Wow. Perfectly said. And 100% spot on with the obsession with her looks. It's vain and narcissistic. She is so self obsessed. Between that and the erratic posting she appears mentally ill and needs help asap for her kids sake. And also for her own sake. Hey Tracy, there's more to life than your looks! You're missing out on so much, like your children and genuine relationships (kayfabe family photos of outings and staged photos with "friends" don't count). You don't have to drive very far to see something beautiful. NJ has so many places that you are lucky enough to live somewhat near. There's mountains, waterfalls, beaches, crazy gorgeous views, hiking trails, nature centers, places to watch a sunrise and sunset, and these are just a few things and all of these can be memories you make with your children. But you choose clubs and bullshit night life instead. If you took your kids on a few hikes you could spend quality time with them and also teach them fun ways to be healthy with exercise but instead you choose to get unlimited procedures done to yourself. I don't even want to know how you pay for them because you are a shitty influencer. And yes, you are "influencing" people to be self obsessed and narcissistic and develop body issues and mental illness. Please get help.
She’s never going to have the “It’s me, hi; I’m the problem. It’s me” awakening. She’s never going to seek professional help and if she does, she’s only going to learn new ways to manipulate situations in her favor.
She doesn’t want to spend quality time with her kids making memories because her kids are tied to a past of a “picture perfect” image that no longer exists and now she finds them to be burdens. They’re only good enough to be props in her life, anything else is defaulted to her parents or Tara. Her kids thrive when she is not in their presence and it shows.
She has always looked for the quick fixes and at this point her getting procedures is an addiction, but in her narrative only drugs and gambling make you an addict.
She’s going to continue to go out to clubs because she doesn’t have to actually socialize, but she’s still socializing. She doesn’t have to hold real conversations, notice everywhere she goes with “friends” it’s always somewhere that’s just a little too loud to hold a conversation without having to shout. Tommy’s Tavern and Tap, Society, Baci, Mad Hatter, bowling alley…. all places that are very loud or can get very loud and don’t necessarily require her to hold a conversation because of how loud they are, just look at the pictures Allie, Amy and everyone have of her that she’s not directing, she’s looking at her phone.
She gets twisted by the things said on here because for the most part, they’re spot on and if she was to address them, then it’s admitting people who just follow her for shits and giggles see her for exactly who she is. That’s why she doesn’t address the “people say I don’t have custody of my kids” thing anymore. That’s why she doesn’t really run her mouth on 26/30 anymore, now the narrative for going out is that it’s someone’s birthday she couldn’t miss out on. She and her children are going to remember two very different versions of their childhood and most of it will be Tracy gaslighting them on things that happened and she will say they’re remembering it wrong.
She will not get help anytime soon. She will not be a more present mother anytime soon. She loves this version of herself.