Im always very aware that what we see is what the content creator wants us to see,so not always a true representation of what is happening I tend to look at body language,changes in behaviour, the language used by the creator. Like you mentioned ,the seeking approval from him or the boys body language/eyes not mirroring what they say. In the past I did wonder if Danny got together with her because of her naive almost childish personality, she would be easier to control.Yeah I’ve always got a controlling vibe off him too, she seems to look to him for reassurance for everything ,she never seems to be able to make an independent decision without his say so, even the boy’s seems odd around him, especially Liam.