So I had a read of this thread yesterday. Normally with SEN parents I leave well alone, but Kaytee has changed big time and I wanted to see if others opinions were the same as mine. They were.
She really has changed so much and I just can’t understand her extravagance. She must be using the fundraising money surely? I mean, who can afford a hot tub on a whim like that?
I work in the NHS too, full time. My husband also works full time. I looked at the prices of the Shard hotel (can’t remember the name of it

) and nearly fell over. We are debt free and after our bills we are comfortable. But I definitely could not justify staying there unless it was a big occasion. Even on a credit card, it still had to be paid. With the benefits she will receive she needs to be careful showing what she spends otherwise they will be capped further.
She must be earning a decent amount from ads to have a management team now, as they don’t come cheap.
Then the kittens

Oh my! I have owned cats for a long time so watching how those poor kittens are treated is breaking my heart. (I won’t use his name either) Her son isn’t to blame, young children do grab. As the kittens get older though their teeth and claws are going to hurt him. She will then blame the cats for hurting her son. Don’t even get me started on the 100% dry diet for them. Especially as boys, this could cause them urinary tract issues that can be fatal. Seeing her story this morning makes me think she has read here and sent herself a message
She is all about the money and self importance now. ‘Oh look at me I am a nurse I’m important’ yes nurses and all members of the NHS are important but the rest of us don’t hold the same self importance. I sometimes lie when people ask me what I do during the current situation

The self importance raised again when she went on about people who do fillers that aren’t nurses. ‘I have the kit to stop reactions’ meh meh meh. Unless you have experience of anaphylaxis your kit means nothing. When I was new in my job my experience from placements was very little and I still needed to ask help and advice. All the gear and no idea as they would say.
She seems to lack friends too. Even pre Covid, she never really spoke of or met up with friends. I guess everyone knew what she was like.
I’ll hand it to her, she’s a good mum, I wouldn’t ever knock that. But the dishonesty and self importance needs to be reigned in.