I'm not sure what she expected having children would be like. They need you. They're noisy and messy and take up space. She seems to resent them for it.
My kid loves to jiggle my belly. She thinks it’s wonderful that bellies jiggle. She’s not being mean or hurtful because she doesn’t know yet that society puts a higher value on flat firm bellies. To her my belly is
. She will jiggle it and exclaim I am beautiful in the same breath. 
just looked on Trainline and it’s around £44 for a return Market Harborough - London (and that’s WITH a railcard, would be more if she didn’t have one). I completely agree. It’s a real narc trait to look at the actions or words of a child and treat them as if they have malicious intent, as if the child were an adult. Wobbly is a descriptive word not a nasty word. Much like ‘fat’. The body shaming aspect is only appropriate when you understand that society sees that thing as a negative. Maybe she’s being silly and making a joke. But for someone who talks about narc parents she displays narc traits a lot even if as a joke.My kid loves to jiggle my belly. She thinks it’s wonderful that bellies jiggle. She’s not being mean or hurtful because she doesn’t know yet that society puts a higher value on flat firm bellies. To her my belly is
Boobs are meant to be wobbly. It’s normal for a 40 odd year old woman’s boobs to wobble. For me the question is why is Anna calling it body shaming? Do we think that young child intends to shame her mother for having perfectly normal breasts for her age OR is she just observing her mothers body as it is without judgement?
If she is passing judgement and shaming her mother why does she believe at such a young age that boobs shouldn’t be wobbly?
obvs paying for them this time as she’s not marked it as an ad
