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basketcase123

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Sorry for the questions that you’ve all probably answered a million times, but I’m new here and confused! Does she not do the night feeds because she doesn’t want to get up for them? Is that why she’s saying he’s having them tonight because a carer is in? Thanks! X
 
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Haj7000

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Just speaking from experience - my toddler was in small nappies for quite as he had such skinny legs. If I tried to size him up, the nappies wouldn’t go effectively around his legs and he would leak out of them.

Perhaps, since J doesn’t walk, his thighs are smaller so it’s likely he can’t size up as he would leak out the legs?

Regarding this...when lockdown started and the nappy hoarding started she said she needed size 3 nappies, I think it was? She received some messages then from people telling her he needed to be in bigger nappies and she was insistent that he was wearing the right size. My daughter is small for her age and we have always had to size up her nappies for absorbency about a kilo before she meets the size range on the packetotherwise she wees through them.The tabs end up crossing over but you just do em up tight enough! When you see Js nappies you can see that the tabs barely reach the front. They are far far too small. He was bigger then my kid (she was posting his weight all the time) and she was wearing larger nappies then him.We literally have one incident where she’s weed through her nappy at night and we size her up for nights (and then days follow). Shes healthy, no issues whatsoever, she isn’t over producing pee, it’s just that the numbers on the packets are a guide and they have a big overlap between sizes for a reason.
 
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Basicbasic

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Shes busy writing her own questions now in the box 😂
1. How can we help you
2. Will you have to quit your job if your losing carers
3. How are you going to cope
4. Why cant you do feeds at night without carers
5. Please start a fundraiser

Then she can use them to do her sob story explanations and Bob's your uncle a new fundraiser will be set up before christmas, even though she has carers till Feb, because then she can buy herself some gifts because she deserves it and Jaxon some ...books
Wow. Spot on with the questions you predicted !
 
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Puglypoohead

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With people like her, they eventually trip themselves up. I'm sure she is being watched, its just a waiting game
 
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AreYouJoking?

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I wasted a good hour or so trying to find out where J’s latest trashy looking designer trainers were from and now it turns out they are RI 🤮
Although I’m kind of pleased I thought I’d lost my knack of putting a price tag on her lavish purchases!
 
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Life88

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Gosh this is all really sad. I don't have Instagram any more but it always made me uncomfortable how much she shared of J.
 

TwinkleTwinkle21

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I can imagine her saying to professionals of J’s care “I know what I’m on about; I’m a nurse”.
Can totally see her doing this too! 😂

It’s like when she keeps saying she’s the one telling the dieticians etc what he needs and she is the one advising them how to do their job!!
 

Schnoodle123

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What’s the thing with the hospice? Are you allowed to go out of the country? I don’t understand at all why would you do that!
 

MrsJones83

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Her name on the register will have to be the same as all official documents, like her passport. I had to send my passport off with my registration application.

The temporary Covid register is for any of the people that have retired or left their job and asked to come back to help with the covid situation.

I reckon though she would have registered as soon as she had confirmation of her qualifying. If you don’t register with it a certain amount of time the qualification can become nul as you’ve not been practicing, unless you can prove you have been doing things to prevent deskilling. It’s all really strict.
I think I remember her saying something about it when she started her job, I think that was one of the reasons she started work.
Although I’ve never felt like it was a job she’d love, it came across as more of a status thing.
 

TwinkleTwinkle21

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Other than the fact she loves this question because she has some weird obsession with letting everyone know she hasn’t always been straight or may have been with a girl... I then thought, even IF her friend was in the childcare bubble, which she isn’t, I’m fairly certain that doesn’t involve having a f*ucking bath together.

I think she has a drink and completely forgets what stories she had told, because she’s contradicted herself a LOT.. and then puts on that annoyingly whiny wannabe posh voice and give a sob story about whatever she chooses on that day and all is forgiven
 

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Has she ever said what decision she got with regards to what level of motability they decided? I hope they didnt get the top rate. Prob didnt mention his milestones back in may because she was trying to sort out his application so she could get the merc.


@Oneofthesencommunity its high rate. It’s the only rate which allows you to apply for a motability car. And she sent off the form when he was 2yrs and 9 months old (that’s the absolute earliest you can apply for a change of circumstance to receive the high rate which only comes into effect when a child is 3) I know that because I have a DM from her saying so. He was 3 in august so do the math. Wasn’t that a convenient time to miss out some critical milestones? 🤦🏻‍♀️
Didnt she get the merc before the decision had come through? I'm sure someone said on here she jumped the gun and got the merc without receiving the decision and knowing if they would actually get the higher rate of motability?
 
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