The woman is a walking red flag.
Scenario 1:
Meet someone online dating.
Person: oh haaaay just to let you know before we meet, I have something to tell you that's a bit of a dealbreaker for some folk, so I'd rather tell you before we meet and you get invested.
Scenario 2:
Meet someone online dating.
Days of calls and texts, a nice date. A second is organised. Liking this person.
Person: oh haaaay just to let you know before we meet, I have something to tell you that's a bit of a dealbreaker for some folk.
I wonder how quickly Creepo2 told her his 'news'.