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Hi All, New to this thread. Had a chemical pregnancy in April. And now TTC again. Currently 9dpo BFN this morning. (Still early )
I had a few symptoms (fatigue, sore boobs and increased appetite) Today I can't stop weeing and had some spotting today- very pale pink. Really hope this is the month!
whats the date you all got your BFP?
10dpo I got a very faint positive and then a strong positive at 11po
 
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BFN at 12DPO. I know I’m not “out” until AF arrives, but I already have a feeling it’s not our month 😢
 
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BFN at 12DPO. I know I’m not “out” until AF arrives, but I already have a feeling it’s not our month 😢
my best friend is currently pregnant and she got a faint faint positive to the point you could barely see it at 14dpo x
 
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My partner refuses to use pre seed again he says it made him feel numb!
Do people generally DTD every day or every other day during the fertile window?
 
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Hey peeps, thought I would jump on this thread as we’re currently TTC! Day 1 for me today I have just come on, I stopped taking my pill towards the end of March as we got married start of June. This will be my third ‘proper’ period off the pill and I was so naive to think it would happen so quick! Is it normal to feel so upset with myself?

Been using ovulation strips the last two cycles and think I just missed the egg on the days we were travelling back from holiday this time around 🙁 couldn’t test as regularly due to being away and flow said it was coming a couple of days after we got back but I got solid negatives from then onwards. My period has also come two days earlier than predicted so think my cycle is shortening down?

Any advice much appreciated and best of luck to everyone here xx
Hello! I’m in a similar (ish) position as you. Married last year, stopped my pill at the end of May. OH has been thrilled that we’re TTC, partly because he really wants a little one around :) but also because his sex drive is off the charts compared to mine (though it has increased since coming off the pill which is nice!). Currently wondering whether my first ’proper’ period will start tomorrow or if I’m just witchy and crampy for no reason XD

I have no frame of reference for how long it takes - I too kinda naively thought well, once you stop taking contraception, you’re bound to get pregnant - after all that’s what we’re taught in school!
 
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Hello! I’m in a similar (ish) position as you. Married last year, stopped my pill at the end of May. OH has been thrilled that we’re TTC, partly because he really wants a little one around :) but also because his sex drive is off the charts compared to mine (though it has increased since coming off the pill which is nice!). Currently wondering whether my first ’proper’ period will start tomorrow or if I’m just witchy and crampy for no reason XD

I have no frame of reference for how long it takes - I too kinda naively thought well, once you stop taking contraception, you’re bound to get pregnant - after all that’s what we’re taught in school!
So similar to us, my OH has wanted a child for a couple of years now so he’s happy I’m finally going for it now that I’ve not got a wedding dress to get into! And he gets the benefits of TTC 😂

Me too with sex drive, I didn’t realise how much the pill was killing it off until I stopped so that’s at least one helpful thing we’ve gained!

My first “proper” period took a bit longer to come than usual cycle length and it kept trying for a few days before that stopping and starting, the joys of trying to get your body back to normal!

In school you’re warned if you miss a singular pill that’s it you’re knocked up- I wish!! Hope it all works out for you guys xx
 
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Can I ask a real personal question? We are trying yes, but do you guys orgasm before it’s his time and it works? lol SORRY, no other way to ask! lol
 
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Can I ask a real personal question? We are trying yes, but do you guys orgasm before it’s his time and it works? lol SORRY, no other way to ask! lol
I’m sure many children were conceived without the female orgasm in the olden days when only mens pleasure mattered 😅 I’ve read that there is a link between fertility and the female orgasm, however they don’t seem to specify exactly when is the best time for it to happen??
 
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This is awful but i’m sure underage girls and women who are are sexually abused/grape don’t have orgasms and have still become pregnant.

Don’t over think the O it probably means nothing.
 
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Can I ask a real personal question? We are trying yes, but do you guys orgasm before it’s his time and it works? lol SORRY, no other way to ask! lol
I've read somewhere (sorry, great source 😅) that it can sort of help matters to O at the right time but definitely not necessary!
 
haha okay awesome, thank you! Sorry for such a personal question, i was hoping it will help this time round. lets see in two weeks hey
 
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I'm 7dpo, have a slight twinge in my left side and my proov progesterone test was positive, although it does drop off at 10dpo so not looking into anything yet, I did have a dip in my temp this morning too went from 36.76 to 36.64, slept good whilst usually indicates a temp drop so it's not that, so I'm now overanalysing and hoping it's implantation 😂
 
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Pretty sure I’ve woken up with a bacterial infection and the canesten treatment I have says don’t use while TTC as sperm hates it.
I don’t know whether to hold off treating it or treat it and potentially lose a month. I’m turning 35 next month so it’s going to be a hard one anyway so I may have to take that one off anyway.
I just don’t know what to do. Anyone have any remedies? I refuse to sit in a bath of oats lol.
 
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Pretty sure I’ve woken up with a bacterial infection and the canesten treatment I have says don’t use while TTC as sperm hates it.
I don’t know whether to hold off treating it or treat it and potentially lose a month. I’m turning 35 next month so it’s going to be a hard one anyway so I may have to take that one off anyway.
I just don’t know what to do. Anyone have any remedies? I refuse to sit in a bath of oats lol.
Natural yoghurt? Have a look at bio-kult candea supplements as well. I had a water infection last month and definitely did not feel like DTD, so frustrating isn’t it 😭
 
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4DPOish and have a feeling this could be our month.. AF not due till around the 18th so the TWW is going to be horrendous..
 
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Pretty sure I’ve woken up with a bacterial infection and the canesten treatment I have says don’t use while TTC as sperm hates it.
I don’t know whether to hold off treating it or treat it and potentially lose a month. I’m turning 35 next month so it’s going to be a hard one anyway so I may have to take that one off anyway.
I just don’t know what to do. Anyone have any remedies? I refuse to sit in a bath of oats lol.
I would treat it now because it would be risky treating it if you got pregnant anyway?
 
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I would treat it now because it would be risky treating it if you got pregnant anyway?
Apparently it’s fine with pregnancy, it just creates a bad environment for sperm and I’m smack bang in the middle of my fertile window.
 
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