TheRelaxedMumma

[Loulouj]

Has she got 2 under 2? Cause she never mentions it

 

[Candycrush]

I don't want to sound like I'm victim blaming but there has to be more to her back story than she tells. Parents kicked her out so she doesn't speak to most of her family. Foster family asked her to leave and haven't spoken to her since. Partner has apparently decided that he doesn't want the family life with her anymore. Either she's had spectacularly had luck in life and she's only in her twenties or she's a bit of a nightmare.

 

[bswalks]

I’ve been getting the feeling for a while now that she was, and is, quite a problematic person.
1. For her biological family to surrender her to the system, given the amount of mediation that has to occur prior to that, she must have been an incredibly difficult child to the point of causing irreparable damage to home/family life.
2. The foster family who took her in, according to her, completely and totally dropped all contact with the child they’ve raised the second she is out of the house. If that doesn’t show they were completely relieved to see the back of her, I don’t know what does.
3. Her biological family again ceased all contact with her and her boys when they were just starting to heal their relationship.

Her relationship broke down, was on again off again, she’s pulling her kids from pillar to post on and off planes not knowing where they should live… the girl brings chaos. I’d imagine her families want to be out of the way of it. I can’t imagine leaving my child to social services, the only way I would envision doing that is if they were seriously detrimental to the wellbeing, mental or physical, of my other children. Not saying she hasn’t suffered from all that’s gone on in her life, but I can imagine the story runs much deeper than she says.

 

[Underthetabletop]

I’ve recently had her pushed in my algorithm and I’ve seen a post about her past. I’ve very confused at what actually happened to her. Her slides don’t make sense to me. Maybe I just need to read it when I’m not sleep deprived and ill.

She’s savvy. She’s had help that’s clear and someone to push her. Far too savvy for my liking. I question how true some stuff is. She mentions being home but sometimes that home looks no way like the uk for one…..
Her grid is all about being a care leaver and not having parents. She will argue blacks white with people that have lost parents that her stage is still worse. I get it, and she might feel bitter. But it doesn’t mean it’s above all other parent loss. She doesn’t always share the truth either about what happens, and she also doesn’t share the truth that compared to a lot of care leavers she’s doing really well in life- she’s doing better than a lot who were at home and shouldn’t have been.

She keeps the grift and ads for stories mainly and turns comments off for them. That way no one can call it out without a screenshot. She’s linked with omaze which I find odd for a low level socials person…. Deffo some string pulling there. She’s not trust worthy, I could see backstabbing with her.

 

[Bluebellpainting]

So she finally may have somewhere to live. She’s been saying that for months so we will see. I know that it is all clickbait and engagement chasing but this whole ‘my life changed in the most unimaginable way.’ is such crap. Either explain what happened or stop mentioning it. Her latest reel makes it sound like they lost their home suddenly when she had months of notice to sort out a rental. She even says it hasn’t been good for her boys- well it is your own doing. You could prioritised sorting a home for them 6 months ago. Also disappointed momcozy have partnered with her, I liked their stuff with my little one.

 

[Chatterbox2412]

I don’t understand her story!
Services for kids in need are notoriously stretched with a shortage of people willing to foster or adopt, so surely her parents couldn’t just put her in care cos they didn’t like her attitude at 12 years old? There must be much more to it than what she is saying!

 

[Pjta]

Ceiling fans and imported car from Albania I'm thinking the house is Cyprus?

 

[canthelpitsoz]

So she finally may have somewhere to live. She’s been saying that for months so we will see. I know that it is all clickbait and engagement chasing but this whole ‘my life changed in the most unimaginable way.’ is such crap. Either explain what happened or stop mentioning it. Her latest reel makes it sound like they lost their home suddenly when she had months of notice to sort out a rental. She even says it hasn’t been good for her boys- well it is your own doing. You could prioritised sorting a home for them 6 months ago. Also disappointed momcozy have partnered with her, I liked their stuff with my little one.

This exactly! She's been living too long now on the mystery of what happened and why she had to leave. And I'm sorry...she could find somewhere to live....but she just may have to compromise her expectations slightly for the good of her boys and wait for the big exciting Instagram worthy house to come later!

 

[Loulouj]

Something is very off about this girl. She is clearly lying about her life. If you look on her old insta before she made the relaxed mamma one she has been jet setting to 5 star resorts around the world from 18. Her 18th birthday she’s pictured with a Louis Vuitton bag. Did her social worker buy her that obviously not so who did? The family who abandoned her? Pictures with selfridges bags on shopping trips. Trips to Maldives. Who funded all this before she was making money on social media? I think she is lying about her family. She’s already said they had good jobs and a big house. I don’t think her family abandoned her atall and I think they’ve been funding her life prior and she was more than happy to take their money. No child who was a care leaver has a life like that. It’s the very opposite not fancy holidays and designer handbags. She’s lying.

I did some scrolling on her old insta whilst I was sat outside my little one’s door waiting for them to sleep .

She claims that once she turned 18 her foster family kicked her out. But yet according to her old insta she went to Mexico for her 18th and then all of the following trips after that and before her 19th birthday:

Manchester

Rome

Magaluf

Brighton

A festival

Fuerteventura

London


I’ve worked with teenagers and young adults for a long time, and some have been care leavers. None of the care leavers had these opportunities when they left care at 18. They were dumped in a flat with basic benefits, no support and expected to fend for themselves. No way would they have been off on all of these trips and buying designer clothes.

I’m not saying she wasn’t in foster care, but someone was funding her lifestyle and someone still does.

I think it’s time for me to unfollow her now as I can’t listen to her drivel anymore.

 

[Anotherusernamerequired]

Who is this woman? She just came up on my for you page saying she’s homeless but eating food from M&S make it make sense?? It’s insulting to the people out there actually struggling!

 

[mindlessness]

Her latest reel popped up on my explore page, talking about moving back to cypress. It was a very frantic voice over - a little at odds with her insta handle

 

[Loulouj]

Still hasn’t announced where (unless I missed it) but moved abroad again. Dragging around kids so young and not having any routine or normality for them. She’s flashing cash like no tomorrow and is so un relatable now.

She’s dragging it out again because it’s all for the engagement. I’m 99.9% certain she’s back in Cyprus

 

[Bluebellpainting]

Her traumatic childhood in all likelihood will have a major influence how she makes and keeps her relationships. It has a major impact on our personality and how we function. Like I said it cannot be easy moving countries with two under 3. But at the same time she has been trying to move back she has been on luxury breaks- I know this would have been as ‘work’ as influencing is her income but she isn’t make it easy for herself. And the silence, then occasional ad, competition, then hints of what is going on all goes into attention seeking. She also doesn’t seem to know what her target audience is anymore.

 

[Candycrush]

She comes across as so smug whenever she talks can't believe how much she's selling on vinted that she either did ads for or got as PR. It's all brand new so clearly didn't love it as much as she claimed.

 

[Yumyumbumbum]

She triggers me tbh. Saying her positive births were due to mindset. Oh do fuck off! People with traumatic births normally blame themselves and feel guilty. She just screams spoilt brat. She really is a vile little madam. So smug and obnoxious

 

[Sazzlepants]

Apparently she's going to be homeless. So insulting to leople who actually experience homelessness. She's moving to Cyprus and living with her partner. That's not homeless? Also she was slagging off living in Stevenage. She acts like she's posh or something.

I've always thought her setup was a bit strange. I don't really understand what or who she is influencing. She's posted some fairly dangerous posts around her second child. I'm relieved he's here safely but she was suggesting things like inductions were never ok etc (I know higher risk of interventions but they aren't all bad, I had one which was fine) which could have been really damaging to people expecting a baby. I commented on her post and she blocked me.

 

[Loulouj]

Does anyone else just think her page just doesn’t know what it is?

I think she’s just desperate to be an influencer.

The whole mum page didn’t take off, she’s not relatable and is just stealing other people’s content, which everyone else has probably already seen.

Is she going down the fashion route now for the affiliate links?

 

[Loulouj]

She comes across as so smug whenever she talks can't believe how much she's selling on vinted that she either did ads for or got as PR. It's all brand new so clearly didn't love it as much as she claimed.

I’ve been reporting her to ASA for not declaring things as Ads . Thought I’d do something productive with my insomnia.

 

[ShhItsASecret]

I’m curious if anyone here follows Lauren?
My god, she just comes across as so desperate to be liked. I don’t know how she’s carved out this mummy blogger ‘job’, as it’s just regurgitated posts from other people.

Her videos are so narcissistic- I just don’t get it. Am I alone?

 

[Lookingaround0987]

same- she came up on mine too. I initially felt sad for her but I watched a few more videos and it was like “yeah just been to view a house but I can’t fit a dining table in so it’s a no”. I mean really? Surely you’d just be happy it was in a safe area??

She was looking at renting private places for up to 2k a month. So she’s not exactly homeless. She can afford it but can’t get accepted due to high demand apparently. She’s been in air b&bs and hotels and now abroad lol. I don’t think she should be using “homeless” because like has been said it’s a far reality to real homelessness.
She’s been spotted in the council offices too but nothing seems to of come about that yet unless it’s in progress behind the scenes