What does the ethnicity of each lady in both of your texts have to do with either of your stories?
Anyway... I’m looking forward to an update from Carys regarding Amber! Hope they’re doing okay.
Anyway... I’m looking forward to an update from Carys regarding Amber! Hope they’re doing okay.
I actually think all the comments about being GLAD Carys is on her own in hospital with the baby are awful. I get its fun to bash them on here when they basically ask for it so much but its borderline cruel how much some people wished she would have to stay in hospital on her own and now she has had a bad birth she does.
So many people assuming they know what is best for her but the reality is no new mum wants to stay in hospital for 5 days with their brand new baby after problems with the birth and no support from their partner.
So many people assuming they know what is best for her but the reality is no new mum wants to stay in hospital for 5 days with their brand new baby after problems with the birth and no support from their partner.
Anonemxoxo
Chatty Member
Do we all think she's in labour now? Like for yes, angry react for no. Curious to see what everyone thinks. I feel like she actually could be this time
jawidjanqndn
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james just hovers like a bad smell. he is everywhere, just piss off. you can imagine him saying shit like ‘oh carys amber isnt latching onto our boob’. i’d kick him out
Disneylifeonly
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Come on folks let's not do parent shaming, especially over tiny things.
If James suddenly comes through holding Amber by her ankles then yea maybe comment, but they're first time parents finding their feet, give them a little chance here
If James suddenly comes through holding Amber by her ankles then yea maybe comment, but they're first time parents finding their feet, give them a little chance here
Wingingmotherhood
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James says Amber has a stronger bond with Carys as they’ve been in hospital together.
No James! She’s her mother, she grew her, she birthed her, of course she’s going to have that stronger bond, especially in the early days. It’s like he’s jealous of Carys. I hate him!
And if he says ‘positive’ one more time I will drive to Wales & punch him in the face
No James! She’s her mother, she grew her, she birthed her, of course she’s going to have that stronger bond, especially in the early days. It’s like he’s jealous of Carys. I hate him!
And if he says ‘positive’ one more time I will drive to Wales & punch him in the face
Flyonthewallxo
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When its nap time and you see your mom coming towards you with a swaddle and a big fucking blanket, whilst its almost 25 degrees outside.
Muff_Puff
Chatty Member
I’m pretty sure that’s what he was going on about in the nursery tour video as they showed off the bedside crib too.
I wouldn’t put it past James to get a fake tit so he can breastfeed like the bloke in Meet the Fockers
PreferDogsToHumans
Active member
Sorry, but, I’m only just watching their vlog now, did Carys really phone James and have him come home because she couldn’t figure out how to give Amber a dose of Calpol?!?! I mean, really?! It comes with a syringe, you literally stick the syringe in and fill it up to the appropriate amount that is written VERY CLEARLY on both the box and the bottle itself. I am honestly astounded by her codependency, it is pathetic for a 25-year-old woman to not even be able to medicate her child without James checking it for her 
I agree Carys doesn't look her best in that video, but calling her digusting is unnecessarily harsh.
Edit: agree with those below me that we should keep appearance out of it. It's one thing to comment on her choice of clothes etc, it's another to slag off a heavily pregnant woman as being fat or gross etc, give her a break ffs
Edit: agree with those below me that we should keep appearance out of it. It's one thing to comment on her choice of clothes etc, it's another to slag off a heavily pregnant woman as being fat or gross etc, give her a break ffs
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Lilborrower
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I don’t mind the boob pictures, it’s just skin and it’s in the context of feeding her child. It’s not like she’s just showing off her nipples for fun, even then she’d still be within her rights to. There’s still a lot of stigma around breastfeeding and having to cover up so it’s probably helpful that influencers help destigmatize it by sharing their BF journeys. Good or bad.
This video enforces why, as a midwife, I always advise women to not stress to much about completing their birth plan especially in their first pregnancy as you just can't plan for how your body will take to it and how you will feel on the day. The bit where she criticises the midwife for not offering her gas and air despite the fact they explicitly asked not to be offered pain relief in the birth plan is so frustrating, we see this all the time. In my experience, the women who are open minded have the best experiences as there's no room for disappointment. These "positive birth hypnobirthing" organisations really set women up for failure unfortunately and this is why so many women claim to have had a 'traumatic' birth, you see it with celebs all the time. And as for James, he just reminds me of a lot of young lads we see that do 9 months of courses and Google research then think they're more qualified than the medical professionals.
samalambbxtch
Chatty Member
Are you an influencer ?! You sure gloat like one
Cabbage_2021
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James and Carys #20: Everyday I'm shufflin'
can somebody explain the “busy bee” part of her Instagram handle as from what I’ve seen in her vlogs she’s actually quite lazy and seems to do fuck all
hello123789
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Tell me how your 3 metre ceiling has anything to do with this thread
Wingingmotherhood
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I hate the phrase natural birth. Birth is birth, end of. You don’t get a medal for pushing a baby out of your vaj using no pain relief surrounded by candles and laminated affirmations.
What was ‘natural’ for this baby was to be born with midwives & doctors around using whatever tools/drugs they used.
What was ‘natural’ for this baby was to be born with midwives & doctors around using whatever tools/drugs they used.
sofipbn
Well-known member
I was thinking the exact same thing.What does the ethnicity of each lady in both of your texts have to do with either of your stories?
Anyway... I’m looking forward to an update from Carys regarding Amber! Hope they’re doing okay.