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No bleeding after sex or pain no. Just these horrible pains. I've suspected endo but it's so hard to talk to doctors about. I have a GP appointment in a couple weeks and no idea how to go about it
Just tell them you have pains you’re concerned about usually just before your period and explain what it feels like and they will likely ask you other questions. Don’t be afraid to speak up about something that’s bothering you.
 
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So sorry love 💕
thanks hun, I
I’ve been bent double with pelvic pain this afternoon. Kind feels like period pain but really strong. I don’t normally suffer with period pain and I’m still over a week away from my period. Could it be implantation pain? I wouldn’t of imagined it would be this painful and noticeable? Test is BFN atm but I thought it would be too soon for that anyway
Could be, especially if it’s out of the ordinary for you.
 
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In line with this I came home from work today with a really bad headache I’m 11DPO that just hasn’t shifted all day so gave into temptation and tested which resulted in this…

I can definitely see a line, can you see it too? Trying my best not to build my hopes up but already been emotional! 🙈 I’ve felt all sorts of symptoms since my ovulation date so it would make sense but I know what my luck is like! I also know these tests aren’t the best!

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Unfortunately I don’t think I have a happy ending. :( I was still getting lines on these everyday so took another today and it was lighter so I went out to buy a clearblue digital and it showed ‘Not Pregnant’ my period is due today although it always varies a few days so could come anytime over the weekend. I haven’t had any bleeding whatsoever but I have had cramping so I’m assuming that could be part of the problem? Anyone have thoughts? Could it be a chemical?
 
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Unfortunately I don’t think I have a happy ending. :( I was still getting lines on these everyday so took another today and it was lighter so I went out to buy a clearblue digital and it showed ‘Not Pregnant’ my period is due today although it always varies a few days so could come anytime over the weekend. I haven’t had any bleeding whatsoever but I have had cramping so I’m assuming that could be part of the problem? Anyone have thoughts? Could it be a chemical?
So sorry love. It very well could be but don’t give up, you’re not out until Aunt Flo arrives! ❤ Hoping you get your BFP
 
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Unfortunately I don’t think I have a happy ending. :( I was still getting lines on these everyday so took another today and it was lighter so I went out to buy a clearblue digital and it showed ‘Not Pregnant’ my period is due today although it always varies a few days so could come anytime over the weekend. I haven’t had any bleeding whatsoever but I have had cramping so I’m assuming that could be part of the problem? Anyone have thoughts? Could it be a chemical?
The cramping could be implantation, fingers crossed for you lovely 😘
 
I thought I’d try testing this morning at 11DPO. Negative. I just hope my period hurries so I can start taking clomid and see how we get on next cycle.
 
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I’m currently 12DPO. Last cycle I had spotting/bleeding after sex from 9DPO and nothing yet this cycle. I’ve had a bit of a headache but nothing compared to what I would usually have pre-period. Keeping everything crossed but too scared to test because I don’t wanna see a negative. Feel like my other half will be super gutted this month too if we’re not.
 
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If there's a rise in temp with bbt it confirms ovulation had occurred, should you dtd then or when's the best time?
 
I had spotting/bleeding last cycle too, back to CD2 now though. At least we can try again soon, starting to lose faith it'll ever happen though. So tedious isn't it!
 
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If there's a rise in temp with bbt it confirms ovulation had occurred, should you dtd then or when's the best time?
It would be too late by then. The fertile days are roughly 5 days before ovulation, the day of ovulation and the day after.
 
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It would be too late by then. The fertile days are roughly 5 days before ovulation, the day of ovulation and the day after.
You wouldn't wanna just be relying on bbt then🙄 it seems kinda pointless really. Like being shown the spot your car used to be parked in after it was stolen😂
 
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You wouldn't wanna just be relying on bbt then🙄 it seems kinda pointless really. Like being shown the spot your car used to be parked in after it was stolen😂
It’s just a confirmation tool really, some people get the LH peak but don’t actually ovulate so it’s an extra reassurance that you definitely did ovulate.
 
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You wouldn't wanna just be relying on bbt then🙄 it seems kinda pointless really. Like being shown the spot your car used to be parked in after it was stolen😂
Yeh, so ovulation should be where the temp drops but mine isn’t significant enough for me that I would be able to pinpoint it if my periods weren’t mostly regular. OPKs are definitely better in my opinion but the bbt can confirm it’s happened.
 
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Yeh, so ovulation should be where the temp drops but mine isn’t significant enough for me that I would be able to pinpoint it if my periods weren’t mostly regular. OPKs are definitely better in my opinion but the bbt can confirm it’s happened.
My bbt doesn’t drop every month but monitoring my bbt for the past few months confirms that I ovulate day 15-17 so I know to do dtd regularly from day13… as all advice says, if you’re dtd every 2 days then you will be covering your fertile days regardless so you could argue monitoring LH peaks and bbt aren’t essential :)
 
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My bbt doesn’t drop every month but monitoring my bbt for the past few months confirms that I ovulate day 15-17 so I know to do dtd regularly from day13… as all advice says, if you’re dtd every 2 days then you will be covering your fertile days regardless so you could argue monitoring LH peaks and bbt aren’t essential :)
Not everyone can dtd every 2 days though
 
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My partner got covid and I go on a trip soon without him... this is the week of chance to get pregnant too 😔
 
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I have a confession to make that made me feel guilty and I just have to let it out. When I'm annoyed, one of the (tiny) reasons I want to get pregnant is so people can leave me alone and respect my personal time. Parents think just because some people don't have kids that they have all the time in the world just to drop everything the moment they get a sitter and can have "adult time" or that we can attend everything single event for their kids. I love seeing my friends and their kids, but my free time belongs to me and I don't have to justify why I want to keep it for myself. I don't feel like I have to tell everyone about how sad I get when I get my period or how anxious and zoned out I feel during the two week wait, or that sometimes I just want to bask in my laziness and watch Netflix during my day off.
 
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My partner got covid and I go on a trip soon without him... this is the week of chance to get pregnant too 😔
It’s difficult and frustrating but sometimes we have to just write some months off. Hopefully you’re husband is not too unwell and you still have a chance though.
 
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Trying not to get ahead of myself but I’m 9dpo and my boobs are sore and I’ve had the tiniest bit of light pink spotting 😭 I bloody hope this is it - I have only had sore boobs when I have had pregnancies!!
 
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Ladies, I do not track ovulation properly but some months I do have signs that something might be happening, iykwim. This past week I had half a day of crampiness in a specific side location and I figured it was a great time to DTD a few times. It's gonna be a longgggg 2ww 😩
 
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