Theworldwithalfie

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All this 1:1 will just be developing learned dependency if he constantly is shadowed all the time. Surely a small group setting with provision to meet his need should be sufficient? Why is an alternative not an option? Because she has to be a parent and get him there? Self entitledness.
 
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She's tied herself up in knots really. Insisted he gets full 1-1 support during school, so now she wants after school club the school won't allow him to access it without 1-1 support. He will get it and she'll get the money for it from funding but omg the absolute entitlement from her.
 
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She really doesn't paint Simon in a good light 😬 she's alluded before to there being red flags with him, now outing him for not paying anything for Alfie. She's often quite rude about him too.
 
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I think she’d be a nightmare to be with & is happy to play the victim. From what I gather he pulls his weight in the parenting department, I’m sure co-parenting with her would be hard work. She’s rude, abrupt & did I mention rude?! I’m sorry but she just irritates me & I actually feel sorry for Simon. I’m glad the social worker said what she said because from what she posts A doesn’t need the level of care she says. She even said herself that she breaks the code of practise down & makes it work for her or whatever she said. Sorry for the rant, she’s just a piece of work IMO
 
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'He's not disabled enough'.... could she sound any more disappointed.

Definitely some munchausens going on in that situation. The social worker didn't say anything offensive or wrong.
 
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I think she’d be a nightmare to be with & is happy to play the victim. From what I gather he pulls his weight in the parenting department, I’m sure co-parenting with her would be hard work. She’s rude, abrupt & did I mention rude?! I’m sorry but she just irritates me & I actually feel sorry for Simon. I’m glad the social worker said what she said because from what she posts A doesn’t need the level of care she says. She even said herself that she breaks the code of practise down & makes it work for her or whatever she said. Sorry for the rant, she’s just a piece of work IMO
Making it work for her AKA fraud.
 
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100% fraud! She WANTS him to be disabled, she wants him to have complex needs, she lies and exaggerates to create this image of him which isn’t true. It’s bizarre and concerning.
 
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Her latest post- sabotaging her Mum’s relationships. What a witch. No wonder her own relationships are so messed up, she’s vile. Why can’t she allow anyone else to be happy?
 
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She has wound me the duck up tonight. As someone who apparently champions disability and all the relevant pieces of equipment, shes on her bleeping stories slagging off a bloke on love island for having thick lenses. Because she thinks they should have been thinned.
Sorry what?? Your ableism is showing through there hun
 
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I was coming to say the same. She is absolutely vile- why should someone thin their lenses because it magnifies their face? What an uptight, ableist witch. And I’m sorry but Specsavers are making a killing if she’s thinning -2 lenses. That prescription is so low! They’ve had the last laugh there!

What an arrogant view to have of someone. No wonder she can’t hold relationships down, in a way I’m glad Simon left her- he saw through the narcissist and escaped. She can’t see that her ‘views’ and ‘opinions’ are bullying- god help anyone who made a comment about A not having his lenses thinned, but it’s okay for her to say so.
 
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Absolutely no need for that massive witchy rant. Depending on the frame and his prescription he may not be able to get them really thin. What a judgy a hole. She always gets in there when she’s bought things too like the items from next sale making sure we all know they’re not for her house for when A goes to his dads.
 
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Surely she doesn’t put dry cereal out for him the night before so she doesn’t have to get up and make breakfast? Or am I misunderstanding her latest story?
 
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No no I think you’re right… Also, 7am weekdays is quite late I think and 8am on weekends… At that age I remember just putting up with early mornings!
 
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How does she not see her behaviour isn’t typical behaviour? Those genetics must have come from somewhere…
 
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Always desperate for a new diagnosis. I'm sure there's not a parent on earth who hasn't had their kids have a meltdown after a trip to the cinema. Not everything is about regulation, simulation, autism, adhd. Sometimes it's just very typical child behaviour. Did anyone catch her very bizarre rant about her ex ringing her wanting sex?
 
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