I noticed I hadn't seen Vonny online, Googled, and found this thread. Like many of you, I initially found her interesting, politically engaged, credible. But then... The endless, whining thirst. The constant flexing, the bizarre, pointless lies and so on. It got me thinking...
Vonny is a narcissist. I am fascinated by Vonny, but have zero desire to know her, or interact with her. She is a replicant - there is such a gaping hole where a personality should be. What is Vonny? What was Vonny? Who was Vonny before? What did she become?
Her narcissism is so needy, is must surely be informed by an unbearable pain, shouldn't it? Her lies are so constant and hyperactive - her need for narcissistic supply is so great that she essentially outs herself. Was this all just a cry for help?
She lives for the attention of people she doesn't know. Such attention would stress me out, and I consider it to have no value. Is it because her personality (if it can be described as such) is so fluid and vacant that anonymous attention and endorsement is the only thing that can make her feel alive? Narcissism isn't a bug in her personality - it is her personality. The multiple degrees, superiority complex, delusions of literary grandeur and capacity to infuriate complete strangers - is she aware of her impact? Like, "she" is so interesting, not because of "who" she is, but because of how many people she claims to be. What psychic wound has been inflicted on her that renders her so incapable of realising that she isn't, and in fact could not be all that she claims to be? If she broadcasts an ideal, which isn't real, then she must surely understand that she is setting a standard that she fails to meet. What stress and pain must this cause her?
What haunts her in the moments where she realises that she is simply a liar, a fantasist, a creation? That she squandered her natural good looks and intelligence by lying. That she could have, easily, been considered exceptional with little effort, but instead lives and breathes the mediocrity of the fantasist.
I am not saying this flippantly, I am concerned about her wellbeing. I wish her no harm. I sincerely hope that her recent disappearance from social media is a step towards her changing. I feel that people would generally wish her well.
Anyone got any thoughts?