Wetmyplants
VIP Member
Stop dating dickheads 
- Notice
Use birth control no I’m joking.
Umm, persevere, even though it seems daunting/hard. I went back to college then uni aged 32, while working full time and raising 3 kids. I stupidly put it off 10 years ago as I couldn’t imagine going back into education in my 20’s. It would have been so much easier!
no I’m joking. Umm, persevere, even though it seems daunting/hard. I went back to college then uni aged 32, while working full time and raising 3 kids. I stupidly put it off 10 years ago as I couldn’t imagine going back into education in my 20’s. It would have been so much easier!
Plasticbox
Chatty Member
Mine would be:
Don’t waste your time or energy on people who aren’t willing to make an effort. It’s not you, it’s them being a dick. Goes for friendships and relationships.
Don’t waste your time or energy on people who aren’t willing to make an effort. It’s not you, it’s them being a dick. Goes for friendships and relationships.
Practically Perfect
Chatty Member
Spend and make more time with/for your mum, even when she pecks your head; it doesnt matter that she moans and sulks and can be a right pain in the arse. You don't have much longer so spend every minute you can with her. Enjoy her, talk to her but most importantly listen to her.
You won't know until she is gone just how much you love the old bat and would pay good money for her to moan at you again.
You won't know until she is gone just how much you love the old bat and would pay good money for her to moan at you again.
Dump the boyfriend because he doesn’t give a shit about you and go out more. You never enjoy yourself because you want to be with him. Stop wasting your uni years. Be with your friends and don’t leave them behind.
Future me: don’t stress so much about everything. Also stop eating everything.
Future me: don’t stress so much about everything. Also stop eating everything.
My husband is invested in casino coin right now. He says it’s the next bitcoin
I friggin hope so!! Blows my mind though 
I would tell myself to not fall for a foul, don’t let unnecessary people play tricks with your mind, learn to let go and things will all work out in the end.
10 years from now I hope so be comfortable with family, money and content with my life
Remember though guys, your past writes your future and makes you who you are today. The good the bad and the ugly bits!! Your loved for who you are not who you want to be.
Happy new year to you all, I hope it brings all you want it to and more
Serious_Susan
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I find this one tough. I’d want to tell myself get as far away from this toxic man as you can. Go to Uni, just for the experience and to meet new people. But then I’d be wishing away my daughter (Who I had at 19) and the job I got to support her which led to me meeting my future husband. The world is strange.
I guess, I’d just tell myself you’re gonna be ok. You’re gonna come out of this and not recognise the person you were.
10 years from now I hope to be as I am now (just less tired?!) to travel and go on mega holidays with the kids and laugh everyday.
I guess, I’d just tell myself you’re gonna be ok. You’re gonna come out of this and not recognise the person you were.
10 years from now I hope to be as I am now (just less tired?!) to travel and go on mega holidays with the kids and laugh everyday.
SisterBliss
Active member
10 years ago I’d tell myself to listen to my intuition a lot more and that things will steadily improve, even if the improvement is two steps forward one step back so it’s hard to notice day to day.
In 10 years time I hope to be back to 100% health-wise, for my relationship to still be full of love and fun and to be a famous author
In 10 years time I hope to be back to 100% health-wise, for my relationship to still be full of love and fun and to be a famous author
Darling, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your body. Please be brave, be proud of who you are. Do not diet, your body is the house you grew up in it does not deserve your hatred, don’t try and burn it to the ground.
Your friends may not be as open with their emotions as you are. But they love you, they value you, they will stay by your side long into adulthood. Don’t doubt them, remember that true friendship means growing separately without growing apart.
Your friends may not be as open with their emotions as you are. But they love you, they value you, they will stay by your side long into adulthood. Don’t doubt them, remember that true friendship means growing separately without growing apart.
Bec3007
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10 years ago I was a young teenager who got with a very manipulative boy. If I could go back id tell myself I’m worth much more and leave. It’s not worth all the issues I have to deal with now
What id like from this decade - To go back to uni to finish off my education (left for mental health related issues), have my second child and I’ll get married to my soulmate the end of this year. I’d like to gain my confidence back and work on my mental health. To raise my son into a lovely, confident young boy. That’s about it
What id like from this decade - To go back to uni to finish off my education (left for mental health related issues), have my second child and I’ll get married to my soulmate the end of this year. I’d like to gain my confidence back and work on my mental health. To raise my son into a lovely, confident young boy. That’s about it
10 years ago I was 12... and I would tell myself that the people you go to school with don't matter when you leave.
In the next decade... I plan on moving somewhere new and finding my feet with a new career that I'm slowly transitioning into. I want to focus on my side projects and hopefully earn money from them if possible and use that money to travel more. I also want to let go of this constant need to please my family whom I will never please anyway!
In the next decade... I plan on moving somewhere new and finding my feet with a new career that I'm slowly transitioning into. I want to focus on my side projects and hopefully earn money from them if possible and use that money to travel more. I also want to let go of this constant need to please my family whom I will never please anyway!
IrishGryffindor
Active member
just cause you where mates in secondary school doesn't mean you owe them anything !
Omg why is that font so big hahaha
Mentally you'll be well ! You became a doctor of psychiatry and sorted out all your own mental issues too so fair play. All my old mates said I wouldn't get into med school and I did the best out of 114 in my year
and told those girls to fuck off too when I was 19 haha yasss
* hands you medal*
Omg why is that font so big hahaha
Mentally you'll be well ! You became a doctor of psychiatry and sorted out all your own mental issues too so fair play. All my old mates said I wouldn't get into med school and I did the best out of 114 in my year
and told those girls to fuck off too when I was 19 haha yasssJaysus fair fucks to you !!!Use birth control
Umm, persevere, even though it seems daunting/hard. I went back to college then uni aged 32, while working full time and raising 3 kids. I stupidly put it off 10 years ago as I couldn’t imagine going back into education in my 20’s. It would have been so much easier!
* hands you medal*LaurieLaurie
VIP Member
It will get better. 10 years ago I had a newborn and an undiagnosed 3rd degree tear, it wasn’t until my daughter was 8 that I was finally listened to and had a couple of surgeries.
10 years time I will be turning 40. Eek. I just want to be happy and do what I want this decade, I’m not carrying anyone else’s shit.
10 years time I will be turning 40. Eek. I just want to be happy and do what I want this decade, I’m not carrying anyone else’s shit.
Mrs Cucumber
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Ooo a Author! Sounds exciting, if you ever need some one to pre read I'm more than willing!10 years ago I’d tell myself to listen to my intuition a lot more and that things will steadily improve, even if the improvement is two steps forward one step back so it’s hard to notice day to day.
In 10 years time I hope to be back to 100% health-wise, for my relationship to still be full of love and fun and to be a famous author
HumanPerson
Well-known member
Sometimes things will get worse before they get better - but you’re strong and a fighter, regardless of what people try and say.
The next decade will see most of my children grow up and become adults. I just wish that they stay the confident children they are continue to the individuals they are and are happy. For myself - I’m hoping the next decade will see success in my life, emotionally and financially.
The next decade will see most of my children grow up and become adults. I just wish that they stay the confident children they are continue to the individuals they are and are happy. For myself - I’m hoping the next decade will see success in my life, emotionally and financially.
