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I think they both need to do some deep soul searching, I think their addiction to Instagram is unhealthy and will if it’s to the detriment of their marriage and happiness it needs to be removed. Just go back to being regular joe and have private accounts for family and friends only, no house account, no Fod account. No more showing off to strangers, no more freebies. But maybe a shot at a mentally healthy life, it’s a no brainer. Knuckle down with work, accept it’s a very unstable time for most financially and count your lucky stars you both have jobs. Enjoy your beautiful girls and let them grow in safety of a private normal life. If they were looking at this situation from the outside as if it were happening to someone else, they would be saying the same thing.

hi there,

New on here. At first glimpse I thought it was a forum for hatred and spite but actually you seem to be the smartest and most honest of the bunch !

IMO I think this whole thing has got way out of hand. MOD or her team should have stepped in to diffuse it at some stage - certainly before now. FODs posts are laughable and the fact that he targeted the US audience on his last post shows that they’re all panicking.
MOD shouldn’t have been bitching about others, in her position professionally & in the digital world it was never going to bode well for either. You can see how she got carried away with it and was exasperated and frustrated by the comments she was reading about herself by the way she wrote some of her posts as Alice. Still, I don’t condone it of course, she is entirely to blame for Alices actions. But what followed has snowballed and people are benefitting from her misfortune in fro t of the world to see which saddens me a bit tbh.

I initially liked Candice. I started following her after MMD was launched and I liked her more then. She intelligently and informatively covers and speaks on so many topics that need to be talked about. However, she CAN at times come across as aggressive, MOD was absolutely right. I have since unfollowed. It’s more than assertive and it’s more than passionate. Also IMO I don’t think the race comment camefrom a racist place but it should not have been said at all. Esp coming from someone in her position. Of course people were going to take it there.
kalechi. Well. IG removed her profile but now I’m not even sure why. The way she talks is vile. The things she says are vile. She most certainly is aggressive and intimidating say the least. I don’t know who she inspires but her vibe is way off anything that I would consider inspiring. Just my opinion. She wishes she had half a million followers.

It’s a mess. We’re all hooked. And hope they’re all reading everyone’s comments though because a few of them will be sweating.
Lies, esp the ones told by those who are just trying to ‘live their truths’ will always surface in the end. Warts and all.

What are the dripping jizz drops on the top of that photograph?

ALRIGHT THEN! Back at the start of FOD's absence, we had a bingo card to try to predict how he'd make his return. How did we do?

I wonder how slagging off her husband and calling him a horrible name would change people's opinions on her and her family.

“You’re wrong it’s me Simon” has finished me off House of Horrors is going to be a goldmine of fun.

Lalalalaaaaaa85 said:

Alice called her a budget Zoe Ball or something? This was after Clemmie had apparently been a shoulder for MP to cry on through her fertility issues. Definitely burnt bridges there

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God she’s just so nasty isn’t she, like vitriol pouring out of every pore of her. Worrying to think she’s a midwife with so many nasty thoughts crossing her mind about seemingly everyone

The other day I had a HCP (can’t remember if health visitor or MW) say “liquid paracetomal” and I was like ... what is that when it’s at home and asked if calpol was ok, they said yes but they’re not allowed to say brand names. Similarly you won’t get told to buy x or y for literally anything whether it’s an expressing machine, bath products, nappies, car seats, they’ve remained completely brand agnostic throughout and constantly re affirm it’s about what’s best for you & your family.

Which begs the question how tf did she get away with her carry on for so long?! Telling women they could do with a £300 jumpsuit to help them BF is actual violence when you think about how difficult it all is. I’ve spent 4-8 hours every single day BF and have been lucky she latches and feeds ridiculously well, yet have still needed SO much emotional support from my MWs, health visitor, therapist, friends w kids, and husband cos you never feel like you’re doing a good enough job at it. Imagine if your midwife was a snooty insta mama sharing this shit on her page, you’d feel awful you’ve crammed into your ancient M&S high waisted knicks and a £10 nursing bra you’re already busting out of, and it’d be so easy to just blame yourself for it?!

And don’t get me started on her advertising clothes to an audience suddenly launched into an entirely different body to the one they’ve always had, absolutely sick and twisted of her. I’m sorry for the essay but how this demonic witch could sit there and run through your check up questions on mental health is beyond me, when her social media presence alone would be enough to do women in!!

Can just imagine him feeling sooooo proud of his composition, posting it, and waiting for the waves of admiration and sympathy to come pouring in - and then a groan from the other room:
‘Simonnnnn, delete it you TWAT. And take my fucking leggings off while you’re at it’.’

I REALLY hope they pick this one as I immediately thought the two dinosaurs in the bottom right, were shagging

Tattlingpineapple said:

Yeah right FOD. Not all parents have the resources or the time to make a costume...
Like what about single parents who have to work full time.... I'd prefer to spend time with my kids instead of working a night shift on a costume they wear once...of course it makes them happy but my fondest childhood memories are about mundane stuff... Reading books together in bed, walking home from school with my mother and singing stupid songs not caring about the other people and so on

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I don't understand how someone can be so divorced from the reality of what life is like for a LOT of children & families in this country... There are millions of kids are living in poverty in the UK??? I know he needs to be ~glossy for his beloved brands (who don't call back these days lol), and he doesn't care about anything other than grabbing the next freebie, but he can still acknowledge that it's a huge privilege to be able to do something like that for your child & create a lovely memory like that for them! It's not just a little bit of effort, it's a little bit of effort for you with the set of circumstances you've been given. It's not a little bit of effort for everyone.

The cleaners at my work are in 5am - 6pm, let's say you'd be home for 7pm - 4am with those hours, when does he expect someone with those hours to do this, what time do you allocate to the costume versus dinner/cleaning/prep/leisure time (lol)/SLEEPING? And for how much - craft shit is so expensive! And then you need the space to let something like that dry & how many kids are living in overcrowded housing - he looked to be in their utility room? And on top of that just having time to think is a privilege, having time to sit at your desk (and be paid for it!) and do research online & find a tutorial on how to make that, order the bits off Amazon & get it delivered into the office, etc etc all make it so much easier if you're already in a cushy situation!

This really riles me up sorry because how dare he imply that a child might be sent in in a HP costume, or nothing at all, because their parent simply didn't put the time in? I can't tell if he's thick as pig shit or just a really nasty cunt to be honest.

Back in the day...
When fringes were blunt,
and no-one was a c*nt.

On a day when the whole family had been "shouting, crying, raging", a 4 year old wanted an extra towel which might have given her some comfort from what was going on around her. He not only refused her this, but whipped out his phone to share her distress for his own benefit. This is a low point even for him. Wow.

I thought they vowed to never ever show the children's bedrooms as they have such MASSIVE respect for their privacy????

I’ve got to admit I was totally influenced last year. I started following some quirky Japanese potters who were just so cool. I totally daydreamed about becoming a “creative” and invested in what I can only describe is a linen smock. With pockets. It’s effing ridiculous. I do not look like a avant garde artist just popping out from their studio, I look like an utter twat.

Anyway sorry to derail. Back to the ODs.

Folks, please don't feel guilt or shame for having a gallery wall or incorporating trends you like into your own home! There is nothing wrong with getting ideas from the internet and making them your own. There's an enormous difference between using popular ideas selectively in a way that's personal to you, compared to trying to pass off a never-ending stream of one instagram cliche after another as your own original style. Besides, a gallery wall or an ill-advised rug purchase is easily rectified if you change your mind. A whole house of wankery, not so much

Jumperoo62 said:

Agreed. I think she has been rather hard on us Tattlers. Sure we’re a bit waspy but if there is one thing we value it’s good ethics...

I bet she has had a huge number of SOD’s flying monkeys attacking her.

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Ive only just joined this site, but id hazard a guess that the real truths spoken about here en mass like the safeguarding of children, the calling out of this priviliege #gifted lifestyle etc that only serves to create a smug, unrealistic idea of 'motherhood' is intimidating and threatening to the instahuns... (love that term!) Its like you have all pulled back the curtain and are seeing it for what is really all is.... I have not experienced this site as anything other than really rather intelligent and observant - and absolutely hilarious at times! You all say it how it is.... and its SO refreshing!

The fact that you can’t sit on the chair and be in the centre of the mirror really irrationally grates on me.


And that the make up takes up some of the mirror. And that it looks like an office desk.
Fuck it.... I hate everything about this.

Everyone is coming out badly here tbh. What mod did was mega cringe. But all these instamums both LOVING the drama and their fake outrage mixed with absolute pleasure at seeing the queen bee be humiliated in this way is pretty embarrassing too tbh.

I hate myself so much right now, screen time yesterday : 6h47 minutes. Why am I so addicted to this !? Maybe part of me likes that the woman who made us feel so shitty about ourselves with her undisclosed ads and fake perfect life is going down... immature I know, like I said I hate myself right now !