Thank you. I will. I didn’t think of the thyroid /autoimmune disease, but is better to get a proper checkup.
Thank you. I will. I didn’t think of the thyroid /autoimmune disease, but is better to get a proper checkup.Please ask to get a full panel on your thyroid levels too. The cold and the lump in the neck could also be thyroid and/or autoimmune issues which are incredibly difficult to pin down. Good luck.
Gosh this made me well up. This could have been me writing this exactly a year ago. I hope I can help by saying that I barely think of him now - and there was a time I thought I’d love him forever. I know the pain you’re describing and even down to many of the specifics you mentioned. It’s brutal, but he’s weak and that kind of person is only ever going to cause trouble in whoever’s life he’s in. I hope it reassures you to know that now I don’t even care if he’s with someone else. And that once seemed impossible!
My life has improved a lot since it happened to me (two key things were finally medicating my low mood and getting a new job which I worked incredibly hard for and which now gives me a real sense of pride that I realise I majorly lacked before, which was one reason I put him on a pedestal.) I know you will be able to do great things this year, but don’t push yourself too hard - be nice to yourself and know that it takes time. Read all the breakup books, cry it out and take refuge on the sofa with a duvet.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s unfair. It’s confusing and hurts so fucking much doesn’t it! Sending lots of hugs.
OK reading ahead a bit, had to also respond to this - I swear we’re the same person! I had this right at the start of covid at the same time I lost my freelancing contract, my dad had cancer and all my friends were of course happily married and popping out babies. I was terrified I’d get ill because I wouldn’t be able to have more tests due to all the lockdowns. Then my car got hit while parked and that costs me hundreds. Just grim, all of it. But again, same as I said above, while I acknowledge that time was horrible, it’s also now very much in my past and I know that one day it’ll be in your past too.
Happy birthday 🤍 I am sorry you’ve had such a rubbish dayToday it was my birthday and it was shit! I ended up having a massive argument with my husband who I thought was going to spend the day with us. (Myself and 4 kids) instead despite being 1 sick, 2 self employed so he can pick his own hours, he insisted on going to work, and basically leaving me to fend for myself.
So no presents, no meal out (ok I wasn't keen on going out but a take away would have been nice) and no time for me to relax (during the school holidays).
I've just felt so upset and on edge and the kids try and cheer me up but I have felt despondent all day long.
Things just blew up in my face and I asked my husband for a divorce (I,m kind of at my wit's end), I don't know if that will pan out or not but I feel like I can't get through to him, that he doesn't take me seriously and generally i just feel fed up. Like stuck in a no win situation whatever happens or whatever I do....I can't get what I need or feel respected or appreciated or loved and it hurts.
Happy birthday Mis.Today it was my birthday and it was shit! I ended up having a massive argument with my husband who I thought was going to spend the day with us. (Myself and 4 kids) instead despite being 1 sick, 2 self employed so he can pick his own hours, he insisted on going to work, and basically leaving me to fend for myself.
So no presents, no meal out (ok I wasn't keen on going out but a take away would have been nice) and no time for me to relax (during the school holidays).
I've just felt so upset and on edge and the kids try and cheer me up but I have felt despondent all day long.
Things just blew up in my face and I asked my husband for a divorce (I,m kind of at my wit's end), I don't know if that will pan out or not but I feel like I can't get through to him, that he doesn't take me seriously and generally i just feel fed up. Like stuck in a no win situation whatever happens or whatever I do....I can't get what I need or feel respected or appreciated or loved and it hurts.
Thank youHappy birthday Mis.
I'm sorry your day hasn't been so great. I'm honestly glad to have to "met you" online. You truly do deserve to be treated better. I hope you do also order yourself a takeaway.
I am so sorry love. You deserve to feel respect, appreciation and love just as you have stated.Today it was my birthday and it was shit! I ended up having a massive argument with my husband who I thought was going to spend the day with us. (Myself and 4 kids) instead despite being 1 sick, 2 self employed so he can pick his own hours, he insisted on going to work, and basically leaving me to fend for myself.
So no presents, no meal out (ok I wasn't keen on going out but a take away would have been nice) and no time for me to relax (during the school holidays).
I've just felt so upset and on edge and the kids try and cheer me up but I have felt despondent all day long.
Things just blew up in my face and I asked my husband for a divorce (I,m kind of at my wit's end), I don't know if that will pan out or not but I feel like I can't get through to him, that he doesn't take me seriously and generally i just feel fed up. Like stuck in a no win situation whatever happens or whatever I do....I can't get what I need or feel respected or appreciated or loved and it hurts.
I've had loads of shit birthdays like that. Follow your heart and your gut and I hope you got yourself a huge fuck off takeaway and threw his portion in the bin.Thank youthat means a lot to me
So sorry. Have you tried Feliway? 8 days really isn't a long time to settle. Give her time and give yourself time grieving over your best boy.Today.
We got a new rescue cat 8 days ago after losing my much loved boy 3 weeks ago, and she is nothing like him in anyway apart from looks. When we got him he waltzed in and was like he had always been here. With her, we cant even go into the room without her hissing and the final straw was today I was just tidying near her and she has shredded my hand. I know its silly and Ive read all the tips and watched all the youtube videos and nothing is helping her settle. On top of my husband just generally being fucking useless around the house, kids fighting, works pretty stressful, her hissing at me constantly if i dare look at her has broken me today.
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