Technically I’m still his wife, I’ve ripped the contract up, another family member works there & they swan in as & when they choose but still get a salary & don’t have to use a time sheet, I’ve been ‘demoted’ for no reason other than we have split upAgree with this. You need proper legal advice. Don’t sign a damn thing!!!!! Get legal advice ASAP.
I’ve started messing about at work, taking more breaks, more so that I don’t have to listen to them laughing & joking together, his solution was I wore earphones so don’t hear them!If it was me in your situation. I would be behaving like a right little madam . I'd probably be cancelling their work or something.
Most companies only offer SSP which is absolutely appalling. She would be better off on fourloughGo to the doctor. Get signed off on sick leave due to your mental health being effected. Look for a new job while you are on such leave.
He has a legal obligation to pay for his kids so seek legal advice from citizens advice in that.
Technically I’m still his wife, I’ve ripped the contract up, another family member works there & they swan in as & when they choose but still get a salary & don’t have to use a time sheet, I’ve been ‘demoted’ for no reason other than we have split up
I’ve started messing about at work, taking more breaks, more so that I don’t have to listen to them laughing & joking together, his solution was I wore earphones so don’t hear them!
They are both fools, she is a lot younger than him it’s the boss & employee cliche but they flirted at work in front of me before we even split up & he has admitted to that, part of me wants to smash their faces in but I know I’m better than that!Is she not embarrassed or is she being a fool flattered by the bosses attention?
I’ve made a free appointment with a solicitor to see where I stand, I will take this further if I have to, in some ways I feel bullied & singled out plus completely embarrassed that I’ve been demoted like this.He can’t demote you for that reason. If he’s not careful he’ll have an expensive divorce on his hands and an employment tribunal. definitely seek legal advice from CAB as soon as you can
Oh crikey what a situation to be in.Need some advice really, I split with my husband last month, my choice number of things, we work together, he has his own business & I’ve worked there on & off for a few yrs, the problem I have is he is currently seeing an employee who also works there & it’s so uncomfortable, I have a feeling the relationship started way before we split up!
It’s taking me all my time not to have an outburst at work, I hear them laughing & joking, I don’t have anyone to talk to in or out of work really. I’m so bloody lonely, his excuse is I broke it off with him so he doesn’t see the problem but I see it as he has zero respect for me in the workplace. It wouldn’t bother me at all if we didn’t have to work together & left their personal life outside the workplace.
Don’t have shares, my husband & another family member are directors & shareholders, I just keep being told because we are ‘separated’ I’m not entitled to anything even though I’m still legally his wife!Oh crikey what a situation to be in.
You are hearing them talking and laughing and they are most likely laying it on a bit thick for your benefit, knowing that you can hear them.
Do you have shares in his business? I hope that you do as that will give you more leverage.
I would be inclined to seek legal advice as to what your next step might be.
Are you involved in the business at all aside from being an employee there? Did you put any money into it?Don’t have shares, my husband & another family member are directors & shareholders, I just keep being told because we are ‘separated’ I’m not entitled to anything even though I’m still legally his wife!
I work in the business & have done for about 5yrs so I’ve put my part into it, I live in our home with our kids, he lives with his mum, he seems to think because we aren’t together anymore ie separated he isn’t committing adultery but we are still married, he wants me to sign my part of the business over to him & he will sign the house over to me, I’m not stupid I want what belongs to our kids & again he thinks he can make me sign a zero hour contract, put me on a time sheet & hourly wage instead of a salary because we are separated, he thinks I’m thick.Are you involved in the business at all aside from being an employee there? Did you put any money into it?
you need to get proper legal advice. Ignore whatever shit he’s telling you. Get legal advice regarding work and legal advice regarding the separation/money/child support etc. Where are you both living? Do you own a home together? What about money/bank accounts etc?
God he sounds like an absolute cuntI work in the business & have done for about 5yrs so I’ve put my part into it, I live in our home with our kids, he lives with his mum, he seems to think because we aren’t together anymore ie separated he isn’t committing adultery but we are still married, he wants me to sign my part of the business over to him & he will sign the house over to me, I’m not stupid I want what belongs to our kids & again he thinks he can make me sign a zero hour contract, put me on a time sheet & hourly wage instead of a salary because we are separated, he thinks I’m thick.
I work in family law and you could petition on the basis of adultery because as you say, you're still married! I really hope you get some sound legal advice and find a way out of this. I feel for you, it sounds a horrendous situation to be in. But hold your head high, at least you know you're not the one who has behaved in an appalling manner. I also think the way he has gone about demoting you is all wrong, legal advice is also required for that too!I work in the business & have done for about 5yrs so I’ve put my part into it, I live in our home with our kids, he lives with his mum, he seems to think because we aren’t together anymore ie separated he isn’t committing adultery but we are still married, he wants me to sign my part of the business over to him & he will sign the house over to me, I’m not stupid I want what belongs to our kids & again he thinks he can make me sign a zero hour contract, put me on a time sheet & hourly wage instead of a salary because we are separated, he thinks I’m thick.
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