Shesaidwhat?

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Helen Anderson #21: New car, no bra, blah blah blah.
Being honest the reason I come onto this thread now is nothing to do with Helen. I like checking in with you guys and the off chance Luna has returned.
 
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SpookyLumberjack

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I still think that Luna might have been Helen but she realised she should stop benue being caught out
I don't think Luna was Helen, if it was then someone was checking her grammar and spelling before she posted. Helen can't string a sentence together at the best of times, she certainly can't spell!
 
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luckyblue

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The comments on the apology are so infuriating I wish I hadn’t read any. Maybe I’m alone in this, I don’t find the rules confusing at all. I’m not a fan of the current government, I don’t think they’re handling this perfectly, but I’m sick of seeing posts everywhere paraphrasing the rules and making them confusing. If you actually read the restrictions on the gov.uk website, they’re very clear. Several reputable news websites also have lists of scenarios that aren’t and are allowed.
Again, simply realising that the higher the tier, the higher the rates are, should be enough to have you avoiding the area for your own benefit at the very least.
 
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Innit

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I'm a mental health professional, and I fucking DESPISE how influencers are throwing around these serious and life-altering diagnoses like some FuN qUiRkY personality trait! By commodifying mental illness and using it as an excuse for your bad behaviour, you're not "fighting the stigma" - you're intensifying it!

Now, I don't mean to invalidate anyone's struggle with mental health, but hear me out. There's a difference between an actual disorder and just everyday struggles that manifest similarly. Being a nervous person does not mean you actually have an anxiety disorder. Being low on energy and down in winter doesn't necessarily mean you have SAD, so on and so forth. Of course, there are influencers out there that are genuinely unwell, but I feel like most of them are jumping the gun with getting diagnosed for the sake of relatability and content.

I have a theory that most youtubers'/influencers' symptoms and issues can be explained by the combination of three factors - working alone, being hooked on external validation/instant gratification and excessive navel-gazing. Basically, it's an occupational hazard.

Remember how in the 2010s every other Youtuber had social anxiety? Back then, YouTube was not the huge industry it is now; there weren't many events to go to. So naturally, if your job is filming at home alone all day, you will feel anxious before meeting people. If you're used to mainly interacting with people via comments and Twitter, of course you're going to feel awkward and stressed talking to them IRL. It doesn't mean you have a social anxiety disorder!

Now we have an influencer ADHD epidemic. This, once again, can be explained by the nature of influencer work. Social media is designed to be distracting, and it is proven that it shortens our attention span. If we take Helen as an example, she showed herself many times "working", watching TV and checking socials simultaneously. You're looking at three screens at the same time! Of course you feel agitated and unfocused! Combine this with excessive caffeine, sugar and alcohol, and you have a recipe for ADHD simulation. Same with unfinished projects - if you're addicted to instant gratification, and all you see is years of practice condensed into a 30sec reel, no wonder you drop hobbies as soon as they get even a tiny bit tricky.

I know I'm going to sound like an insensitive boomer, but some influencers' aversion to hard work comes through even in this situation. I know it is 100 times harder to own up to your issues and work on your flaws one by one rather than just branding them all together as some syndrome and getting a pill for it. But I'm genuinely baffled how are they so happy to risk fucking up their brains with drugs. This trend of just throwing medication at any mental health issue and hoping the "magic pill" will sort out your life for you frustrates me immensely. Probably because I've seen what ADHD medication can do to you and it's horrifying.

For Helen's sake, I hope she gets a proper assessment with a brain scan, not just a questionnaire with a physical.
 
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Shesaidwhat?

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Does anyone here feel bad about coming here or how much time they spend on here.
I pretty much follow this forum instead of twitter
I personally don’t, it’s been a welcome distraction for me I know everyone on this site has been painted as evil but everyone I’ve came across has been nothing but lovely and supportive towards each other, it’s like having a gossip with your friends albeit friends you’ve never met 😂.
 
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i'm in an awful mood so please excuse me, but seeing that sainsburys hamper she got gifted, knowing how much food is stuffed in her cupboards and fridge, knowing how many families are struggling this year honestly breaks my heart and F*CKS ME OFF beyond belief. sainsburys i will no longer be shopping with you, absolute shame on you
 
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ekl2000

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FAO HELEN ANDERSON

In all seriousness though my heart is breaking for Kat, her post is incredibly poignant and sad.
 
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navybluewolf

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10 ways Helen permanently boosts her confidence: white wine, red wine, rose wine, beer, gin, vodka, rum, whiskey, cider, Prosecco and Guinness.
 
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Shesaidwhat?

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I feel like that would of been SO awkward to film. Just her in her bikini dancing around at home for a few minutes. I could not deal with doing this as my 'job' 🤦
Imagine someone innocently on a walk just happens to glance in her window

 
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navybluewolf

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I can't believe she won't even go to the gym by herself. She literally can't be alone.

She should join one of those cults and become a sister-wife.
 
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Lunamoon22

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Wonder if she hosted a huge party at hers over the weekend for Danni since it's her birthday today... Hence why no weekend round up pics

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The obligatory post of "here's a picture of me and the birthday person!"

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Why is that a good one? Oh you're holding your tit and drinking while Danni is blurry and pointing... Yeah, good one 🙄

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I don't believe for a second that that she halved a cake for Fiwl. She totally ate the lot 🤣

Also: "Still something's to do today"

FULL TIME WORKER BTW 🤣

Imagine saying to your boss "sorry I can't come back into work, I ate two slices of cake and need a nap now"
 
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Emmapism

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I'm confused. Didn't she say as part of her 'therapy' she wasn't visiting here anymore?

That life coach is clearly doing an excellent job 😂
 
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sorenips

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She's so inherently unsexy. I don't know if it's her poor hygiene or her desperation but something about her is just so off-putting. Maybe it's the thought of her covered in dog hairs and ear pickings, grabbing a crusty unwashed dildo from her bedside drawer and yelling "PHIL! I'M 'AVVIN' A BUZZ! WANNA GET INVOLVED?" whilst he pretends not to hear her over the sounds of the 12 year old COD gamers shouting how they're going to fuck his mum in his headset or perhaps it's that her idea of sexy talk is going "YOU 'AVIN A GOOD TIME?" and making the rock sign with her fingers whilst preparing to fake her fifth orgasm in as many minutes. Perhaps.
 
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Emmapism

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I've mentioned before that I work in TV and I've specialised in true crime for the last 7 years.

I will tell you for nothing that this requires a level of sensitivity Helen doesn't have and has never possessed.

I would say I'm disgusted but unfortunately this seems to be a bandwagon that influencers seem compelled to jump on. Who this helps I've no idea. Why she's doing it I've no idea.

She can barely string a sentence together. I can't say that Helen's opinion on this subject matter is needed or even wanted.
 
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ekl2000

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Holy shit her mollusc defending her saying ‘maybe the one in London is her favourite and that’s why she went’ 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

my favourite people are my family and I can’t see them as they’re in a different part of the country. Sometimes you just fucking have to DEAL WITH IT. And mind your business? It’s a global pandemic it’s everyone’s business.
 
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Marwood

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I followed Phil's car and bike page because I actually don't know anything about fixing up engines etc and I might as well see what I can learn, but as everyone's said the lack of proof-reading is already stinging
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Its EARA
 
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