You know like if you're going to a big event and there's all them people in high-viz vests, and there's like the ones at the event who wander around but also the ones in the car park who just wave at cars? You know where to go and you can see the bay is clearly marked out, but there's still some dude in a high viz [sometimes with one of those clicker-counter thingies, if they;re well good] who waves at you to tell you to the thing you were gonna do anyway?
duck those people. I'd never date one of them.