Instawhut!
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I can relate to this so damn much, i dont know how i feel about kids, but i know i dont want them with my current partner...( in the process of getting things sorted to leave) ive worked all the way through the pandemic, 40 hours a week as a community care worker. My OH has been on furlough since 23rd of march and He has washed up twice and hoovered 3 times. Never once walked the dog, i have come home every day cooked and cleaned l spent at least 1 hour per day walking the dog, and he makes out like i have to earn sex and that im not nice to him. Everytime i point out (however nicely) that hes not helping me he thinks im being unreasonable. Had it been the other way around, i would have never expected him to lift a finger and if i did i would have been laughed at and got told 'im at work why should i.' we are not a team and the more time goes on the more i cant wait to get out and live my own life. We have been together for almost 11 years and its the last 5 that things have started to go down hill. Im just sorry its taken me so long to get to the point im at now.I left because after being with him for 6 years and there being no other reasons not to start trying I realised that I didn’t want him to be the father of my children. We had grown apart by this point and I didn’t feel like we’d be a team if we had kids, that held just expect me to do everything whilst he carried on doing his thing. It was the right choice.
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