TheRelaxedMumma

[nalala]

Something is very off about this girl. She is clearly lying about her life. If you look on her old insta before she made the relaxed mamma one she has been jet setting to 5 star resorts around the world from 18. Her 18th birthday she’s pictured with a Louis Vuitton bag. Did her social worker buy her that obviously not so who did? The family who abandoned her? Pictures with selfridges bags on shopping trips. Trips to Maldives. Who funded all this before she was making money on social media? I think she is lying about her family. She’s already said they had good jobs and a big house. I don’t think her family abandoned her atall and I think they’ve been funding her life prior and she was more than happy to take their money. No child who was a care leaver has a life like that. It’s the very opposite not fancy holidays and designer handbags. She’s lying.

 

[Loulouj]

Something is very off about this girl. She is clearly lying about her life. If you look on her old insta before she made the relaxed mamma one she has been jet setting to 5 star resorts around the world from 18. Her 18th birthday she’s pictured with a Louis Vuitton bag. Did her social worker buy her that obviously not so who did? The family who abandoned her? Pictures with selfridges bags on shopping trips. Trips to Maldives. Who funded all this before she was making money on social media? I think she is lying about her family. She’s already said they had good jobs and a big house. I don’t think her family abandoned her atall and I think they’ve been funding her life prior and she was more than happy to take their money. No child who was a care leaver has a life like that. It’s the very opposite not fancy holidays and designer handbags. She’s lying.

I did some scrolling on her old insta whilst I was sat outside my little one’s door waiting for them to sleep .

She claims that once she turned 18 her foster family kicked her out. But yet according to her old insta she went to Mexico for her 18th and then all of the following trips after that and before her 19th birthday:

Manchester

Rome

Magaluf

Brighton

A festival

Fuerteventura

London


I’ve worked with teenagers and young adults for a long time, and some have been care leavers. None of the care leavers had these opportunities when they left care at 18. They were dumped in a flat with basic benefits, no support and expected to fend for themselves. No way would they have been off on all of these trips and buying designer clothes.

I’m not saying she wasn’t in foster care, but someone was funding her lifestyle and someone still does.

I think it’s time for me to unfollow her now as I can’t listen to her drivel anymore.

 

[Laney35]

Wow I unfollowed her months ago and she appeared again and nothings changed every reel is, care leaver, mum to 2 boys. Must be nice to think you can save 100k in a year.

 

[Chatterbox2412]

I don’t understand her story!
Services for kids in need are notoriously stretched with a shortage of people willing to foster or adopt, so surely her parents couldn’t just put her in care cos they didn’t like her attitude at 12 years old? There must be much more to it than what she is saying!

 

[Loulouj]

I don’t understand her story!
Services for kids in need are notoriously stretched with a shortage of people willing to foster or adopt, so surely her parents couldn’t just put her in care cos they didn’t like her attitude at 12 years old? There must be much more to it than what she is saying!

From my experience, social services will try to work with the family first, putting children in to care is the last thing they want to do. There is definitely more to the story that she is not being honest about.

 

[nalala]

She is 100% lying about her story for engagement. She’s travelled the world off her rich parents and been on several extravagant shopping sprees! I think this girl has major issues tbh

 

[Underthetabletop]

I don’t understand her story!
Services for kids in need are notoriously stretched with a shortage of people willing to foster or adopt, so surely her parents couldn’t just put her in care cos they didn’t like her attitude at 12 years old? There must be much more to it than what she is saying!

So basically you can request for a child to go into care. But there is a lot of work done before that happens. A point she ignores. And probably because she was off the scenes for it, kids don’t go to parent assessments. But for a 25 year old care leaver she is surviving better than some. She will have had support but her life is way beyond most. She needs to be saying she is posting from her experience because a lot of it is. And not the same as other peoples tbh. But she’s acting the font of all knowledge, and hates being challenged by others who know.
It is what it is. I get that for her there’s a lot of processing, but that’s not all she’s about and she has a hook now. And being in care isn’t a thing to monetise.

 

[LizSmithqwerty]

I’ve never known someone have so many spa days but I’m watching with interest to see when she gets a mortgage and saves this 100k

 

[bswalks]

I’ve been getting the feeling for a while now that she was, and is, quite a problematic person.
1. For her biological family to surrender her to the system, given the amount of mediation that has to occur prior to that, she must have been an incredibly difficult child to the point of causing irreparable damage to home/family life.
2. The foster family who took her in, according to her, completely and totally dropped all contact with the child they’ve raised the second she is out of the house. If that doesn’t show they were completely relieved to see the back of her, I don’t know what does.
3. Her biological family again ceased all contact with her and her boys when they were just starting to heal their relationship.

Her relationship broke down, was on again off again, she’s pulling her kids from pillar to post on and off planes not knowing where they should live… the girl brings chaos. I’d imagine her families want to be out of the way of it. I can’t imagine leaving my child to social services, the only way I would envision doing that is if they were seriously detrimental to the wellbeing, mental or physical, of my other children. Not saying she hasn’t suffered from all that’s gone on in her life, but I can imagine the story runs much deeper than she says.

 

[Underthetabletop]

Hmm. So she wasn’t going to use her story for gain. But now she needs income from ads for buying her house. Out it comes!

 

[usernamew]

I just found this thread. Yeah glad I’m not the only one confused by it all.
Where is she even living now? Uk or abroad?
Is the dad from cyrprus?

 

[snarkydad]

Sorry she’s buying a 400k house how??

 

[LizSmithqwerty]

Sorry she’s buying a 400k house how??

Nevermind her buying a £400,000 house, it’s how she says “houses” that’s really grinding my gears

 

[Loulouj]

Is anyone else sceptical about her buying this house?

Buying a £400,000 house on her own, self-employed, debt and a bad credit score?
Also find it really odd that she’s not mentioning interest rates or how they’ve changed with everything going on in the world.

 

[mindlesswaffle]

Is anyone else sceptical about her buying this house?

Buying a £400,000 house on her own, self-employed, debt and a bad credit score?
Also find it really odd that she’s not mentioning interest rates or how they’ve changed with everything going on in the world.

Why is there always drama around her with everything she does. Also in her latest story she mentions we and I got the impression she was buying with someone rather than herself as she is trying to portray.

 

[Sunlifeover50]

I thought it was so rude filming inside other peoples houses when she was doing the viewings especially the one with the kids bedroom which felt really off

 

[Loulouj]

Why is there always drama around her with everything she does. Also in her latest story she mentions we and I got the impression she was buying with someone rather than herself as she is trying to portray.

I definitely think there is someone else involved in buying this house, there’s no way she is doing it on her own

 

[Loulouj]

Doesn’t want to show her kids on social media anymore, fair enough. But happy to show them half naked when it’s for an undeclared ad