This is not an anti men thread.
I have 2 teenagers of both sex.
I feel for them both in this world.
I have 2 teenagers of both sex.
I feel for them both in this world.
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Only a man can answer that!
Virginia mom ordered to stop BREASTFEEDING in bitter custody battle
A Virginia mom has been court ordered to stop breastfeeding her six-month-old daughter after a judge in a bitter custody battle ruled it was interfering with her estranged husband's time.
This is how much some men hate women.
One of the worst things I've ever heard of and most cruel.
We are living a dystopian nightmare, it's official.
Some say it can be jealousy of womens’ abiility to grow and nurture babies.
Some say it can be retaliation when their attention/advances are unwanted/unrequited.
Some say it can be feeling of inadequacy when a typically smaller in stature person does something better than them, e.g. when some men at work keep talking over women, trying to detract from their productivity and skill etc.
Some say it can be down to upbringing, e.g. lack of respect for women
Some have issues with their mother and so project their issues onto other women.
I personally think it can be any of the above, and I think also at the moment porn reduces women to objects on demand, and so in real life, when some of these porn addict men encounter women who aren’t interested, or aren’t pornified image of a woman, they deem us a waste of space or a witch or something.
There are many men out there who are gems, who value and respect women in their lives, but it is hard to ignore the blantant misogyny going on at the moment.
Some say it can be retaliation when their attention/advances are unwanted/unrequited.
Some say it can be feeling of inadequacy when a typically smaller in stature person does something better than them, e.g. when some men at work keep talking over women, trying to detract from their productivity and skill etc.
Some say it can be down to upbringing, e.g. lack of respect for women
Some have issues with their mother and so project their issues onto other women.
I personally think it can be any of the above, and I think also at the moment porn reduces women to objects on demand, and so in real life, when some of these porn addict men encounter women who aren’t interested, or aren’t pornified image of a woman, they deem us a waste of space or a witch or something.
There are many men out there who are gems, who value and respect women in their lives, but it is hard to ignore the blantant misogyny going on at the moment.
Here's one batting for you girls: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/mum-who-downed-three-bottles-29310519
"As she left the dock to be taken down to the cells, she grinned."
"As she left the dock to be taken down to the cells, she grinned."
Yes because in my experience there are just as many mean witches as there are mean bastards.
Unfortunately the brainwashed of today think all poor little women are suffering at the hands of misogynists. Hmm just reading Tattle tells me that there is no shortage of man hate.
Judge by individual's behaviour not by sex,colour,age or creed.
I have twice witnessed funny reaction from men on training courses when they don't pick up a skill as quickly as women, they get really angry and of course when they finally master it its like their balls have grown back again, I think its ego not hatred.
I find a lot of these stories just go completely uncovered in the media or if they are, get buried/minimal attention.
This whole "equality" thing seems to gets dropped right quick when forced to confront the fact that women are just as capable of being monsters. Which should come as no surprise as we're all human and thus it stands to reason that not only men are capable of this tit.
This one from last year stuck with me: 'Evil' woman, 25, is jailed for life for choking her 'vulnerable' boyfriend, 53, to death following campaign of domestic abuse. The media largely ignored it. There were no protests or candlelit vigils or calls for curfew of women... no one gave a duck.
I saw this linked on Reddit: Men Face 31% Greater Risk of Domestic Violence Than Women. I imagine the stats are much the same for the UK. I have read in the UK that reported domestic violence is split nearly equally at 60/40. Yes, I imagine a lot of suffering women don't report it but even more men don't. It ain't some "rare" occurrence and according to the stats female on male violence is much more likely to be lethal.
Women are also much more likely to get away with it and get softer sentencing.
I'd never defend a domestic abuser, male or female. The men deserved to be buried under the prison yard. In fact, they have to be segregated from other prisoners (hardly paragons of virtue themselves) as they'll be battered to hell for it. Yet, we some folks bang on that we live in a misogynistic society that condones men brutalising women?!
The best retort to that I ever read was this: "Ladies, when you scream 'help' who are you asking for it from? Men or women to show up?"
This whole "equality" thing seems to gets dropped right quick when forced to confront the fact that women are just as capable of being monsters. Which should come as no surprise as we're all human and thus it stands to reason that not only men are capable of this tit.
This one from last year stuck with me: 'Evil' woman, 25, is jailed for life for choking her 'vulnerable' boyfriend, 53, to death following campaign of domestic abuse. The media largely ignored it. There were no protests or candlelit vigils or calls for curfew of women... no one gave a duck.
I saw this linked on Reddit: Men Face 31% Greater Risk of Domestic Violence Than Women. I imagine the stats are much the same for the UK. I have read in the UK that reported domestic violence is split nearly equally at 60/40. Yes, I imagine a lot of suffering women don't report it but even more men don't. It ain't some "rare" occurrence and according to the stats female on male violence is much more likely to be lethal.
Women are also much more likely to get away with it and get softer sentencing.
I'd never defend a domestic abuser, male or female. The men deserved to be buried under the prison yard. In fact, they have to be segregated from other prisoners (hardly paragons of virtue themselves) as they'll be battered to hell for it. Yet, we some folks bang on that we live in a misogynistic society that condones men brutalising women?!
The best retort to that I ever read was this: "Ladies, when you scream 'help' who are you asking for it from? Men or women to show up?"
As good a place as any to drop this: Croydon mum says son was ‘too embarrassed’ to leave abusive girlfriend who killed him
From the UK ManKind Initiative (helping men escape domestic abuse), Statistics on Male Victims of Domestic Abuse: The Office for National Statistics figures show every year that one in the three victims of domestic abuse are male equating to 757,000 men (1.561m women).
I've read it claimed on Tattle that male domestic abuse is very rare. No it ain't. Yes, more women are victims but the figures for men are far from insignificant. I've never got why this has to be treated like some sort of zero sum game, like if it's conceded men are on the receiving end too, it somehow diminishes women's experience or undermines their support.
From the UK ManKind Initiative (helping men escape domestic abuse), Statistics on Male Victims of Domestic Abuse: The Office for National Statistics figures show every year that one in the three victims of domestic abuse are male equating to 757,000 men (1.561m women).
I've read it claimed on Tattle that male domestic abuse is very rare. No it ain't. Yes, more women are victims but the figures for men are far from insignificant. I've never got why this has to be treated like some sort of zero sum game, like if it's conceded men are on the receiving end too, it somehow diminishes women's experience or undermines their support.
Aren’t men responsible for 98% of violent sexual attacks? I’m not sure the statistics back up that ‘women are just as capable of being monsters’.
I think a lot of it is to do with society, upbringing and ego. There’s still a generation today who lived through a time where it was the man’s “duty” to provide financially and the women’s “duty” to stay home and look after the house / kids. Also giving your wife a slap was normalised when she was “disobedient” - there’s even old advertisements that exist alluding to this. These “values” have been passed down to some people through the generations.
I can confidently say myself, as a woman, and all my female friends, have experienced some sort of sexual harassment throughout their lives. Even in school I’ve had my skirt lifted and boobs groped. Then as a teenager, multiple instances of catcalling (even when I was as young as 12), ass slapping, boob groping, upskirting, being followed around clubs and even around town. When this topic is approached all you really find is a lot of men jumping on the “women can be abusers too!” instead of men just admitting that yes, it’s a problem. If any man tries to defend women you see comments such a “she’s not gonna f*ck you bro.”
I can confidently say myself, as a woman, and all my female friends, have experienced some sort of sexual harassment throughout their lives. Even in school I’ve had my skirt lifted and boobs groped. Then as a teenager, multiple instances of catcalling (even when I was as young as 12), ass slapping, boob groping, upskirting, being followed around clubs and even around town. When this topic is approached all you really find is a lot of men jumping on the “women can be abusers too!” instead of men just admitting that yes, it’s a problem. If any man tries to defend women you see comments such a “she’s not gonna f*ck you bro.”
I don't know if men are responsible for 98% of violent sexual attacks as it’s impossible to arrive at a percentage by sex of the offender from the official ONS stats I’ve seen thus far, as sex of the offender isn’t listed, just sex of the victim.
It’s also worth noting that under current UK legislation, women can’t commit rape so I wouldn’t expect there to be any female representation in that category.
UK stats on sexual assault and rape by sex of the offender seem hard to come by from official sources. Wikipedia has an article on female on male rape and notes it’s an under-researched subject. The US figures on sexual victimisation aren’t insignificant, though. See also Rape by gender.
I don’t want to plagiarise someone else’s work so will link to it: Men are 57% of all rape victims and women are most of their rapists, per CDC data. Again, that’s US data, not UK.
UK data that is available on same-sex partner abuse suggest women are very capable of being sexual monsters.
However, I wouldn’t argue that men would be responsible for the vast majority of sexual violence, both on women and other men, despite incidents like the recently reported Police search for woman after man 'sexually assaulted on London Underground'.
Abuse doesn't just have to be sexual. Can be physical, a chap I worked with had a kitchen knife plunged into his neck by his girfriend and she ended up getting 8 years for it. There's also mental abuse but men tend to keep quiet about that and just "man up".
“When this topic is approached all you really find is a lot of men jumping on the “women can be abusers too!” instead of men just admitting that yes, it’s a problem.”
Exactly this.
Exactly this.
I dont thinkk any man would say there isnt a problem but when the thread title is why do men hate women its assumed all men hate women when in reality its not true - dont paint us all with the same brush, we arent all the same -
Women know it’s not all men - plenty of us have decent male friends / boyfriends / husbands etc
But there are far too many that DO seem to hate women letting your side down.
I have to laugh at how quickly a thread called "why do men hate women" was infiltrated by a men's rights activist.
I wouldn't bother, they're itching for an argument in this thread. Just leave them to it.