In the nicest possible way, Grace needs to be really fucking careful about what she updates people on and who she speaks to. If this is a police investigation now and people are starting to lawyer up Paul’s lawyer could so easily come up with the narrative of “vulnerable, highly suggestible girl”
Like you can come up with it in two seconds:
- woman goes and meets man and by all accounts made the first move (she sent the first message)
- man and woman meet and have sex
- people who were already out to get the man (looking at Boo here) befriend the girl and suggest she has been groomed and possibly even r*ped.
- girl is highly suggestible and begins to believe she was raped due to embarrassment of sleeping with PB.
- messages to and from the pair in the aftermath are cordial and do not suggest anything untoward went on
Etc etc.
I’m not doubting Grace, I just know exactly what a legal team will do and if she keeps posting and speaking in private about the investigation with the likes of Boo then this could stop a fair trial (if it gets that far)
Edit: (sorry not finished my rant yet
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
) AND if these people are her real friends (Boo etc) they will tell her to stop talking about it instead of leeching all and any info out of her.