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My husband last night. I was in a foul mood yesterday, not sure why. Possibly because I have failed at my diet so far and we’re now expects to socialise this summer. He was a pain all night and blamed me so I slept on the sofa in the end and the cats were little shits. Come 4am, the toys were out they were skidding along the kitchen floor and calling for play time. I shut them away at about 5 and they just kept clawing the door. Bloody tired today 😣
 
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I’ve got bad anxiety today and I arranged a Zoom call with another PhD student to ‘catch up’. I already cancelled once but I’m not in the mood 😖
 
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I've woken up with a cough and sore throat. Generally just feeling a bit crap and trying to work out if my cough is persistent enough to go get tested...
 
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I lurked a senior colleague's social media and saw them moan about how they worked overtime to complete a deadline when NONE of the rest of their colleagues met it. This colleague pulls people up for 'professionalism' all the time, which is fair, but I hardly think it's professional to paint all of your colleagues as incompetent on a non-anonymous social media account where you actively talk about the fact you work at (The Presitigious Organisation We Work At) and have the workplace name in your bio.

It's also bullshit and overdramatic, because I was set no such deadline and I imagine the other people with my role were not either. So she's painting us all as incompetent...even though it seems like only a handful of people were involved in what she's talking about?

I think she's referring to a specific set of colleagues. But she needs to cut them some slack - they have had mental breakdowns within the last year and her workload is much smaller than theirs. One of these colleagues is doing a PhD alongside their full-time job here and the other actively works with the DfE, which school staff will know is a struggle! One of the people she's talking about defended her (not aggressively or meanly) to me, so nice to know she repays this person for their patience by slagging them off on a public social media account.

This colleague went through some personal difficulty and I was really nice to her when she slipped up - but when I made a mistake, she involved my manager lol.
 
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I’m waiting for a large-ish delivery (2 pairs of boots) and it’s said it’s coming every day since Saturday and then I’ll get a message to say it’s been delayed. So now I have another day of waiting in tomorrow on the off chance it will actually turn up!
 
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Mines delivery related too...DPD again. Your parcel has been delivered (an hour ago) not to my house it hasn’t and that picture isn’t my front door and they are not my legs in the pic either . I’ve called and they will ‘retrieve’ the parcel and re deliver apparently. I said i will go and get it if they told me what number they delivered to but of course they don’t know!
Also...why the hell would you accept a parcel
You weren’t expecting ...I just don’t understand .
 
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McDonald's is free delivery on just eat for me!!

Edit - over £5 but still!
I've noticed this with deliveroo, me and my bf both have accounts and we often have different charges for the same thing ot the same address

Another update.

I've just received a text that he misses me and wants to try again with me. He said his ex has very sadly lost the baby which of course is heartbreaking. I'm just disgusted at his behaviour now, he is honestly deluded thinking he can just come back to me if that makes sense? I didn't want to reply at first but relented and said I was very sorry to hear the news. I didn't say anything further. I should have blocked him really. Sorry just venting because I had forgotten him and decided to get on with my life.
This sounds harsh but honestly I know lots of people who have been in very similar situations and I wouldn't be sure there even was a baby to begin with so I wouldn't worry too much.. you should definitely block him, it is totally unfair for him to just think he can play with you like this when it suits him
 
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Not pissed off but more of an disappointment, I didn't get the job I applied for...Just wanted to rant:cautious:
 
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My mum is trying to arrange a belated birthday break for us, plus my partner and dad. She's pushing to get dates from me and I don't want to appear ungrateful but I feel a bit overwhelmed. We're in Scotland and the dates aren't as clear as they are for England so it still feels a bit too soon to be booking things. Then I've got friends trying to arrange things, same with my partner's friends/family, and we've also had gigs/weddings/other events moved to god knows when. I know people are well-intentioned but it just feels a bit much at the moment. Of course I want to see people but after a year of no social contact...yeah, it's a lot.
 
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My mum is trying to arrange a belated birthday break for us, plus my partner and dad. She's pushing to get dates from me and I don't want to appear ungrateful but I feel a bit overwhelmed. We're in Scotland and the dates aren't as clear as they are for England so it still feels a bit too soon to be booking things. Then I've got friends trying to arrange things, same with my partner's friends/family, and we've also had gigs/weddings/other events moved to god knows when. I know people are well-intentioned but it just feels a bit much at the moment. Of course I want to see people but after a year of no social contact...yeah, it's a lot.
I feel your pain with this. One of my friends has messaged about 15 times now trying to get everyone to agree to dates for going out, wanting to book tables and pay deposits etc. I feel like it’s too early to be setting things in stone, and I’ve said loads of times now that I have literally nothing in my calendar so once we get closer it’s not like I won’t be free!
 
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Stupid twit on the train having a work video call out loud. Why would you do this ?! I can only assume it was to show off the fact he's got a job? I signed heavily, looked at him and rolled my eyes before moving down the carriage.

What a nob. I'm too tired today for this.

I've noticed this with deliveroo, me and my bf both have accounts and we often have different charges for the same thing ot the same address
Me too! I'll often get cheaper delivery than him and we live together. Strange! 👽
 
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- My company has forced every colleague to take every day of annual leave before the end of March, when the allowance renews in April
- This has led to understaffing which is exactly the reason they don’t want us to carry any over (surely it’s better spread out days over the summer?)
- Spent last week picking up other colleagues urgent work and my non-urgent work has been left
- Manager had the audacity to pass comment that this work hasn’t been done

SHALL I PUT A BROOM UP MY ARSE TOO?!
 
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- My company has forced every colleague to take every day of annual leave before the end of March, when the allowance renews in April
- This has led to understaffing which is exactly the reason they don’t want us to carry any over (surely it’s better spread out days over the summer?)
- Spent last week picking up other colleagues urgent work and my non-urgent work has been left
- Manager had the audacity to pass comment that this work hasn’t been done

SHALL I PUT A BROOM UP MY ARSE TOO?!
Ours have done exactly the same, some people had 3 weeks to take and they wouldn’t let us carry any over - now they’re suprised when we’re short staffed?! What do you expect, people to just give up their leave!
 
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My 2 dogs.
Its a nice bright day here so perfect for leaving the front door open and letting the fresh air in.
They are terriers so love sniffing and scratching for wildlife etc. .
We have a pile of logs waiting to be chopped and they have spent the last 45 minutes scratching and yelping/barking at whatever has moved in there and then come pounding in the house with dirty black paws . . Pricks 🤬
 
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My cat, who is almost 20, blind and a bit wobbly on his three legs, jumped up on me during the wee small hours and clipped the area above my eyelid and under my eyebrow, with his claw. I remember it happening but was too asleep to properly wake up; in getting up this morning I discovered blood all over my pillow and in my hair, and my eye looked puffy and felt sore. Fast forward to just a couple of hours ago, and a bruise has now formed. Excellent timing (not) - I have a few Zoom meetings tomorrow and there is no way I will be able to put makeup on it as it hurts like heck.
 
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How loud everyone in the house talks. Man they can whisper or lower their voices when they're talking about someone else, but normal conversation? Better shout it.

I'm going absolutely insane at this point. The only thing I can think to do is either move back to uni for less than a month or somehow soundproof the door? Though I'm not sure how to do that
 
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And now, after the bloody advert that makes me want to reach into the tv and throttle the woman, leaf blower man. I can’t hear myself think 🤬
 
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My husband, I hate to be insensitive but he is afraid of dogs so every time he wants to go for a walk I have to with him. This is insane is it?
 
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My husband, I hate to be insensitive but he is afraid of dogs so every time he wants to go for a walk I have to with him. This is insane is it?
You have to walk your husband ? Yeah I’d say that’s nuts .. I don’t like birds but it don’t stop me walking the dog
 
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