Hi all. Those with partners, talk to me about what you both do work wise and around the house.
My OH works full time- Monday to Friday 8-5. I now work part time around 26 hours a week but very long days (changed to part time about 2 months ago). I also do 2/3 agency shifts a month to top up my wage.
I do everything, well 95% of it all. On my work days he takes the youngest to school club and picks him up (only picks up once a week as their dad picks them up on Tuesdays). He will do their tea and have a tidy around and do our tea for when I’m back. A lot of weeks I only do one week day so this is usually a once a week thing.
Everything else is me. Cleaning, DIY, gardening, washing and ironing, changing the beds, food shopping, any appointments my youngest may have (autistic/ADHD). The boys are dressed and ready before I leave in a morning ad he gets up less than ten mins before they have to leave. Lunchboxes and meal planning all me. Lie ins at a weekend are always his- can’t remember the last time I stayed in bed after 6:30/7.
He’s got in a grump this afternoon because of an argument in the car after eldest’s football about positioning. He’s sat on the sofa since and I’ve cooked tea, cleaned up etc etc.
I get I have more days off and more days off without anyone at home but he usually gets that at the weekends when the boys go to their days- usually every other weekend but a few weeks not going atm due to their dad having a kidney transplant.
I cut my hours down because I was burnt out (diagnosed ADHD in January) but still bring home a good wage- can take home the most with the agency shifts included.
Just wondered what it’s all like in your houses?
My OH works full time- Monday to Friday 8-5. I now work part time around 26 hours a week but very long days (changed to part time about 2 months ago). I also do 2/3 agency shifts a month to top up my wage.
I do everything, well 95% of it all. On my work days he takes the youngest to school club and picks him up (only picks up once a week as their dad picks them up on Tuesdays). He will do their tea and have a tidy around and do our tea for when I’m back. A lot of weeks I only do one week day so this is usually a once a week thing.
Everything else is me. Cleaning, DIY, gardening, washing and ironing, changing the beds, food shopping, any appointments my youngest may have (autistic/ADHD). The boys are dressed and ready before I leave in a morning ad he gets up less than ten mins before they have to leave. Lunchboxes and meal planning all me. Lie ins at a weekend are always his- can’t remember the last time I stayed in bed after 6:30/7.
He’s got in a grump this afternoon because of an argument in the car after eldest’s football about positioning. He’s sat on the sofa since and I’ve cooked tea, cleaned up etc etc.
I get I have more days off and more days off without anyone at home but he usually gets that at the weekends when the boys go to their days- usually every other weekend but a few weeks not going atm due to their dad having a kidney transplant.
I cut my hours down because I was burnt out (diagnosed ADHD in January) but still bring home a good wage- can take home the most with the agency shifts included.
Just wondered what it’s all like in your houses?