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Basicbasic

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Yesterday was sickening exploitation of a disabled child....'guys j has a hospital appointment, I feel sick... If you want to help then go like and share my ad for skin cream.'... here's a few shots of my disabled child in case you're undecided about helping me become Insta famous. If you want to sell fanny pads and cream go ahead, but what had any of that got to with having a disabled child? Weall know you've got enough money for you and him to live comfortably.
 
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Pollyponsonby

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I see she’s now got her gifted teeth stuff.

what is due next?

• the bed (and bedding that goes with it)
• Something to do with fitness? Wouldn’t put it past her to start advertising those shit shakes
• cat food (haven’t seen them in a while, are they perished in the cat cupboard)
You know what, even after everything, I could maybe scrape together a tiny bit of respect if she chose her adverts for things which benefit J.
But NOTHING ever is. It’s all me me me
She was gifted the Tubie clothes but just wrote ‘No an add or Aff’ then the £160 ‘a whole toothbrush’ set and then roughly £200 of benefit makeup with the caption ‘Also got this bad boy in the post! After sharing my love for @benefitcosmetics concealer on my life the other morning’ Ehhh? Yesterday you said you swore by Beauty Pie,Influencer lies and deceptions are getting crazier by the day.
I think she was sent the ‘whole’ toothbrush and xmas wreath out of sympathy after her ‘Poor poor me and my son, we are so poor we have to have a shitty pop up second hand tree and no presents’ I bet a huge tree will arrive,the equivalent of a silver grey crushed velvet sofa but a xmas tree,covered in all grey and cream fake flowers and ribbons 🤮 And her followers will say ‘Babe,you really deserve it hun’

My son brings all the cash to my yard,
I treat his Doctors with total disregard
Cos My views are better than theirs ...
 
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Bunbun1

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Her son always seems to gain weight in hospital and lose it when home with her, does she just not feed him properly?! The amount of times she says she’s missed medicines and feeds and slept through alarms it’s heartbreaking 😭
The Kaytee feeding plan cycle:

J admitted to hospital
Kaytee posts a boomerang on stories either rolling her eyes or visibly sighing saying they’re waiting for a dietician
Kaytee posts a story with pic of her face palming bemoaning that the dietician is writing a new plan
J discharged with dietician plan
Kaytee posts a story with a pic of an open word doc on laptop screen headed “Feeding Plan [date]
Objective: To reduce vomiting and strain on parent carer” text box telling us she has to do *so many* roles including be a dietician. There might be a few stories explaining how unsupportive the actual dieticians are that write plans with Js nutrition in mind and not her
Kaytee ignores the dieticians feeding plan and goes by her feeding plan.
J loses weight
Kaytee just can’t understand *why* and it’s all so very hard on *her* and such a struggle
J admitted to hospital and it starts again
 
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Nightfury

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She is a fraudster! How many SEN parents have hot tubs in their gardens? Or constantly stay at hotels? She no longer has any credibility for me.
She wants to have an affluent lifestyle which is funded by her followers! All she cares about is labels and designer items. She used to give back to others now and again, but now is just consumed by greed.
 
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Chipstiz

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I think she said she puts a lot on credit because she's mindful that Jaxon may not always be here so she wants to make the memories while she can. I like her and I just can't get worked up about her tbh. She might moan abit but so what, we all do. I wouldn't want to swap lives with her and constantly be worrying about my child's health, and I think she copes really well.
 
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Chipstiz

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I've been calling myself a mum for the past few years but I might change that to unpaid babysitter
 
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LividLalji

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Well my thread just got interesting ☕ 🐸 shout out to the admins for letting it stay for so long, I really thought I would be banned from Tattle by now for creating this one 🤣🤣
 
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Starrysky

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So I had a read of this thread yesterday. Normally with SEN parents I leave well alone, but Kaytee has changed big time and I wanted to see if others opinions were the same as mine. They were.

She really has changed so much and I just can’t understand her extravagance. She must be using the fundraising money surely? I mean, who can afford a hot tub on a whim like that?

I work in the NHS too, full time. My husband also works full time. I looked at the prices of the Shard hotel (can’t remember the name of it 😂) and nearly fell over. We are debt free and after our bills we are comfortable. But I definitely could not justify staying there unless it was a big occasion. Even on a credit card, it still had to be paid. With the benefits she will receive she needs to be careful showing what she spends otherwise they will be capped further.

She must be earning a decent amount from ads to have a management team now, as they don’t come cheap.

Then the kittens 🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh my! I have owned cats for a long time so watching how those poor kittens are treated is breaking my heart. (I won’t use his name either) Her son isn’t to blame, young children do grab. As the kittens get older though their teeth and claws are going to hurt him. She will then blame the cats for hurting her son. Don’t even get me started on the 100% dry diet for them. Especially as boys, this could cause them urinary tract issues that can be fatal. Seeing her story this morning makes me think she has read here and sent herself a message 😂

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She is all about the money and self importance now. ‘Oh look at me I am a nurse I’m important’ yes nurses and all members of the NHS are important but the rest of us don’t hold the same self importance. I sometimes lie when people ask me what I do during the current situation 😂😂

The self importance raised again when she went on about people who do fillers that aren’t nurses. ‘I have the kit to stop reactions’ meh meh meh. Unless you have experience of anaphylaxis your kit means nothing. When I was new in my job my experience from placements was very little and I still needed to ask help and advice. All the gear and no idea as they would say.

She seems to lack friends too. Even pre Covid, she never really spoke of or met up with friends. I guess everyone knew what she was like.

I’ll hand it to her, she’s a good mum, I wouldn’t ever knock that. But the dishonesty and self importance needs to be reigned in.
 
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Faye89

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saying she couldn’t afford books for her child a few days ago but Multiple PT sessions in a week.

how can she claim she has no time or money?
 
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I’mThankyou_

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Im sorry but if she’s quit her job and her “job” is now ad’s on Instagram she can feed him overnight without carers like many other parents do running on no sleep. But no Princess Kaytee can’t she needs her precious sleep. It’s all about her, no concern for J. She’s not bothered J has lost carers she’s bothered she has.
 
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Sendparent

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She can’t be reading here. If I read here after displaying these behaviours I’d be mortified but yet tonight it’s like she has maybe read here and has been reminded of all the things she has to do on her stories- woah, I’m so perplexed by it all?!!😱🤯
Ehcp admin - check ✔
Medication laid out for sympathy - check✔
Story about vomiting all over bed - check✔

Stories coming soon ...

1 Mental health/ptsd/I'm triggered posts
2 Jaxon covered in urine
3 Jaxon vomiting
4 Cleaning vomit off his bed
5 Some shots of the washer and a pile of sheets
6 Running upstairs to switch his alarm off
7 Hospital admission due to low potassium now that's shes messing with his feeds again
8 Missed feeds and meds due to tiredness
9 Stories asking for local cleaners because she hasnt got time
10 Stories about how much carers cost and only being able to afford 1 night and half a day
11 Late/middle of the night stories to show she has been up with him
12 Question box asking for ideas on what to do and she will say everyone is telling her to start a fundraiser again but she feels she cant
13 Stories thanking her influencer friends for setting up a new fundraiser 'even though she never asked them to'
 
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YomAsal

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well I feel like Ive found my people here :ROFLMAO: I knew a few of my SEN instafam knew exactly what she was like but it seems to be more widespread than I realised, now how do I find you all on insta without outing ourselves?!
 
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noobie123

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I’m seriously questioning this girl, her obsession with continuing healthcare seems to be putting Jaxon at risk. There. I said it!!!

How is it when he’s in hospital he gains a tonne of weight and has no vomit episodes, yet at home he looses weight and vomits everyday? Am I missing something here?
 
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Pollyponsonby

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The baby monitor thing... I think my kid is a fairly ok sleeper. They have bad nights of course, but on the whole OK.
They will change position frequently during the night and the baby monitor picks up the sound of the bedding rustling. I don’t have the monitor she does but I would expect to see movement detected throughout the night and sound associated with that. Sometimes they cry out very suddenly and calm themselves straightaway but one of us will go in a few times in the night to pass a dummy from the floor or untangle the blankets. I think, if we had that, it would look very similar. Alerts all night long giving the impression of a poor sleep when actually it’s not too bad at all for a young child. Ours wouldn’t have temp alerts all night tho, we have a warm house but I don’t run the heating all night!
She shows the baby monitor and images of vomit when she need sympathy and praise. I predict she will show some graphic vomits and sleepless nights soon followed by leaving her job and doing another fundraiser to pay for private carers.As another SEN parent has said on this thread they can only dream of the luxury lifestyle she lives.
Kaytee is a narcissistic manipulative fraudster .
 
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Spyglass

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The woman has had all day to herself (guessing that's it with the nursing now? Probably been sacked but will think of some excuse for it to not be her fault.. She's never in the wrong is she 🙄). She's been for a run... Took a bath... Probably posed in front of the famous bloody kitten cupboard and posed on the staircase with her set up insta wanking backdrop (candles and a print randomly placed) setting up more adverts.
Then when it's time for her son to be home with his mummy who he's probably missed whilst being at school.... She carries on her work and leaves him to play with the ipad.

Films him playing alone on his car to show that he plays. Then that's her done for day.... Theb the next day he shall be at school whilst she prance around thinking she's ever so busy having her PT sessions and probably sat in Js hot tub cackling at everyone whose donated thinking... Idiots. Then picks up her son and chucks him his ipad.. Then it starts all over again.
Oh wait I forget.... The carers 60hours so she won't need to deal with her son through the night as she has her "night shift" to look forward to.

She never has her son. Then when she does have him... She never plays with him. I feel sorry for the poor boy. He should be playing with his mummy. Doing arts and crafts.... Baking together. Reading. Sadly I think non of that goes on. The only Input it seems is his school and the god damn kittens 😂 think she got them as child care too. Chuck him a kitten to play with and she'll be child free.

Not all parents of SEN children use carers. The ones I know of have children who are more severely mobility impaired and having higher medical needs. Then there's her doing her hardest to justify getting continuing care when.... Her son doesn't need oxygen. Doesn't have seizures. Doesn't need suctioning. Doesn't need chest physio and turning in the night. Doesn't have pressure sores. He doesn't qualify.... Because he doesn't have high medical and physical needs. End of.
Whilst she's trying to justify keeping his 60hour care package... On top of school hours... On top of his dad having him... There are parents who struggle getting any help. Who DO QUALIFY. She's had an extension on her care package that should of ended last year... But because it's kaytee she's had special treatment because she's been on TV and radio.....
But what about the parents who don't get special treatment!? How is her care any different to anyone else's?

The woman bangs on about privalage but doesn't see she's in a better off position than many sen parents. Any parents of neurotypical children too!
 
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Pollyponsonby

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And what do you think having read through the thread so far?
I mean, you’re not wrong - she does everything for her kid but there’s also a lot of question marks over her income/lifestyle/attitude outside of being a parent. But she doesn’t like you to talk about that 🤫
Most mothers in this world dedicate their lives to their children.I follow several SEN parents on instagram and they have all unfollowed her due to her greed,lies and lack of gratitude towards the millions of pounds that have been spent on her and her son by the NHS.
She moans about her new build council house not being big enough for all of her son’s equipment and now wants to buy a three bedroom house.I read her post about buying a house the same time I saw another SEN parent post about not having any physio,medical appointments, or equipment ( the child had outgrown everything) due to Covid they are shielding and have not left the house since March.
She has just had a personal trainer session! She used to use the rich fiancé if anyone asked how she could possibly afford so many holidays and hand bags, he is no longer on the scene and 8 days a month on entry level nursing pay does not warrant such luxuries.
I used to like her,in fact I donated £50 towards the standing chair she couldn’t afford that actually turned out to be funded! Then the racist Suzie Jervil stepped in...

I don’t mind her - I think she’s a fantastic mum, she clearly loves Jaxon more than life itself and he always looks clean, well dressed and most importantly happy! I don’t care too much about what she does with the money because 🤷🏽‍♀️ it is hers and she does also deserve some luxuries. The camping trip did rile me a bit though, I think there is a difference between something not being your ‘thing’ and ripping a small business apart. It also made me cringe that it was at the peak of covid when small travel companies were really struggling 😖 the owner could potentially have lost a lot of sales and business from someone posting stuff like that to a large following!
But it’s not hers! It was given to provide equipment for her son. Staying in £600 a night hotel rooms and driving a top of the range Mercedes does not benefit his well-being!
 
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The other SEN mum who is incredible and such a lovely woman, lives in dubai. She herself has a child with disabilities. She picked kaytee up from the airport, was there to meet them, bought her food shop for her stay. Was there for the majority of kaytees stay. Not quite the single mum trip with no help at all facade she was showing on Instagram.
I believe she stayed at the five palm jumeirah, which is an expensive hotel.
When kaytee got back she then proceeded to post photos of herself and Jaxon. No mention of the help she'd recieved whilst over there. Then ignored the other SEN mum and wouldn't pay her money back that this other mum had lent her.
It was only when the other mum spoke out and a few months after did nursemum acknowledge the lady and still to this day hasnt ever thanked her for all the help she did.
This lady also got all of kaytees followers bombarding her, she had to go private.
Sadly she isn't on Instagram any more which is a real shame as she was so brave calling her out.
There has also been one or two other accounts (SEN Parents) who have also done the same. Shared their thoughts and opinions on their platforms and I know one sen mum I follow was publicly named by kaytee. Kaytee posted quite a number of stories calling her quite a number of disgusting things. Shared a screenshot with the SEN mums name and then that lady (who I believe was staying in a children's hospice at the time with her daughter) was again bombarded with kaytees followers. Kaytee basically told everyone if they were following this account she didn't want them following her.
When people do voice their opinions, they are shut up. She takes to her stories and makes out these mums are trolls, that they are jealous... When in fact these mums have had enough of one person declaring herself as the voice for a large community and portraying their life in the light she casts.
Which isn't the life of a SEN parent.

The dubai mum needs to come back on insta, shes missed by many but it would unsettle Kaytee at the same time by showing her she cant bully people so they leave.

She told everyone she had to stay in a average style apartment because she couldnt afford a hotel as she would need a suite to do Js feeds and meds but take a look at the five palm jumeirah, not exactly a shit hole is it. It's a luxury hotel and resort. Kind of insulting when the dubai mum had sourced suitable accommodation, booked and paid for it and bought groceries for when she arrived so she had nothing to worry about.

People have advocated for sen families to help make people understand how hard things are in the hope that the government listens and funds the system correctly but now they have the best thing they could ask for - the nursemum - A woman claiming to be our voice who's teaching thousands of people sen parents have it that bad we can afford £710 trainers, Mercedes, designer bags and clothes, luxury foreign holidays, we can afford to stay at top london hotels when we go to GOSH and we all moan because it's not enough and we are hard done by. Well done Kaytee if your reading this! Thanks for causing damage to the perception of life as a sen family, it's just what the sen community needed. Not.

It could cause serious consequences if her platform continues to grow and more people think this is normal. She must understand that but she just doesn't care, aslong as shes doing better than anyone else, I dont think she will consider the impact she could have on everyone else.
 
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Here4thetea

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Wow this thread is a real eye opener. I’ve followed her for over a year and really believed everything she was saying to begin with. I started to have some doubts and looked for a thread to see if I was imagining this but there wasn’t one. Glad to find one now. It sounds stupid but I didn’t even know the tube could be disconnected as it’s always shown dragging around or poking out his top. Why on earth isn’t she removing it. From reading the thread I can see why the SEN community have distanced themselves from her.
 
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LividLalji

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New thread suggestion

Kaytee’s showing off all her notifications for Tinder, but in reality we’re only following for the day she ends up on Judge Rinder

🤣🤣🤣
 
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