RandomAlpaca22
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'My comment was referring to how she chooses to spend her free time' - but that is exactly it - it isn't your free time to be judging her.. You've no idea what goes on behind closed doors..No where in my comment did I imply that - I’m coming up to 9 years sober (god willing) and am in the rooms myself so am fully aware that 12 step programs take work and willing and not everyone gets it, and those who do can take a few attempts before they achieve any form of long term sobriety. My comment was referring to how she chooses to spend her free time, I’m also a mother (who loves motherhood and adores her child) and I can’t imagine doing anything but throwing myself into recovery to get my child back if, heaven forbid, we were ever to be separated.
But as my comment says that assumes she wants the child back, which might not be the case.
'I’m also a mother (who loves motherhood and adores her child) and I can’t imagine doing anything but throwing myself into recovery to get my child back if, heaven forbid, we were ever to be separated.' - good for you - not everyone has a choice when it comes to things like this.