I just received a follow up message from my friend. I feel this is important to share.
The judge made a statement when he ruled. He said that his ruling was evidence based only and any statements from the Petitioner, or hearsay statements, that did NOT include evidence were disregarded. This is paraphrased, but only slightly. My friend said the judge was emphatic. Evidently there was a lot of evidence submitted that was irrefutable and damning. So this was a strictly evidence based ruling.
Lonnng time lurker. I mean longgg. Since waaay back. It’s the only thread I read on Tattle & never bothered setting up an acc till now. And as there’s no rave thread for Alice, I’m forced to post this here.
I know how you all feel, however, I for one have been completely inspired by the glamorous Alice Evans. When my long term partner left me and moved out, I too was absolutely BEREFT. And when the kids stayed with him, I would come home from work, get into bed & stalk my exes and his colleagues socials for signs of a new relationship. I lost interest in everything & completely isolated myself from my own friends and all of our former friends. I felt such a failure at life.
When the children stayed with their dad weekends, I would open the wine, take a sleeping tablet and wake up with MAJOR fear reading the absolute gibberish I had sent to himself whilst under the influence. That’s about the same time as brave and honest Alice went public about her own divorce. I began following her on both Insta & Twitter and even exchanged some supportive DMs with her. Good on her speaking out! A kindred spirit!
The longer I followed the saga, the more invested I became…… and the more I looked at my own life and behaviour. I haven’t touched a drop of alcohol in 14 months. And while I take antidepressants, sleeping aids have become a thing of the past. I no longer need them! As on the nights my kids are in their dads, I go to netball & book club & for the past 5 months, I’ve also taken up boxfit. So I’m always ready for a good nights sleep! I’ve lost almost 3 stone, reconnected with friends & made some new ones along the way. I have a renewed zest for life & our children have benefited HUGELY from my new mindset. Last month, we went on our first holiday together sans dad & it was GLORIOUS. In August, they are going on another holiday with dad and my former inlaws (Who I still love and adore and regularly communicate with) Dad & I have a way to go in terms of a good relationship but we are civil & cordial and would never speak ill of each other to or in front of our children. Oh I’m sure I’ll feel some type of way when I eventually learn he has a new partner. But I understand he deserves happiness & fulfilment too. And I actually WANT that for the father of my children.
Anyway, all this to say,..
THANK YOU ALICE. All your privilege, and (former) beauty, wealth, linguistic skills & many years in the business and all you will be remembered for is as a cautionary tale. THANK YOU for reminding me that my children’s mental well-being comes first & foremost no matter what goes on between their father & I. THANK YOU for encouraging me to stop drunk dialling. THANK YOU for bringing awareness to the toll that years of eating shite, popping pills, drinking & ranting online takes on one’s belly (And neck ). And THANK YOU for reminding me of the importance of staying connected to friends…. and reality.
To summarize, the restraining order was granted. Both Ioan and Bianca are protected from Alice:
- Abusing them (defined in the TRO which I will post)
- Contacting them in any way
- Alice must stay 300 feet/100 yards away from Ioan, Bianca, and their home
- Ioan has been granted the power to record communications made by Alice that violate the TRO.
My brother has lost his battle with cancer. I know my fellow Turds/Tartlets are very caring, and please don't feel the need to derail the thread with condolences.
I am 7 years younger than Alice, and both my parents are deceased. I was still in my 30's (like Alice) when I lost my mother. Now my beloved brother is gone. My ex-husband also passed away 6 years ago, leaving my younger son without his father. My kids also have no living grandparents.
Alice acts like she has lost everything, but she has no frigging idea. I do have a house and a loving partner, however, but that is because I am not a lazy cunt.
So I have spent the past week being worried and heartsick about my drug-addicted and homeless adult son. He has burned bridges, and is finding himself wandering around a major US city, with nowhere to go. (He is almost 3,000 miles for me, and I have suggested the local shelter).
Anyway, this may seem like just a merail, but it is unfortunately quite relevant. You see, Alice, this is a former child who has a parent that resisted the efforts of the other parent to have a healthy co-parenting relationship. One parent was more interested in being the favorite, did not create healthy structure and boundaries, constantly criticized and insulted the other parent, did not teach the child to respect rules or authority, and opposed and interfered with necessary mental health treatment for the child.
I am sure there are many other similarities, but one major difference is my son actually was surrounded by loving grandparents, step parents, aunts, uncles and cousins. And he still could not overcome the pain and dysfunction of his childhood.
Alice, get over yourself and let your girls have therapy and a loving relationship with their father! You are causing them unnecessary pain and suffering. We have a Fentanyl crisis in this country, and all it takes is one bad dose of self-medication and we are planning a funeral instead of a graduation or a wedding.
Summary of Ioan's request for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order - Part 2:
(disclaimer: I am only summarizing what this document states, and I have no knowledge as to its veracity.)
Ioan describes other abusive behavior since January 25, 2021. Ioan requested that communication be limited to topics relating to their daughters. Alice ignored this request. Ioan stopped taking Alice's phone calls around March or April 2021 because of this. Alice then started to text Ioan frequently. He rarely responded "in an effort to avoid conflict." Some of the texts are attached to Ioan's declaration.
Excerpts from texts:
March 24, 2021: "8 o'clock return for Elsie or I will raise hell...that includes calling the police if I need to...I think you have seen what lengths I am prepared to go to to protect my children. You have seen it at Wagon Wheel and you have seen it at Third Street...if somebody hurts them there is no END to what I will do."
April 10, 2021: "I am being paid upfront for a book about the village you grew up in and how you and Math's families hated each other, and course (sic) how your Mom had never grown out of a child's mentality...Do all you want to stop its release...But I plan to reveal your Mother's hideous actions to the whole world, in the hope that it will help somebody else."
April 16, 2021: "NO, NO FUCKING WAY are you taking MY kids to spend Christmas in Wales. NOT EVER. You may as well get that into your head now."
April 17, 2021: "Do you realize how much I have on you, and how little (nothing) I have to lose? If you want to fight I will dedicate my LIFE to fighting you and I will WIN. I am not only the smartest person in the room, but I am also the person who has lost everybody. I have nothing left to lose. So I have ZERO fear. I will share ANYTHING on social media. I will write about everything. As a publicity-shy actor, that isn't good for you."
May 4, 2021: "Your face and body now look hideous to me..."
May 17, 2021: "You're a very weak father, incapable of love."
May 31, 2021: "I want full custody. I want the house. I want spousal support and child support. I want my medical bills and insurance paid. Car insurance too. Half of your life insurance. Half of your savings. Half of what you earn in the future. I won't give up. You'll have to sue me."
June 17, 2021: "You told Ella to 'please stop Mummy from stopping you from seeing me'...Elsie also mentioned you had told her to say that 'Mummy won't let Ella see you.' In your dreams, loser. Ella doesn't want to see you because you don't give a shit about her. Give her some fucking credit, for christ's sake."
June 20, 2021: "These texts will just continue until you agree to talk to me. You can complain to all the lawyers you like. I am perfectly happy to have these texts printed in every newspaper in the world."
July 3, 2021: "These are not threats. I am not asking you for anything. This is WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN. Whatever you do. Do you see the difference? It's more like tormenting you than threatening you."
July 7, 2021: "You want to SELL THE HOUSE???? ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR TINY MIND?...No fucking way. The house is a deal-breaker...I'm going on Twitter to see if there is anybody who can put me up...Also the fans are going to start a Go Fund Me."
July 8, 2021: "I'm reaching out to all our rich friends today to see if I can get a loan. Then I am going to start accepting the offers from the newspapers to tell my story. There is already a bidding war."
July 12, 2021: "Pick up the phone you coward. Pick up the phone. Pick up the phone. Fuck this. I'm tweeting. You've done it again. Congrats. I am coming over to your house...Call me. Please. Just call me. Ok I'm calling the police to escort me to your house...JESUS FUCKING CHRIST. What is wrong with you?"
On July 22, Ioan blocked Alice's number on her phone and sent her a text that day letting her know that, due to her inability to adhere to the agreements they made in Collaboration and Mediation to only communicate about matters concerning the children, he was giving her notice that he is blocking all traditional avenues of communication and moving back to the Our Family Wizard app. He bought Elsie a phone so he could communicate with her directly.
I’m writing this as some sort of explanation about some of my recent posts in the last few threads which may have confused some people.
First of all, there are some very lovely, kind-hearted people on this thread. People who take the time out of their day and use their emotional energy to type up messages to respond to and give advice to other people who say they are suffering from health problems, or personal problems. I have experienced this kindness from people here. I have also thought about health and personal problems of other Tattlers away from these threads, and felt sorry for some of us here who have been through, or are going through, tough times.
This unfortunately means that some other people, who I believe to be FMs, know that they can easily get sympathy and attention from the kind Tattlers here, and know that this is a quick and easy way to ingratiate themselves here.
It’s also mocking us - because they say that we like to speak about our "ailments" and our "shitty lives".
I am extremely good at noticing writing patterns and language used by different posters here, and by the FMs on Twitter. I have an excellent memory. I pick up on very small details and notice when some posters, who are very forthcoming (unprovoked) in speaking about their private lives and health conditions, say things which are are inconsistent. For example, they may claim to be from one country, but then write in a style of, or use references of someone from a different country. They may claim to have several children in one post, but then later make another post saying they love animals more than humans (sound familiar?). These inconsistencies then mount up.
It is very hard for someone’s real writing style to not slip out at some point - especially when someone is making a lot of posts in a short period of time. The sentence structure they use, vocabulary and certain phrases will betray them. Look at how easy we can spot the latest Alice sock (but to be fair, she doesn’t really make an effort to hide who she is).
When extreme/OTT/highly insulting things said about Alice and the girls (beyond what is usually posted here) are then screenshot from here and put on Twitter as an example of how horrible and abusive Tattlers are, or when someone here offers to enlist someone else to doxx FMs, that’s when alarm bells start ringing. Because Alice and her FMs have declared Tattle to be a “hate site”, and say we are bullying Alice and insulting the girls. Alice and her FMs have abandoned real life and think that all that matters is waging a “war” on Twitter and the internet, because all they care about is how Alice is perceived on social media and in the tabloids. Part of this unfortunately involves Tattle, as we have all the evidence of Alice’s atrocious and illegal behaviour.
We know the FMs have multiple Twitter socks. It’s not beyond the realm of possibility that when Tattle was open for registration recently, they made several accounts. These people have a lot of spare time to construct multiple personas, and to write posts all day. These are also not people playing with a full deck of cards. They are bitter, vicious and removed from reality.
IMO, it’s at the least unsporting behaviour, and at the most, extremely suspicious behaviour to moan about not feeling accepted by a forum when you’ve just joined recently. I didn’t get the easiest time when I joined here, because I was new, and I was still standing up for Alice in some areas. I didn’t moan about being challenged or not being accepted. I just realised I wanted to stick around as I liked the thread and the community, and therefore needed to prove myself with longevity, and the content of my posts.
This is a really wonderful thread, and it upsets me to see people who I think are kind, genuine and caring being taken advantage of. I also don’t like the fact that I may have felt sorry for some people, who in actual fact are FMs who completely fabricated a story.
I think this is a good reminder too to always be aware that this is a public forum: anyone can read here; anyone can post here. Perhaps take things posted here with a grain of salt*; and be careful about what you post, as in most instances, you can’t be 100% sure the person you’re talking to is who they say they are. These threads also get tens of thousands of views - it’s not just the people posting here who view it.
And finally, am I saying all new posters from the recent open registration period are FMs? No, of course not.
Stay safe out there folks! *unless they are screenshots of Alice’s/Alice’s socks’ social media, official legal documents or transcripts
One day, those children will remember their father walking behind them as they walked home after leaving their Saturday visitation with him less than an hour after arriving. They'll remember that he walked behind them, every time, to make sure that they got home safely.
They'll remember how he called them every week, even though their mother insulted, disparaged and harassed him, every single time. They'll remember that he spent almost every dollar that he had, on trying to make sure that he stayed in their lives, despite their mother's best efforts to keep him away, for no reason other than her being bitter and spiteful because her marriage had broken down.
One day, perhaps as adults, they'll read the court documents and realise that their father was not the bad guy in all this.
I have FINALLY caught up on the threads and wow, Tattle saved the best for last.
I am appalled at the further abuse Ioan and Bianca have received. I guess all those who speculated that things were much worse than we ever knew were right on. What Alice, Tone, and their unhinged followers have done is shameful and criminal, and if legal consequences don't follow, I sure hope that karmic ones do.
Also hey everyone, I missed you terribly but things have been stressful in my world and I didn't have time to post for a while. So glad to be back.
Alice, Tone and FMs keep referring to that screenshot of that message between Bianca and her friend Tamika, where Tamika is talking about being on Tattle.
However, they don't realise that people might be asking themselves a question: why might Bianca have been keen at first for Tamika to go on Tattle?
It was because starting from the end of October 2021, when Alice found out about Bianca, she became like an untethered banshee and went on a social media rampage, and then onto an international media campaign in November 2021 where she lied about and defamed Bianca.
First, on social media, Alice claimed Ioan was a cheater and had been cheating on her for the past 2-3 years. She named Bianca as the woman who had been having an affair with her estranged husband - with no proof that Bianca and Ioan were together before he left Alice in January 2021. She branded Bianca a "home-wrecker". Bianca's full name, photo and details of her life were then splashed all over the tabloids.
Alice made it very clear she was bringing this into the public sphere:
Alice even went as far as publicly contacting Ioan's colleagues and friends:
And even a Hollywood actress criticised Bianca.
Considering Bianca wanted to have an acting and producing career, this would have been particularly hard for her - to have her reputation trashed in an area she was trying to work in:
Alice then relentlessly defamed and insulted Bianca, called her a "home-wrecker". She went on an international media campaign (TV in UK, Australia, US, an interview in the Daily Mail, radio and a podcast appearance, as well as all her social media rantings making tabloid headlines) where she spoke about how Ioan had left her for Bianca, a woman over 20 years younger than her. Bianca was painted as an uncaring woman with loose morals who had been having an affair with a married man, and broke a family with two young girls up.
Alice also lied and said that Ioan deliberately added her to Instagram with the intent of torturing her with the "thank you for making me smile again" post, that's how she found out about his new relationship. That's a lie. She has already found out about Bianca due to it being discussed on Tattle, and she then wrote on Bianca's Instagram posts, as well as phoning Ioan using Elsie's phone in order to say "Who is Bianca Wallace?". Alice even admits this in a court document. Alice had previously added Ioan to Instagram after he removed her, and when he made his profile public again for the post with Bianca, it automatically accepted Alice's follow request - which is why she got the notification about the post.
Alice then upped the insults against Bianca, labelling her as someone who has "casual sex with whoever" and implied she had STDs. She accused Ioan and Bianca of breaking covid laws. She claimed Ioan didn't want to see his kids, and that was because of Bianca. She refers to Bianca as "it". You can see the parental alienation escalating here too.
In mid-November 2021, the insults and threats eventually became the ones we know Alice for today - calling Bianca a "bogan", claiming she had split up other marriages, calling her a "hooker", saying she has a "big nose".
Tamika also had a run-in with Alice on Twitter after she starting defending Bianca there. Alice couldn't stand that someone was standing up to her and defending Bianca, so she then tried to bully Tamika:
Back in late 2021, Tattle was the main place where Alice's lies and insane behaviour was being talked about. So if Bianca's friend wanted to come on Tattle and defend her in the face of all Alice's lies about Bianca on social media, TV and radio, and Bianca initially supported this, I think it's a very minor action compared to what Alice actually did to Bianca. Alice tried to ruin Bianca's reputation and defamed her relentlessly. Bianca's whole world changed in an instant, she became known for all the wrong reasons, she had lies told about her, and she became the target of abuse - both directly to her social media accounts, and indirectly via comments left by people in the online tabloid reports on the story.
And now Alice, Tone and FMs make out like those messages exchanged between Bianca and Tamika are some sort of evidence that shows Bianca supports Tattle, a "hate site" in their words. Um, no. Tamika had to leave Tattle because the mods didn't think she provided enough evidence that she knew Bianca. Bianca may well have changed her mind after initially wanted Tamika to set the record straight on here, perhaps after being advised by Ioan's lawyers that the best course of action was to stay silent, as they would be applying for a restraining order against Alice. The Tattle threads on Alice have nothing to do with Bianca and Tamika. They existed before Bianca even came into the picture.
So all this talk of "Bianca and Tattle are in cahoots" is deflection. The court documents speak for themselves. The summaries of the court transcripts speak for themselves. Alice's domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) protecting Ioan and Bianca against her speaks for itself. The fact that Alice has not once provided any sort of evidence to the court that Ioan has abused her, despite claiming on Twitter for a year and a half that she has evidence, speaks for itself. Welp's PDFs of Alice's social media messages (both through her official account and her sock accounts) speak for themselves.
Looks like I have a lot to catch up on. Just wanted to say thank you for the thread title!! And all the lovely wishes. We had the best day!
Much laughter and emotion and I’m pretty sure my sons dragged me down the aisle like Tone & Phil.
Can’t share pics for obvious reasons, Marcia would wank herself into a coma…
Hey Alice! I’m a sex worker, y’know, like one of those “filthy ring of prostitutes” you keep squawking about?
You pissed me off so much with that I’ve taken some of my FILTHY money I earned being DISGUSTING and donated it to my two favourite Australian charities. Just to piss you off.
Sounds like the judge has gone to review things to insure SM is included properly. My friend is impressed with this male judge. He is being very thorough and mindful.
