This ! What is she doing with her life ?
I am by no means saying we all HAVE to have kids but I do know you get to a certain stage in your life and things start to hit you ... I have Children so I am guessing but I would assume that if I had made the decision to definitely not have them (whether it be right now or ever) and I was in my 30's, married 10 years, working away, bought a house etc etc I would be starting to think about what my next big goal would be....
And if I was him I would seriously be questioning her contribution to it all ....
im not sure I agree tbh. I don’t understand why there has to be “goals” to work towards to.
im 40 in a couple of months, and me and my husband don’t have kids. We don’t own our house
either, cause ya know, money.
But we live day to day. We do spontaneous things a few times a year like go to london and watch a show. Or go on holiday ( pre Covid times ) No different then anyone else. We have more disposable income as we don’t have kids but I’m an avid Amazon shopper to improve the house,
so that’s where mine goes mostly every month. We are still very much limited money wise. I earn just above min wage.
Most weekends we stay home and watch Netflix.
I don’t understand why there should be goals. Life ain’t like that. 80% of the time it’s work, relax or do some diy.