I've literally only just discovered Kate has a thread. Could someone please do a recap?
After winning Big Brother in the early 00s with with a Geezer bird/ladette type personality (where she notably was included in the bullying of Jade Goody) Kate went on to become a DJ. She worked hard, spent hard and partied hard being involved in tabloid headlines for drunken brawls and linked to drug use, particularly cocaine.
Fast forward to recent years Kate (42) and her partner Boj who she calls ‘the handsome’ created a podcast called ‘maybe baby’ weighing up their decision to have a child. Kate being very much happily child free stating she has no interest in them & she didn’t like them but Boj pushing for a child.
Ultimately, Kate ‘compromised’ and with relative ease Kate fell pregnant, along came Noa in Feb 2021. (Kate later revealed she’d had an abortion in the year previous).
Noa was born via planned ‘abdominal birth’ but fell poorly in the days after and required hospital treatment. Kate breastfed for a short time and would post stories of her struggles during this time. It was evident she was unhappy. She fell into deep regret/PND.
She initially tried to hide her struggles but her erratic, at times manic behaviour showed very clearly things were not OK.
She’d planned to return to work after 12 weeks but extended this realising it was perhaps naive but did eventually return to her Virgin Radio drive time slot.
Kate chose a newspaper supplement magazine exclusive to tell all about her difficulties but claimed she was through the worst of if (she didn’t seem to be). She talked about a desire to be physical with Noa, suicidal thoughts and deep regret. It later became apparent that she wasn’t being left alone with Noa either and relied some on a night nanny Siobhan.
She eventually has a medical episode (panic attack?) that lead to her leaving her job to spend more time with Noa.
During all of this and subsequent months she has spoken about Noa with resentment, criticism and distain using words like idiot and moron.
She moved Noa into her own room on a different floor before the recommended 6 months old.
She asked if it was ok to leave Noa in a soiled nappy because it was ten minutes until bath time. It hadn’t occurred to her to have Nappy off time.
She left Noa overnight with a wooden toy in her baby grow, knowing she was in discomfort but thinking she was just whinging.
Though Noa seems to be an excellent sleeper, Kate has been obsessed with Noa’s sleep down to the minute and keeping routine, Taking Noa away from a TV show to put her int the bath bang on time.
Noa is still in her cot with sides, she settles herself while Kate watches on a monitor.
Through all of this Kate has a now elderly dog named Baxter and a younger rescue named Shirley who she showers with love and affection, is happy to wake in the night for and always includes as her ‘children’ claiming to be a family of 5.
She places a strong emphasis on food which is widely thought to be deflection as she appears to have a very unhealthy relationship with it, eating disorders have been speculated.
She, with relative regularity, has days/nights out where she gets drunk and takes to IG stories.
Boj’s Mum is a doting grandmother, Kate’s sister visits on Fridays and seems to adore Noa as does Boj’s sister who looks strikingly like Kate. Kate’s parents and other siblings are seen infrequently.
Most of us are rooting for Kate to do better and she seems to be but still can’t quite seem to muster the love and affection she has for the dogs for Noa. Noa is a beautiful, very bright child with excellent talking skills and is well taken care of physically. Boj is useless, but he cooks so Kate thinks he’s great. They recently married.
Please let me know if any of this is incorrect, going by memory here.
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Forgot to add - Kate wrote a book, telling the story of her first year of parenting. She claimed that amongst the suicidal thoughts etc she was writing everything down which seemed unlikely and/or calculated. Noa has been monetised since before conception so it would be unsurprising if it was commissioned before she was born.
The various interviews she did during promotion used headlines including the word ‘regret’ which she got stick for so Boj took to IG defend her even though they were direct quotes. She cut the promos short due to “illness” iirc.
Kate is known to often have the Monday morning sickness bugs. Whenever she overindulges on food and/or alcohol she seems to have food poising or a sickness bug. Ot’s speculated the food is a shock to the system or it’s a way to cover a binge-purge cycle.
Also, I might have been wrong about Moa being in a different floor to them, possibly she’s up 3/4 steps in the same floor.
Sorry for the repetition of ‘fell’ and ‘Kate’, it’s hard to see what you’re doing writing on a phone