They can only help with death when the time is literally hours or days away. When my mum was dying they gave her fentanyl and another drug which I can’t remember the name of. They say it’s given to keep them comfortable and essentially to be put them in a comatose state. However, it’s given to speed up the decline and death, the nurse who was looking after my mum kept on coming in and pumping it up, saying she was in discomfort or pain which she wasn’t at any point.
once they know Sooz is actively dying, they will begin all those drugs. Tbh I don’t think it’s far off now. Before my mum passed her appetite completely went but would crave things and ask for me to get her them, and she was struggling with sickness too. It’s so sad. Sooz musnt want to eat cause of being sick, and all they fluid in her abdomen must be so uncomfortable. I don’t blame her for wanting to die, they don’t keep animals alive when they are like that. She must be in complete fear knowing that what’s coming, I really hope it’s peaceful and not painful for her.
I don’t agree with Emma posting a video of her mum and sooz seeing each other for the last time. It’s heartbreaking, a mother shouldn’t have to bury their child and I can’t imagine being a twin and loosing the other half of me. I really think that this experience has made Emma do crazy and questionable things. Even thought sooz is still here, she’s experiencing anticipatory grief and that that’s one of the hardest to cope with. You know what’s coming, but how it will affect or impact you is unknown, when or how it’ll happen. It was the same with my mum. I really hope once sooz has passed she takes the time out to look after herself and speak with someone with what she’s been through, it’s traumatic seeing a loved one so unwell and vulnerable, and being there from beginning to end. It’s just such a sad situation and to watch it as well
