I feel for you completely, but you’re definitely not a failure - I was born in 93 too, I’m currently jobless, getting a divorce and potentially becoming homeless - it’s not where I planned to be at 27, but you get to a point and realise everything happens for a reasonI do feel bad for her in the whole children and marriage situation, I feel like a complete failure in life because I don’t have kids or aren’t married yet, it actually really impacts me massively.