I don't want to sound like I'm victim blaming but there has to be more to her back story than she tells. Parents kicked her out so she doesn't speak to most of her family. Foster family asked her to leave and haven't spoken to her since. Partner has apparently decided that he doesn't want the family life with her anymore. Either she's had spectacularly had luck in life and she's only in her twenties or she's a bit of a nightmare.
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Her traumatic childhood in all likelihood will have a major influence how she makes and keeps her relationships. It has a major impact on our personality and how we function. Like I said it cannot be easy moving countries with two under 3. But at the same time she has been trying to move back she has been on luxury breaks- I know this would have been as ‘work’ as influencing is her income but she isn’t make it easy for herself. And the silence, then occasional ad, competition, then hints of what is going on all goes into attention seeking. She also doesn’t seem to know what her target audience is anymore.
Is she entitled to a council place as she’s basically homeless? Even if she’s got the funds to pay up to £2000PM or will she get emergency accommodation type of thing
I think her last two reels have really annoyed me. She knew for a good 6 months that she was moving back to the UK, but rather than prioritise finding a house and a stable environment for those boys she was too busy filming herself moaning about solo parenting and wanting a house which was insta worthy.
None of her stories add up from things to do with family, her childhood and the last 6 months.
I did start to feel sorry for her before but I can’t anymore. She needs to get off insta and stop trying to be an influencer. She needs to provide those boys with some stability. I really feel for those boys.
She doesn’t solo parent all of the time, she sends them to wherever and with whoever whenever she can. Their dad has also been involved but she will never say that because it doesn’t fit with her narrative.
This constant drip feeding of what has been going on for engagement is pathetic and she needs to get a grip.
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None of her stories add up from things to do with family, her childhood and the last 6 months.
I did start to feel sorry for her before but I can’t anymore. She needs to get off insta and stop trying to be an influencer. She needs to provide those boys with some stability. I really feel for those boys.
She doesn’t solo parent all of the time, she sends them to wherever and with whoever whenever she can. Their dad has also been involved but she will never say that because it doesn’t fit with her narrative.
This constant drip feeding of what has been going on for engagement is pathetic and she needs to get a grip.
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I don't understand where she's been living. Her second most recent reel said she was grateful to her friend as she's been living with her since she got back to the UK. The next reel said she'd been living in a hotel for 4 weeks.
I think she is just all over the place. The chaotic lifestyle is not great for the boys. You have it spot on about not having prioritised sorting out a base for the boys.
She did say she suddenly had to bring them back with her and miss that influencer event. I suspect some big falling out with those who had been having the boys while she was still in Cyprus. But again it was coming back for an influencer event, not prioritising some form of home.
Of course moving at a few months postpartum to another country was going to work so well. It probably wasn’t but it did seem very sudden when she did it. She has spent a small fortune on the move out, then those flights back and forth supposedly looking for a home. It just screams someone with very little forethought.
She did say she suddenly had to bring them back with her and miss that influencer event. I suspect some big falling out with those who had been having the boys while she was still in Cyprus. But again it was coming back for an influencer event, not prioritising some form of home.
Of course moving at a few months postpartum to another country was going to work so well. It probably wasn’t but it did seem very sudden when she did it. She has spent a small fortune on the move out, then those flights back and forth supposedly looking for a home. It just screams someone with very little forethought.
I’ve only just become aware of The Relaxed Mumma. I don’t really understand her. All this faffing about with Air BnBs and hotels, seems really strange.
Does she have any family support? Also, is she a bit shady in her labelling for the latest #ad for the phlebotomist? I thought it adverts should be clearly visible at the top of text, it buried in text.
Does she have any family support? Also, is she a bit shady in her labelling for the latest #ad for the phlebotomist? I thought it adverts should be clearly visible at the top of text, it buried in text.
I’ve only followed her since just before she went to live abroad.
as far as I’m aware she was in foster care? Or adopted and she doesn’t seem to have much support from whoever bought her up, or (foster?)parents
she was trying to rent all over Hertfordshire (up to 2k PM) but it was limited on properties, she lost out to others or it was dodgy.
ads should be marked clearly, pisses me off when they don’t mark it as they should. I didn’t even realise it was an ad
Anyone seen the comments on her reel with the blood test - seems quite a bit of backlash about calling herself homeless. I mean technically she is but they are right- it is not what you think of when you say homeless. Rage bating content.
yes its really making me cringe that “homeless” is her new theme for content that features on all posts
I see it’s still all about the engagement, and not about the wellbeing of those boys.
Her stories never add up and they change all the time. 6 months later she’s still banging on about how this one bad event occurred, but won’t say what it is because it means people message her.
It’s getting a bit 🥱
People are seeing through her and I don’t think she realises she is in a much better position than a lot of people.
Her stories never add up and they change all the time. 6 months later she’s still banging on about how this one bad event occurred, but won’t say what it is because it means people message her.
It’s getting a bit 🥱
People are seeing through her and I don’t think she realises she is in a much better position than a lot of people.
The local air bnbs for 2beds is about 1k A WEEK
I know she’s made it no secret she can actually afford these places but that’s just mental
The local hotel is also £191 a night, includes breakfast & dinner. So 7 nights is £1,337
I know she’s made it no secret she can actually afford these places but that’s just mental
The local hotel is also £191 a night, includes breakfast & dinner. So 7 nights is £1,337
She is another one on the hair and me. I’ve seen so many people doing skin and me, and hair and me. So another ad from her. Have to say I’m surprised the number of companies wanting to work with her at the moment as it isn’t like she is posting much otherwise.
Also noticed she said ‘we’ when talking from going from one to two children, plus she puts solo not single mum in her bio. I know people use the phrases interchangeably but solo suggests that she may still be with her partner.
At this point I don’t think she will ever share what happened. Just keep skirting around why she suddenly left Cyprus.
Also noticed she said ‘we’ when talking from going from one to two children, plus she puts solo not single mum in her bio. I know people use the phrases interchangeably but solo suggests that she may still be with her partner.
At this point I don’t think she will ever share what happened. Just keep skirting around why she suddenly left Cyprus.
“Homeless” but is having monthly facials and laser hair removal 
this woman boils my piss 
this woman boils my piss Convenient how she's worried about hair loss at the same time as lots of influencers are also advertising hair and me. She has such a low hairline and no hair loss despite her pulling it apart to make it look like she does.
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So she is abroad again. Don’t know if she is back in Cyprus or somewhere else.
Credit cards? I know brand deals and affiliate links pay well if you are big enough. But she hasn’t been posting consistently for 6 months now so how she is still getting deals I don’t know.God knows
Something or someone has got to be bank rolling her, the way she spends money is like she doesn’t even have to think about it