judgejohndeed

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Also CFBC and I find it weird how much she brings it up, but also...I don't really like the idea of her becoming some poster girl for being childfree because to be honest I very much get the feeling that she doesn't have kids because of the body related issues she has, and also because it would disrupt her 'glam influencer lifestyle'. While I am very much of the mindset that anyone who doesn't want kids shouldn't have them, for any reason at all, I don't think it really does the rest of us CFBCers a favour when it seems like she's only not having them for vacuous/superficial reasons. Hope that makes sense. Like I just think there is likely more to being childfree than wanting to be skinny and go on holiday a lot even for Vic, but the impression she gives off isn't one I'd want younger girls watching her to think about? If you want kids you can maintain a good figure and you can go on holiday etc, the best reason not to have them is because you don't want to be someone's parent. I just worry about how she makes it look I suppose.
 
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lurkingin94123

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Deceptive much? Trying to hide the free hotel by blending the text in with the busy wallpaper and then flaunting spending an extortionate amount on fish and chips whilst people are struggling to feed their families due to inflation.

She is actually ridiculous.
😡😡😡 Oh hell no. The ASA sent me an investigation update about the 4 JC ads that she marked with “a d.” They are reaching out to the brand and Vic. It’s about time. I’m tired of the lying. I hope JC re-evaluates any future booked work with her. She is such a shady piece. Notice, when high fashion influencers like Tamara, Leonie, Caro, Xenia, work with the same brands, they don’t cover up or manipulate that they are working on pod ad campaigns. Vic needs to stop playing games and being so desperate.
 

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Influensters

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I’m sure I’m not the only one in the universe that thinks her eyebrows are absolutely comical? Who did her this dirty by telling her it’s a good look? Like.. what? Lmaaooo

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QueenDecember

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Wow wow wow wowwwwwwww 🤣I cannot believe that's how she announced a name change!

The suit looked awful on her. The poor audio with no captions. The horrific lighting. The standing in front of a shower. The poor quality. Everything was was wrong with that reel and THAT's her idea of top level content to announce her change from "intheFrow" to Victoria Magrath?

Sorry. I'm a brand director so I just can't help but laugh at this 🤡 What a tragic mess.
 
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The fact that she’s used Leonor’s video without crediting her puts her credibility into question. I’ll forever be questioning whether she actually attended the event she’s shared on her insta.

She’s really done so much damage!
What’s wrong with her?? It’s bad to miss an event, especially one you’re contracted to attend, but it’s way worse to lie.

The GRWM is still on her IG grid and it’s getting some comments, like these:
 

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Lechat

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“We are all judged by our last nine squares”
what the fuck is she on about? Does she not realise 99.9% of people don’t live their lives on insta looking for validation and attention? Therefore it would be impossible to make a judgement about most people based on Instagram.

Her job as an influencer means her output is judged, and it is a reflection of her. People will make judgements about her posts because that’s how it works FOR INFLUENCERS. Honestly she comes over as wanting it both ways. You cannot have a commercial insta account thats basically a QVC channel flogging shit and vlogging your life and not expect people to judge. And its got nothing to do with where she was born, her parents, education etc. we judge based on what she chooses to put out there which is completely narcissistic and egotistical content.
 
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Rant incoming…..
She did on average 1 show or presentation a day with a complete day off and time at a spa in the middle, yet moans it was too much 😳.
Most of us work 8 hours a day, have to drive there and back, eat cold lunch out of tupperware rather than sat down in a fancy restaurant, have to wash, dry and style our hair ourselves and do our make-up, drop the kids off en route, get all their crap ready and do their hair 😅. When we get home, there’s all the housework then we still manage to socialise some nights, going out dressed up. Vic does none of this apart from the going out dressed up bit (to a show) which is a fraction of what we do. I upload a photo every time I go out, of my outfit, of the food, selfies with my friends etc which is more than she does and it’s the whole point of her online existance. She has some front coming online moaning about her life, she’s barely able to do what we do for fun, as a job. Imagine getting paid to live her lifestyle then moaning to the working class about it. I manage to upload more content than she does (I also edit them) as well as work full time and run a household (without a cleaner or a PA). She’s absolutely lost touch with reality. All this during a vlog where her husband asks “which car would you like today” and she replies “ooohh I love this question, I’ll take the Porche babe”. I’m pretty sure her demographic of viewers don’t have daily decisions like that to ponder over 🤣.

Does anyone know if she’s ever had an actual job? Like Tamara at a pharmacy or Lydia in a clothes shop. Did Victoria ever have a job or just go straight from Uni to influencing? That would explain a lot.
I think it's too much for her because she feels like she's spending money and effort and time and not getting to be better than some of the other "it" influencers. She not getting ahead, and she can see it all around her. She doesn't compare herself to us hoi polloi; she compares herself to the other people in her industry who are at FW. She can see they are getting to be where they want, and she is so thin-skinned, vain and proud, that she can't take real joy in what she has accomplished.

(I liken it to how if you go to yoga or pilates classes, and you do well, but you can't do all the pretzel-strength stuff some of the other people do, you don't say, "Wow! I'm so much better at that than I was! And better than all the people who didn't even go!" You say, "I've been going so long and I'm still rubbish at yoga!" Well, that's what I do. LOL.)

Also, I'm listening to her bitch EVEN MORE about the hotel. She's ruining all her vlogs with these complaints. She's showing full narc rage now. And if you drank every time she said "Presidential Suite" you'd be black-out drunk 9:24 minutes in. I think the hotel is standing in for how angry she is at everyone else for her not being FROW at all the shows like the other influencers.
 
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Lablabla92

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Imagine having a list which is basically “have brunch, online shop, exercise, have dinner, have a bath, upload some videos, watch a movie” and thinking it’s indicative of being a “workaholic”? Most people feed themselves, order a few bits, exercise and do a couple of chores every day *on top of normal full time jobs*!
 

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BaliBarbie

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I could not agree with you more. We kept our house purchase really quiet - because it’s an incredibly private thing and I don’t want everyone knowing where I live 😂 could never imagine bragging about it on my very private socials, let alone to thousands/millions of random strangers!

It’s so strange to me, as someone who grew up with money, that there are people who are DESPERATE for others to recognise it. My parents taught me in being humble, giving back and taking pride our own individual talents - rather than money or status symbols. As my dad always says “people aren’t going to write a message on your gravestone about how much money you had, or how big your house was, or that you owned a Bentley. They’ll talk about what you loved, and who loved you”. It’s a bit morbid but has always stuck with me, especially when seeing all the new rich idiots on socials, bragging about the latest designer bag that looks the exact same as another one they already own…

I am still disappointed that she has missed a trick with not promoting sustainable Christmas ideas - I thought she was the creme de la creme of sustainability??? Or does she think sustainability is buying one REALLY expensive item and not lots? 😂😂😂 wouldn’t shock me tbh
This struck such a chord with me. A close family member recently passed away…someone who had partly raised me. I was with them in their final days and they were actually holding my hand when they passed. What has really struck me is that ultimately people only remember how you made them feel. This family member didn’t have many material possessions but she had made such an impact in our lives. Also, at the end of life, we are literally removed from our homes in a black plastic bag.. we literally take nothing with us. It has been such an awakening as to the vacuousness of social media and these influencers.
 
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catdonut

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I have to laugh when she, in classic influencer fashion, intends to solve her lack of walking by buying a treadmill or buying a vibration plate. Maybe just step out your door and have a walk around the neighbourhood. Drive your expensive car to your local trail and have a hike where you'll work your leg muscles going up and down an incline. My god these people are so incapable of solving problems without having to promote constant consumption. Then they pretend to be eco-friendly with their "sustainable" notebooks as the answer to their monied brainrot.
 
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bottie1000

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I honestly think all this gifting is going to bite both brands and influencers in the bum. I don't mind if an influencer gets sent stuff thats directly related to the work they do, like make-up, clothing etc. But in the last 2 years this gifting has just spiralled out of control, why do beauty and fashion influencers get sent TV's, speakers, outdoor furniture that cost over £10,000 combined for free! It puts me off, I'm happy to see women being successful in the work they do, but it just seems to greedy and grabby now. When I see brands gift items like this to Victoria, it just doesn't make sense, and I actively avoid brands who just cater to this childish indulgence.

Now more than ever, the world as we know it (or at least for the foreseeable future) isn't going to be the same, I can't bear watching people like Victoria get send SO MUCH STUFF, for doing nothing, when there are people dying on the front line. People are losing their jobs, the economy is going to be in tatters, wages are going to fall etc. Its just so depressing trying to be a normal person and make it by these days. I used to watch girls like this as a form of escapism, at least their lives were attainable at one point, thats what made them so sincere and authentic. I'd see them use a NARS palette and I'd rush to order it. But now, I just can't. Not when they're so far attached from reality, sitting in their gifted mansions, going on their 100th gifted holiday, eating their gifted dinner out at a top restaurant etc. Whilst the rest of us worker bees are (indirectly) funding all this.
 
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cee-bee

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alex looks like a more chav-ier version of david beckham 😂

jokes aside, they are really ill-suited for one another. Both of them prioritize their own personal goals.

Relationships and marriage are created by 2 people who love and respect each other, and are willing to look for solutions for their problems.

Both of them are hitting the wall when it comes to their marriage: Victoria’s career is on the decline, and Alex doesn’t help out a lot aside from editing her photos.

They should seek couples’ therapy but both of them are too proud to admit their marriage is on the rocks.
new to this thread so maybe I’m rehashing things that have already been said, but I didn’t ever see their marriage going the distance.

I followed Victoria back in her purple hair era, when she wore ASOS and had a cute yellow bedroom. Back then Alex was bald without a steady job. By her own admission, she’s super needy with men. Her parents broke up, her dad started a new family IIRC and she’s spoken in the past about how that impacted her… in other words, serious issues with rejection. She’s also spoken about how she didn’t like being single and has had a boyfriend almost continuously since her teens. She’s been with Alex from about age 20 unless I’m mistaken.

In her earlier era, it felt to me like she’d started dating this rather mediocre man who didn’t match her in looks, ambition, achievements or education - because he was a safe bet. She’d known him a long time and she was so obviously out of his league, she’d never have to worry about the rejection presumably.

because he doesn’t seem to have much of a backbone and coasts along on her coattails, his identity and career have become enmeshed with her. Which is probably how she likes it - he can’t leave her if he’s dependent on her to an extent. It wouldn’t surprise me at all if she dangled the possibility of kids, or manipulated him - because I genuinely think she cannot bear to be alone or single.

for his part, I think Alex is probably aware of the above. And I think he probably resents her for it. I think their dynamic is a toxic blend of manipulating and controlling the other - she’s doing it out of fear of being left, he’s doing it out of resentment. She has maneovered him into being a byproduct of In The Frow and exploits his lack of career/ambition to make him dependent on her. He controls her food, where they live etc. because he knows she’s deathly afraid of being rejected or left.

it’s a toxic mess, so I’m glad there aren’t children involved. They’ve spent 10+ years creating this toxic mess and they are both too stuck in it, and lacking in emotional intelligence, to address it or end the marriage themselves. I can’t see them ever breaking up or divorcing unless one of them gets an “out” and cheats, frankly. It’s the only scenario in which two people as maladaptive as these two feel they can leave relationships.
 
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For the lowdown on the car nonsense for those who can't be arsed to watch or don't want to give her the views...

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I don't want to be a pessimistic byotch, but it seems to me things aren't looking good.

It seems to me, that the Manchester apartment and this new car is what Alex will go for when the split happens.

Vic will get the Deanshanger house, Porsche and the Evoque. Alex will get the Manchester apartment and this new car.

Also, isn't she lil' Miss Sustainable? Getting 2 gas-guzzling cars isn't really sustainable, is it?

Well, she directly confirms our theories of having a Range Rover. Victoria is the gift that keeps on giving.
 
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poopettemetis

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“Subtle. Elegant. Enduring.”

Jesus fucking Christ. 🙄 She is really laying it on THICK for this tiny as fuck impractical mug

I can’t wait until she starts moaning “stop emailing me about your mugs breaking!! That’s the customer service team!! If your cup isn’t enduring, it’s YOUR fault!!”
"ONTHEGO" but 5 mins out the door and 3 sips later you're finished. So now you're lugging around a ceramic coffee cup all day.
 
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Complaining again about the hotel room when her husband not brother calls up and asks which car she wants to take. ‘I’ll take the Porsche please’ she answers and continues to moan. She is so tone deaf and clueless!!

She's moaning about hotel rooms, how busy fashion week is, getting to attend prestigious shows with her husband and staying in beautiful places, having meals out, living the dream for some, comes home to a lovely house, 2 dream cars on the drive, chooses her own schedule, is her own boss, works with her husband and best friends and still just complains endlessly.

Vic, if you’re not happy, quit! Don’t do fashion week, don’t travel, do whatever but stop bloody whinging and whining about your life as if you’re so hard done by. It’s the same story, rinse and repeat every fashion month.
 
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BrittleLeaves

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She said "a friend asked what the difference is in all her other fab trips and a honeymoon' 😂 😂😂 its us, we're the friend! And she goes on to say she wont be working and being told what shoe to wear with what purse, babe no one is telling you what to do, they are PAYING you to do that.
Holy hell look at the prices of nihi sumba, I cant wait to see what room they picked.
 
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