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louisem23 said:

Also, just caught up on tonight's episode and I can't believe how unpleasant Julian is. I actually think he's the worst type - pretends to be a nice guy but actually is a nasty piece of work who enjoys humiliating women to boost his ego. Willow should run a mile, lucky escape. He's a walking red flag. Life coach my arse.

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I'm a former life coaching client of Julius's (yes, cringe ahoy) and I can confirm that he is highly unprofessional in his service. I dropped him as a life coach on account of this, and after seeing how disgustingly he treated Tabitha and India on the show. What I find astounding is the fact he sees absolutely no issue with his behaviour and how this would damage his professional image and credibility. In fact, I called him out on his behaviour on the show and how revolting I found his treatment of various women, and he patronisingly told me to "take it with a pinch of salt".

In terms of Julius's professional conduct - or lack thereof - I had various niggles with his conduct throughout the course of our (online) sessions, which I foolishly bit my tongue on but finally voiced to him after seeing his appalling behaviour on screen. He was late to the vast majority of our sessions, and would literally only notify me minutes beforehand that he would be late to our appointments by 10-30 minutes, or would ask to postpone it to a later time that day. Unbelievably, he didn't once apologise for being late or chopping and changing appointment times at a moment's notice. He would simply just ask in a cavalier manner if we could rearrange, as if his time was more valuable than mine, and his clients should have to fit around his schedule and laissez-faire approach to appointment times.

On another occasion, I confirmed a session booking with Julius over WhatsApp for the following day, but he didn't get back to me for nearly 48 hours - meaning he missed the session. When I finally heard from him, he didn't even acknowledge the fact he missed our session, let alone apologise, and breezily asked if we could do one the following day.

Another major concern for me was the fact he rolled on our sessions to a new block booking without seeking my consent first. I was only made aware of this when Julius messaged me to ask if I could send him payment for this new block booking. Needless to say, I felt embarrassed and put on the spot, so agreed to do so, without having thinking space (due to some personal stress I was going through) to consider whether this was something I actually wanted. Absolutely astonishing and unethical as hell on his part. When I told him I didn't realise we were on a new session, he didn't even ask if I was happy to proceed - or ask me to sign a new contract - as he should have done. Sneaky as hell.

What's all the more galling is the fact Julius also had the audacity to judge and virtue-signal about the behaviour of a guy who did the exact same thing to me that he did to India. He's not an honourable person in the slightest and his behaviour smacks of narcissism and a breath-taking lack of self-awareness.

This is all remarkable for the fee he charges - which I assure you is far from cheap.

On review, I'm annoyed at myself for not ending the life coaching sessions sooner, merely on account of Julius's staggeringly arrogant and self-centred behaviour towards his paying client. But seeing his treatment of India was the absolute tipping point for me and what prompted me to cancel our sessions and call him out on his behaviour.

Another very concerning issue for me was the fact Julius ignored my requests for a refund four times (for four life coaching sessions I cancelled), and only gave my money back when I threatened to seek legal advice on the matter. I also provided him with feedback on various concerns I had around his unprofessionalism during our sessions, but he completely ignored this too. Any half-decent professional would have been perturbed by such complaints about their service and done their utmost to apologise and try to make amends with their client - but not Julius. He sees zero issue with how he conducts himself both professionally and on the show, and can't seem to mentally grasp why people are so reviled by his terrible attitude and unbelievable lack of respect towards women.

To me, it's deeply troubling that the show's producers are continuing to give Julius a platform to promote himself and his life coaching service, and that he probably has many impressionable followers who will sign up to his service without realising what they're getting themselves into. I've contacted MiC's production company let them know about my experience of him as a life coach. Hopefully they'll actually take it seriously and hold him to account for his behaviour, but who knows.

Cannot be unseen

My friend works with some of the cast and has said that Harvey was actually caught cheating with prostitutes. Hence why there is little to no focus in the show around who he cheated with.

A story about Sam Prince

Hey guys, long time Tattler lurker, first time poster!


I’ve only just started watching Made in Chelsea, and one reason I never got into it was because of Sam Prince. I’ve never really told this story, but I feel like it’s a good platform to do so finally.

I went to primary school with him, he was in the year above me. We were in a combined class and sat next to each other (I was Year 3, he was Year 4). He started exposing himself to me, asking me to touch him, asking to touch me down there. If I dropped something, he would duck under the table as well to try and kiss me. Once, I went to the bathroom during lesson and when I walked out he was waiting. He backed me right into the girls toilets and tried to kiss me. I ran away.

I only ever told my mum, and I was too scared to report and didn’t really understand what or why he was doing these things. He moved to another school shortly after, and I never saw him again.

Seeing him now be successful, on national tv and gaining so much exposure, makes me sick to my stomach as I don’t know what he’s capable of. I’ve never really told that story for fear of “oh but you were really young, it doesn’t matter”. But in my eyes, knowing he was like that from such a young age, makes me scared of what he’s done or what he could do now he’s an adult.


This story is hopefully to give background to why he might behave the way he does. Thank you for reading x

dddddddddddd said:

What does inga see in Sam Prince?!

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Every time I feel bad about some of the trash men I’ve dated, I remember there are girls who have cried on national tv over Sam Prince and Julian…

I like Nicole. Finally they’ve put someone in that won’t sugar coat things and isn’t fickle. I don’t know why Liv’s friends are all so triggered. I guess they’re threatened by her.

I also agree with her response.

Tweedledumb said:

SPOILER (sorry don't know how to do the link to hide my post??)

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How sad for Tiff and her fiance

I hope Emily finds a nice guy soon. Harvey the man-child has treated her awfully, she deserves way better.



100% agree. I have a few friends and know of several women who effectively wasted their entire 20s in a long-term relationship (talking 8-10 years) for this to happen exactly as you've said.

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This happened to me, and the worst thing is he lied to me for 11 years about wanting children, putting it off telling me we needed a bigger house or a bigger car etc, he basically lied to me the whole relationship/marriage. A year after meeting him I said I was desperate to have a family (early 20’s) and that if he didn’t, I would understand and it was kinder to tell me then than lead me on. He assured me over and over there he wanted children. By the time I plucked up the courage to leave, I had no confidence, and felt so ugly. I don’t have the confidence to be with anyone else, and now I’m too old biologically for children. So basically he ruined my life. I am so angry with myself for going along with it. I was stupid. I’ve had counselling and everything, been suicidal. I’m alone and all I ever wanted was my own children. I know I could adopt, however as women you will appreciate it’s not the same as carrying a child yourself.
Anyway that’s a lot isn’t it, sorry x

"If Maeva wasn't in the picture would I be invited to the wedding?"...Not sure Sam understands the concept of a wedding!

Does anyone else see it?

Sorry but I think all these ‘baby trapping’ comments are SO antiquated and ultimately sexist. At the end of the day if you’re sleeping with someone and not using protection then it is on BOTH people involved- not the woman. MIC is scripted reality tv show and these two 100% play it up for the cameras - you can see them smirking at times! Did James get wasted and kiss someone else? Yeah probably. Did Maeva ask her ex to shag her on national tv? Also yes. That doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be together! I think they are both semi toxic on tv but at the end of the day you can see that they really do care about each other. And so what if they don’t stay together - it’s such an outdated view that parents have to be together forever when they have a baby or that kids can’t be happy if their parents divorce. They may well split up in a few years down the line but so what? as long as the baby is supported / loved / cared for that’s the main thing.

One thing I cannot bear is rubys hypocrisy. A few episodes ago she was going in on Inga about going to drinks with Sam and lying about it. But now that she’s done it with Rez, she doesn’t understand why Bella is upset? On top of that she said she wanted to keep it a secret because she didn’t want it to look worse than what it was but when Inga said the same thing she laughed her out of the room??? Genuinely get this girl off the show. Also, what she’s done is worse because Bella is actually with Rez whilst she’s secretly gone to dinner with him whilst Inga went to drinks with Sam when him & Yas had broken up but they got waaaay more hate for it. Didn’t ruby chase them down the road? actual cow

Rez is like a British Peter Andre I have decided.

Does anyone else just think Robbie is a selfish entitled prick?

Have not been following these threads. I am someone that personally knows Ruby Adler and has known since she was 15 years old (right before she met Reza). I know everything there is to know about this disgusting excuse for a human being. The things she has done to Reza, the things he has done to her through the years, I’ll list a few facts below. I just feel the need to get this off my chest, feel free to message me to ask further as I don’t want to give TOO much away publicly.

Reza and Ruby met when she was 16 years old and Reza was 25, he was a club promoter at Amika Kensington (went on to amika south Molton street). She would regularly go clubbing at many Mayfair clubs she definitely looked under age as she’s quite petite however it was no issue at the time as she was on the ‘scene’. Rez may not have known her EXACT age when he first met her but he would have known she was under 18, they had sex almost straight after she met him ( she was very very easy, she had sex with many promoters at the time) she gave Rez chlamydia very early on which she caught from another promoter during that period. Rez had an on off girl friend at the time who was closer in age to him that also worked at Amika. Res would hang out with ruby in secret as he could not tell any of his friends that he was spending time with / interested in a girl that young as it was clearly an issue. For the following two years Rez did treat her very badly as he kept her as a dirty secret and would spend time with her privately but never publicly acknowledge her. At one point he got back with his gf and totally froze ruby out. His gf ended up breaking up with him once again and he went straight back to ruby.

Eventually when ruby got to around 18/19 Rez started to publicly (sometimes) acknowledge ruby infront of his friends, up until this point he would invite her to his house to hang out / have sex with totally secretly. During this entire time she was also having sex with many many other people, in fact far more than Rez however she definitely was quite besotted
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For example ruby had sex with Rez flatmate and then Rez walked into the room and she hid in the guys wardrobe.

she has had sex with so many of Rez’s ‘friends’ that the people close to them literally don’t know what to say.

She always complains about how Rez never actually wants to have sex with her but then always ends up going back to him, she has given Rez chlamydia twice that I know of ( yes they don’t have sex often but clearly often enough for him to contract STI)

He’s gone from Made In Chelsea to Noshed in Salford.
I’m not sure what’s worse - his skinny, scabby legs, the Pringles and coke on the best and or the dirty carpets.
Regardless, you can smell it from here!

I like the dress

Musings30 said:

Wowww. I'm surprised the producers are allowing him to continue appearing on the show. Then again I'm not, seeing as they're still forcing us to endure Julius.

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Girl I mean this with respect but I feel like maybe you should stop watching if it triggers you to see him on your screen and you are writing in complaints about your personal experience to the TV show. You reply to nearly every post on here turning it into something about Julius and I just feel like it might not be healthy to expose yourself to him on TV when you've clearly had bad dealings with him in person. Not trying to police the thread but I feel like it's such a personal sore spot for you it might just be easier for you to protect your own peace by stopping exposing yourself to it all day every day ....

Forgive me but why does he have to validate his grief on social media? We don’t know how he dealt with it behind closed doors, especially if there’s children involved on her side

And sorry to say it’s also his EX girlfriend, if I died today and my exes started gushing about me on social media I’d haunt the fuck out of them both. It would absolutely not be his place to have my name in his mouth

Did anyone else notice Harvey say he's not going to be a "prawn" in Inga's game