by losers on tinder (lol)

imo this isn’t the end of anything for Jess, I think she will just fine.
 
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LurkTwice

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And then she has the nerve to post hauls being all like “oh I had to be careful with my purchases to save money” or “I’ve had this in my cart for sooooo long but it was so pricey I was hesitant to buy it” 🥴
 
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mushkala

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I don’t think they’ve broken up - all her vlogs like post 2019 are still there, loads of holidays (Memphis, Corfu, Saint Lucia, Manny & Edinburgh trips) plus ‘house update’ videos that he’s in, when they’re doing walkarounds.

I think she just got the ick with the super old videos, and I don’t get the vibe she wants to share the house anymore. I would have loved a complete walkthrough to see what they did structurally and design wise but you can understand why she wouldn’t want to show that! It’s not just ‘their’ house anymore, it’s also their daughters.
Honestly I feel like she's too lazy to break up with a person
 
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Sunburnsjess

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Also, I feel for her regarding their housing situation. Paying for a mortgage while not living in the house is expensive and an absolute headache. Especially with a child. It has to be more stressful for everyone.
Oh come on. Jess is in the top 0.01% in London (let alone the rest of the world) when it comes to wealth/socioeconomic status. I don’t think there’s any need for any of us to feel for her. She’s incredibly privileged to even be a homeowner in central London at the age of what? 24 (since it’s been a couple years since they bought the place)?! And to now be undertaking a very high spec renovation whilst able to choose between living in her mums luxurious London townhouse or massive country home 🙄🙄
 
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palmer

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Jess: I need help!!

Also Jess:
- still lives at home with her mother, stepdad, sister, and partner
- has a full time assistant (her partner)
- has a personal chef (her partner)
- has a manager
- has a nanny
- has a cleaner
- has a personal trainer
- hires an editor
- doesn't need to commute to work (or work at all) everyday

what next? do you also need someone to help you shower and go to the restroom?

 
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midsummer1

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I'm honestly SO confused by this. I suspect the real reason she wanted him with her was because of whatever possible anxiety/depression stuff she's got going on, but he's done NONE of this promised outfit filming for her. I guess there have been a few outdoor photoshoots for Instagram, but that's hardly a full-time job for him. I think he sometimes edits her content, too, but it's honestly pretty spoiled of her to have made him quit his job to do that for her if he was still interested in being a chef.
I used to share your view but this has been thoroughly rebuked by a video I saw today.
Zak acts as a valuable background prop, shoulder model, and stand to display her jewelery on.
Both practical and economical, Jess is aware of the multifunctional nature of a good boyfriend.
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(Taken from this vlog lol youtube.com/watch?v=1kYHMp4_PmU&ab)
 
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